My friend invited me for a
Birthday Night Out In A Hamburg Sex Club.
And what a night it was.
My friend Dieter invited me to Hamburg for a birthday night out with him we had been friends since our college days together and had visited each other on a number of occasions since then.
As I had never had been to one before but always wondered what they would be like I agreed to go to a gay sex night club which Hamburg is famous for. Dieter had managed to get us two category 'E' tickets for a club where one of his friends worked.
I was very nervous about what to expect as we travelled to the club in a taxi, egged on by Dieter's expectations of a night full of erotic and unrelenting sex.
We had to present our ID cards at reception to be copied by what was an obviously Tran's or CD receptionist who openly flirted with us saying she could meet us later after work.
Dieter egged her on, he was good at that and we had quite a few mishaps because of it during our college days in Dusseldorf where we both studied business and business administration.
My adrenalin was pumping so hard I was finding it hard to settle down one of those fight or flight moments; flight was winning.
As first timers to the club we were given an introductory tour by one of the staff. Started in the general bar area which was crowded and noisy with dancers and people trying to make out with each other, more or less what I expected. We then moved onto the 'activity' areas.
You needed a pass to get into where the pay and play sex area's were, with separate playrooms for groups, lesbian's, gay's and dungeons which were fully equipped, bit to entheaustic for my taste maybe one day.
Entertainment areas included a wide screen cinema which was showing a very erotic interactive film which was being actively re-enacted by a stag group.
Large stage and two exhibition pit areas, where the tour guide said.
"No need to explain what these are for."
All had low lighting discreet alcoves and general open areas for those who preferred to watch or participate in open activities, with various help yourself sex paraphernalia vending machines on the walls.
It was quite an eye opener I didn't expect this let alone participate in. I was beginning to seriously feel I was out of my depth.
We then went to see the duty entertainment manager Werner who Dieter knew.
We had to sign an 'activity' disclaimers saying;
'We are knowingly and willingly participating in sexual activities with individuals who may receive or make payments for sex.'
'Payments will be made via an account which will be settled at the end of each night, noting the club has a cashless policy.'
We were given tap wrist bands to put on, all we needed to do was select what we wanted by taping the band and payment becomes automatic, pricing being on a board in each room, including for multiple activities that you tapped to select.
Werner took us to the private club area 'E' changing room, first we had to get undressed, all guests and staff wore, either coloured shorts or wraps, we were given white wraps with red, blue and green piping (indicating active, passive, oral etc.).
This let everyone know what your preferences were, or provided, Dieter already knew and had prefilled in what we were both into.
I was now getting a bit concerned what we had let ourselves in for. When Werner left to make arrangements for us to get into in area 'E', standing there with only a wrist band, white wrap and flip flops on, I asked Dieter.
"What's happening and what have you signed us up for?"
"Remember the Sun club, housekeeping, life modeling, pool parties we went to, the striptease routine we did and the Norwegian business men we had sex with and got paid for?"
My heart skipped several beats and stopped a couple of times I think, as I thought back to when we were both students and short of money.
One summer Dieter and I managed to get a summer job in a Sun (naturalist) club about 10k outside of Dusseldorf. It was where we first met, became roommates then friends.
As staff we wandered around all day with only speedos on serving drinks, tiding up, cleaning.
What we didn't know when the students union found us this job was it was an exclusive private 'gay' naturalist club. Apparently being over 19 was the only pre-qualification required as they would 'train you', accommodation etc. was included.
It wasn't long before we knew what the members were doing apart from walking around naked although they were very discreet about it. Occasionally we would walk in to a room to find members having sex together or in a playroom or alfresco behind a hedge row on sun loungers.
A few times I was asked to photograph their activities for them, only once in the first ten days was I propositioned, I didn't know wither to be relieved or insulted by that.
Although many of the students we studied with were gay of flexible shall we say, we were both straight.
The whole environment was not sordid or anything like that actually it was quite amenable just a first time eye opener for the both of us.
After we completed our probationary 10 days the event manager called us into his office, apart from confirming our 3 month contract.
Told us it was now okay to accept payments for sexual favors from club members or their guests and just to let him know what they wanted and he would recover the money for us.
We both knew what he meant as we left his office as by now one or two of the members had already sounded us out about future favors we were prepared to give.
Dieter confidently said.
"I am up for it what about you?"
I was still taken aback by it and said.
"Yes I suppose so but I have never been fucked before."
Dieter replied.
"Neither have I but I would like to see what it's like."
That night after my shift one of the members came up to me when I was alone and asked.
"How about you come to my room when you finish your shift?"
I had actually finished my shift then and was heading back to my room for a shower. I was still very unsure of myself as I said.