I am Susie O'Connell and Howard provided this story about his "first time" with Colleen (and Colleen's first time). I was going to mention part of this in one of my stories but Howard (with help from Colleen) tells the complete story.
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My name is Howard Duncan. This story is about my 20th birthday "present" from Colleen.
If you have read the stories about how I met Colleen you know that I'm sort of a "geek" and never felt I was attractive to girls but for some reason Colleen was attracted to me. Despite being very attractive she had little experience with boys because her parents were very protective. You would also know that while discussing whether to attend a "skinny dipping" party at Corey Daniels' father's mansion she made it clear she wanted to lose her virginity to me as a "present" for both of us on my 20th birthday.
Colleen is a good gymnast and a champion diver. I go to her meets at the State college where she attends on an athletic scholarship and I often pick her up after gymnastics practice. Sometimes she waits until the women's locker room has cleared out and disrobes for me. I always return the favor by lowering my pants so she can see and feel me too.
Telling Colleen's Parents
As my birthday approached our conversations frequently turned to the subject of what we were going to do.
"I'm not sure I can wait for your birthday to have sex," was one of her frequent comments. For some reason she didn't want to use the pill and didn't think condoms were very effective. She was carefully following her ovulation symptoms and was positive she could tell when she was fertile so she would usually follow that comment with something like , "we would risk me getting pregnant if we have sex now. I guess I'm only saying 'I can't wait' figuratively. I want it so much."
I would usually reply to the effect of, "it's less than three weeks away."
Once after such a reply I said "we
should
start making plans. I don't think I want to just park and do it in my car."
"Certainly!," she responded. "I want to have all night. I'm thinking about telling my parents that I will be spending the night at a girlfriend's."
I was worried about that. "I don't want them to catch you in a lie," I said. "What if they call your girlfriend and find you aren't there. I can get a motel room and we don't need to stay all night."
"I want to spend the whole night our first time!" she insisted. "Maybe Trish will cover for me."
"But you need to be sure her parents will lie for you too. I don't like that idea."
"Maybe I can tell them I have an overnight stay for a gymnastics meet."
"They can check on that and may want to attend the meet. I don't see any good way to do this without getting caught in a lie. I'd prefer not to lie at all."
She feigned a pout, "Me too but I want to spend the whole night with you."
"One alternative is to just tell your parents what we have in mind," I suggested.
"You've got to be crazy, my dad would flip and I'd never be able to see you."
"Consider that if he catches you lying about it then he will do a
double
flip and then what?"
She didn't say anything for the rest of lunch. She just sat there pouting and thinking.
How I told my mom (by Colleen)
This is Colleen writing. Howard asked me to write a description of what happened when I told my mom we were going to have sex.
Howard implies he doesn't know why I am attracted to him. First of all, he may not be an Adonis but he's not physically unattractive. Most importantly he respects me, treats me well and has no problem with my parents. All through high school other guys would make derogatory remarks about how protective my parents were and I felt like that was disrespectful of me because I respect my parents and what they want for me. Howard not only respects them but encourages me to obey them. He also doesn't press me for sexual activity of any kind. Maybe not all the guys in high school blatantly asked to "get in my pants" but they
were
"all hands," grabbing everywhere. Howard is considerate and allows me to take the lead. I know we have gone farther than my parents would want and I am anxious to "go all the way" but it's what I want because of the way Howard treats me.
I did so want to spend the night with Howard and was sure the best way to do it was to say I was at a sleep over with a friend. I needed to pick a friend who would cover for me and wouldn't have a problem with parents. My choices were:
Trish
who would certainly cover for me and whose parents wouldn't have a problem with me sleeping with Howard but they would not likely lie to my parents.
Lucy
would also cover for me but her parents were more of a question mark than Trish's.
Susie
who might not be willing to cover for me. Her parents would not cover in any way but if my parents were sure I was going with Susie they probably wouldn't check up. I would just need to get Susie to tell them I was going to stay with her.
Karen
or one of the other girls on the swim team might cover for me. Some of them lived in dorms so parents wouldn't be an issue but other girls in the dorm might.