I first get to know my partner, Bev sometime ago through the medium of the net. Somehow I was drawn to her profile and decided to give her a try. We did chat for awhile and I was the only local chatter that she keeps. The rest of her chatters are all overseas. She mentioned that locals bored her and cant chat intelligently nor fast enough. Glad I can hold more than a single line. All I know is that she is a nice mature lady of abt 40 and no pics of her so far even for her online profile at this stage.
Soon I went overseas too for business and also to visit my family. During those times, she kept me company online. Despite being online, we both felt closer and she does reminds me of home at times. It was during this time, I did something to upset her and was out of communications for awhile. Guess she finally forgave me and understand that it is just a pure mistake and not intentionally to hurt her.
It was this time back overseas, I rekindled my interest of nudism. I discovered nudism when I studied and worked here. Combined with my interests of photography, it does offer some good opportunities to combine both. More on this in other blogs later. So I remembered that a local hot springs pool host a nudism pool nite every month. So happened I know the dates from my previous visits and they have one whilst I was around. So off I went to the hot springs pool. It was rather crowded which is good. Must be also due to its the last nude pool night for the season.
Met some familiar faces from my time as an active member of the nudism movement. Proud to say I was a card carrying member of the INF and also two local sun (naturism/nudism) clubs. Soon get to know a couple there. Their first time together there. The guy is a nudist but the lady is not. Anyway we exchange contact details when the place was closing down. Perhaps a chance for swinging.
Anyway back to G F. We chat more and more online and her comforting lines do keep me warm. It was autumn/winter time. Don't even need to turn the heater on. So, I was going to meet her when I got back. Which we eventually did.
We continued to chat online and have yet to meet up. As for how each other looks like, we have not seen each other pics at length apart from the pic on the profile. Blame it on the small size of the pictures on the online messenger. We chat more and more. Glad that she found me totally different from most of the local guys who chatted up with her. She likes that I can hold more than just a single line in chat. Can keep up with chatting and do not present a single dimension to character. At this point, she told me that I am the only local guy she kept on her list. Others are mainly overseas usually UK or Europe. Did told me the pesky Middle East and Indian subcontinent fellas chatting her up. Some even propose to her finding out where she is from. "Crazy" she said.
Then one day, I need to get my car to be serviced. Realizing how long I am going to be stuck there at the service center, I brought my laptop along. Their customer lounge does have PCs and also free WIFI service. Can at least cure my boredom. We hooked up online and soon, she mentioned that she will be around the area and suggested that we meet up. I was excited to say the least. Alas to meet her. She has managed to intrigued me mentally. You see I like a woman for her mind first and I do like to have mental connection. Otherwise, physical is just so passe once you have get it on a few times. Don't you agree?
So we make the arrangement and not long after, she came to the service center. We make introductions and have our conversation. Only this time, it is face-to-face rather than through the electronic way. It was pleasant and nice. Guess we both are on our best behavior and at the same time, checking each other out in real life. Soon, we set off for lunch. Nothing much to eat around the service center. We picked a cafe and place our orders. Lunch duly came and we just enjoyed the meal whilst carrying on the conversation. When it is time to leave, the sky duly opened up and it rained cats and dogs. Cant get to her car, we duly sat down and talked even more. Didn't realize the rains has eased to a drizzle and time to go.
We went back to the service center and she stayed awhile at the waiting lounge. Soon, she need to go and I escorted her out. She gave me a hug which was unexpected. I was pleasantly surprised. She was smiling. Well, I least make a good impression on her. Later she mentioned, she likes me and the hug is a good gesture of appreciation. I liked her as well.
We decided to meet up for a movie. We continued chatting and gotten closer each passing moment. We learnt more of each other with each chat sessions. Our intellectual connection become stronger and stronger. Suffice to say, we enjoy each other company. Despite it is online only most of the time, we can act as though we are there in real life.