I am an East Indian male, of average good looks, and have been fortunate in having a great education β beginning with a school that was started in 1865, by the British! I wrote this set of experiences, all true, as part of a set of e-mails to a close friend. I saved the files, and thought I would publish them. They are a kind of chronicle, primarily recalling pleasurable memories, and find I can share them with people who enjoy the right kind of pleasures. All these stories are in sequence, but the first one is an overview.
I was about 14, when I noticed that a part of me kept changing size, and it was not only for pissing! I began to experiment, and found I could get a lot of pleasure by manipulating myself. Fortunately, I attended a good school, where the teaching was modern enough for seniors to attend sex-education classes. That gave me a head start over others in my age group, on what to do with myself.
The result is that as long as I have been single, I have masturbated almost every day. Later, when my schoolmates went to on study medicine, I got confirmation that it is a very safe and healthy practice. Today, it is considered better and safer than having casual sex, for both men and women and that is a fact.
In India, I had many female friends, but my limit was going to a movie and feeling each other in the back row! Probably, we were too young and too much middle class people to do anything more.
When I came to Hong Kong, I did not do anything for the first 2 years, because I was scared of AIDS. Then, I met an older Chinese woman, who was a colleague, and she became a good friend. 1995 December 31, was the night I lost my virginity, that too to a woman who was 10 years older to me. She taught me many things, but I had also seen many porn movies, and read many books to know what a woman likes. Maybe she was hot, or sex starved, but I made her get an orgasm 3 times, using only my mouth and tongue ALL over, before I even entered her. She remembers this even today, and I can never forget her, for helping me lose my virginity.
This gave me the courage to find good female Chinese friends who were interested in sleeping with me. Understand one thing: first they were friends, and then they approached me slowly with casual hints. Never was there any discussion of money or favors, they just liked me. Usually, it started with going out for dinner, and then they knew I liked cooking, so they would say they wanted me to cook for them. When they came to my house, we usually opened a bottle of wine, and had dinner, while chatting or watching a movie. Then, it would get late, so I would suggest they could stay over if they were worried about going home late. I think they planned it, because they would bring a toothbrush!
By that time, we would be sitting close, or watching some nice adult movie, so it was natural to start kissing. Sometimes, I would think I am very charming, but later I would realize that the woman also wanted it! Anyway, what made me happy was that they normally would not do this; I found out later it was only with me. That made me feel good too, as if I was chosen!