It was April, we were in Europe on a luxury cruise with a couple of friends. We like to think we are a sophisticated, rather smart couple. But we were seduced by experts from the UK. This is our story.
We are Fred and Katie; ages 64 and 61 and we live in Florida. Like most marriages, in the beginning we couldn't keep our hands off each other. But over the years, our sex drive had diminished, which is not at all uncommon. We talked about what we could do to get the newness back.
But let's go back in time to set the stage.
FRED'S INTRODUCTION TO SEX
One of my first jobs as a teenager was babysitting for a young widow. I'd babysit her 2 kids, who went to bed early. She had a lot of those woman magazines around—the kind with stories about romance, cheating, affairs, sex aids; which were a type of soft porn at the time.
I was young and innocent, but old enough to get hard. I would read stories in those magazines after the kids were sleeping which would always lead to a masturbation session, sometimes two or more. I loved the erotic tales, and especially was turned on when women would describe how they were mentally overcome with urges to have affairs or craved sex with multiple men and could not stop. I learned that once they had their mind set, they wouldn't have stopped even if they could have. The more desperate the women were, the more exciting it was, and the more turned on I would be. Sometimes I would go in the widow's bedroom and find a pair of her panties in her dresser and put them on which would compel me to engage in some joyous masturbation sessions.
The widow had a younger sister who lived an hour away, and who would often spend weekends at big sis' house. She was young and cute and of course I met her, and eventually we started dating. I remember she told me she read those same magazines.
We dated for over a year, slowly moving from kissing and talking, to petting, to touching naked skin and near naked heavy petting and one night we finally went all the way. It was the first time for both of us and she was the one to finally make it happen, although there was absolutely no resistance on my part. We had been necking and petting and without a word, she just raised up and slid her shorts off, unzipped me and pulled my shorts down, and knelt over me. She used her hands to guide me in. WOW! The first time for both of us. She was totally wet, and I was totally hard. We weren't going to stop; not this night.
I remembered reading about breaking the cherry and that it could be painful, and I was afraid to hurt her. So, we let her control the process. We were both so primed. This had been building for over a year and now we both knew it was going to happen tonight and we didn't know what to expect, but we couldn't stop. Every touch, every move caused major thrills, like electricity and tingling feelings all over and every move felt exquisite and finally the mystery was not a mystery anymore. In a minute she had me completely inside her and I thought I was in heaven. It felt so good and so warm and so tight. And then she was rocking on me and moving up and down. I can still remember the feeling of amazement as I began to cum inside her. But OMG, it felt wonderful. She said she loved it when she made me start throbbing and told me she could feel me cum, and said she loved feeling the warmth of it.
We hadn't even thought of condoms or pregnancy, just let nature have its way. From that night on, we had sex as much as possible, every time we were together, often several times a day. All we had for safety was that one of her friends had an older sister who was a RN, who told us about the rhythm method. That is all we ever used, never a condom, as we sexed our way into an early marriage. It was not a shotgun, we just married because everyone always thought we would; and we did. And we still loved sex, sometimes as much as 5 times a day.
We were married about two years. I was the first of my friends to marry but now I was hearing all my friends tell about their love life and stories; talk about their sexual romps with the girls; their first times. It was then that I began to get a craving for finding out how sex would feel with someone else. I had read so many stories in some of those old magazines that my wife's older sister kept around the house; and now I had an incredible urge to have sex with another woman. I just had to feel how it would be.
LESSON 1 FRED'S EROTIC FEELINGS
One night I was out and ran into a local divorcee at a neighborhood bar. She was in her late thirties and was woman that I had met several times. I thought she was very pretty and it was rumored that she had been having affairs with several married men in our neighborhood. She was with some girlfriends and I was with one of my guy friends. I asked her to dance a few times. He hit on her girlfriend. It was near closing and she said she didn't feel safe to drive home as she didn't want to chance a ticket. She asked me to drive her home, telling me she would pick up her car in the morning. I could not pass that and drove her home and walked her to her door. It was there that she kissed me, and asked me to come in. Five minutes later we had our clothes off and were laying on her living room floor naked, when she kissed me again, pulled me on top, wrapped her legs around me and pulled me inside her. BAM!
Here I was, FEELING another woman, feeling her wetness, feeling her skin, feeling her mouth on mine. She was under me, wriggling, twitching and moaning, eyes closed and clutching me, with her long legs still wrapped around me and using her thighs to pull me in all the way. Then I felt myself begin to cum, inside her sexy body and I knew i would never be the same, not ever again. She wasn't better, or worse, than my wife. Just DIFFERENT. And I LOVED it. What made it even hotter is I had heard she had been with lots of different men, and that was a turn on—a HUGE turn on—and I have no idea why, it just WAS. She never even mentioned condoms or pregnancy, all she wanted was to have me inside her and then she had a convulsive, almost violent, shaking orgasm. She was my second woman ever. And I was hooked.
I felt guilty for a couple of days but went to the library and read as much as I could about sexual desire, why people are born with an inner craving—part of nature's way to continue. Nature doesn't have morals. The purpose for sex is survival of the species. A female has an urge to breed more than one time and with more than one male. A male who knows the female has just had sex with another male, has an overwhelming desire to have sex on top of the first. It is a basic animal need. That is why so many men are so turned on by the thought of their wives having sex with another man.
The more I read, the more I began to understand it isn't natural to desire sex with just one other person. There is a natural desire to have sex with multiple people, and both men and woman have those same instincts. We are taught in school, by peers, by parents, by clergy—taught to suppress it; and lots of us do. But it is a rare human, male or female, that doesn't get an occasional urge or a feeling or wonder what it would be like to have sex with a new person. And once they have an urge, it becomes a craving and almost nothing can stop it. I eventually felt less guilty and stopped thinking about it.