My Lovely Unsophisticated Wife

This is the fifth of my stories, they are about my wife Sam and I, and our love life. Just by way of reminder, Sam and I developed our own 'love language'. Sam does not like to use crude language of any kind either in jokes or when we talk to each other. We do not have sex or 'fuck', we make love. Sam does not have a 'cunt', she has a yoni which is an Indian term which covers all of a woman's genitalia, her vagina, labia vulva and mons. Men do not have a cock, they have a penis. At the time of these stories we used the term 'shock' instead of orgasm. As you will see in Chapter 4, we had invented some new words for our love making in our first year of marriage, such as 'making love with our mouths' for oral lovemaking. We have never used contraception for Sam, she has told me that she does not like taking tablets very much or having devices inside her, we did try using a condom once but she did not like the feel of it inside her so I took it off! Since then we have always made love 'raw' so to speak.

Sam does not like to wear any underwear, either bra or knickers because she prefers to feel a breeze on her body. She only ever wears knickers when she is having a period. Neither does she like to wear tights or stockings, she either wears socks or she goes bare legged. The only time she ever wears (black) underwear and hold ups is on special occasions such as my birthday as she knows I find it a huge turn on and I really enjoy taking them off her. Sam likes to wear either below the knee length flowing dresses or flowing below the knee skirts with loose fitting tops, sometimes she will wear camisole tops. What all this meant was that it is quite easy for us to connect and make love when we are both ready. Over the years I have bought many of these for her.

In Chapter 4 we had moved into the first house we had bought together. I told Sam that we will have the house in both our names then it would belong to both of us. She was a bit puzzled by this as her family had only ever rented. I made sure that we had joint mortgage protection insurance in case anything happened to one of us. She does not like financial fuss and it took me a lot of time to persuade her to come and sign all of the paperwork at the building society. She did not want to have a bank account, she preferred to use cash, she still does except she has to have a building society book account for various allowances. I only mention this because it shows what sort of woman Sam is. She is uncomplicated, kind and very generous in her ways.

We were not all that well off when we bought our new house so we bought all of our furniture, except for a new mattress, at various charity shops. We also acquired two kittens who had not been properly weaned. One of them still needed to suckle, he used to climb up on Sam and gently suckle on her ear lobe, Sam thought it felt very nice. Not long after we moved in, Prince Charles married Lady Dianna and there was a street party on our road. We had a great time, afterwards we came in, we stripped off and made love quite vigorously. While we were doing this the kitten was suckling on Sam's ear, she had a huge smile on her face and she had a huge shock as I released inside her. Three weeks later she started to have morning sickness in time for her twenty-first birthday. We were very happy as were both sets of grandparents.

The morning sickness was quite bad, Sam said that she had morning, noon and night sickness for the first three months. The only way that we were able to make love was with Sam lowering herself onto me and then very gently going up and down on my penis. This felt great because I was able to fondle her breasts which went from a C cup to a D cup by the time Sam reached six months. By this stage Sam's breasts began to leak a little bit of mother's milk and Sam told me that they were starting to become a bit uncomfortable so she asked me to suck on them a bit to relieve the pressure in her breasts which I was very happy to do. Mother's milk has its own special taste, sort of rich and sweet, By the time she reached eight months her breasts had reached DD size, so they needed a bit more attention from me. I came home from work one day and she gave me a huge cuddle and her breasts leaked and the milk soaked my shirt and went on my chest. I managed to get a milk rash on my chest so we had to be careful after that! It was quite embarrassing asking our pharmacist for some cream to treat it.

At this stage Sam was finding it difficult to lower herself onto me so I asked her if she wanted me to enter her from behind, she said yes so that is what we did for those last few weeks, every single day, sometimes twice a day. I kissed and licked her yoni to make Sam feel good as well, she said that she really appreciated it. We also slept naked, I would spoon Sam and cuddle her pregnant tummy, it was nice to feel the baby move about and kick inside her. It was all very good and intimate and I felt more and more in love with my lovely Sam.

Sam wanted to have the baby at home but our GP said that her blood pressure was too high so she had to go into the local maternity unit where she was induced two days later, she gave birth to our baby boy who we called John, I was there with her and as I watched John emerge into the world I felt quite overwhelmed with emotions and I cried! Here was a little child who was the product of our love. She needed to be stitched after the midwife had cut her, this left her very sore for the next four weeks until the stitches were removed. However she did enjoy breast feeding John and I liked watching her. Sam also said that she was happy to make love with me with her mouth - she took my penis in her mouth and gently suckled on it, I did not release but it did feel really good. Sam and I also slept and cuddled naked and she would breastfeed the baby naked, I took some polaroid photos of her doing this, I still have them.

After three months we were back to making love again, we went quite gently at first and we did not use any birth control, we had been told that breastfeeding was quite good birth control. Sure enough, Sam weaned John after nine months and nine months after that our first daughter Heidi was born. For the last two months of this pregnancy Sam's back ached and it was very uncomfortable for her to make love in any position. However, she did take my penis in her mouth and made love to it nearly every day. I also suckled on Sam's breasts which she said felt really good, we also slept naked and had some great cuddles. Sam gave birth to Heidi at home because she had had a very bad time giving birth to John in hospital. The labour did not last long, only about an hour, there were no cuts this time and the baby was beautiful and healthy. The midwife stayed long enough to make sure that Sam had fed Heidi and that Sam was comfortable, dressed in a nightie and tucked up in bed. I let the midwife out and went up to bed.

When I got to our bedroom I stripped down and got into bed with Sam, she asked me if the children were asleep and that the midwife had gone, when I said yes to both questions Sam pulled her nightie off and then she pulled me on top of her. I asked her if it was okay as she had given birth less than two hours ago and she said that she needed me to make love to her straight away, I did as she asked and we both had crashing shocks. We fell asleep with me still inside, we stirred about an hour later and made love again. Sam got up later to breastfeed Heidi and when she came back to bed we made love again. Sam then told me that she had been very frustrated in the last two months and she wanted to make love as soon as possible after she gave birth. From then on we slept naked, Sam breastfed the baby naked when we were in bed and we continued with our love making. During the day Sam wore her flowing skirts and loose fitting sweatshirts which made it easier for her to breastfeed.

Once Heidi was weaned we continued to make love almost every day, it took until Christmas the following year for Sam to become pregnant again, she gave birth to James the following September, we moved house the following August and in the new house Sam decided that she would try something new as she was already pregnant again and she was feeling quite uncomfortable. She had me lie down, she took my penis in her mouth and she moved up until down with her mouth. I told her I was going to release but she kept going until I released my sperm in her mouth. She told me that my sperm tasted quite salty. That was the first of many times she did that. Sam gave birth to Dora in February 1987 in our new house. After that we agreed that I would have a vasectomy so there were to be no more children. I did not want to put Sam through having a hysterectomy as she hated hospitals.

By the time Heidi started school Sam had become very full in the hips, her breasts had not returned to her pre wedding C cup size, in fact they were at least DD although since she did not wear a bra or knickers I had no real idea what that meant in terms of numbers. We decided to buy some new black underwear for Sam later on so I measured her bra and knicker sizes. I had to order a 52 GG bra and 48 hip knickers and 2XL camisoles. I also bought some large black hold ups. These were for our special occasions, she did not like to wear them day to day. By the time of our silver wedding anniversary she was certainly a lovely, curvy, soft big beautiful woman and I loved all of her. I especially liked to kiss and suckle her nipples which were still soft and pink despite her having breast fed four children.

I bought Sam a silver pendant for our silver wedding anniversary which she wore beneath her clothes so that it nestled between her breasts. I told her I wished that it was me nestling there. I liked going to bed with her and taking her clothes off and then fondling her naked body, kissing her breasts and holding her bottom. We started to lay on top of each other head to toe and make love with our mouths at the same time - I kissed and licked her yoni while she took my penis in her mouth until we both orgasmed, we started to use that word after our silver anniversary. It really turned me on when I saw the pendant between her breasts. Later I bought her a string of pearls for our thirtieth anniversary, a ruby necklace for our fortieth and a sapphire pendant for our forty-fifth anniversaries. These all now nestle between her breasts.

I will write about our later years in Chapter 6