A true story.
Don't ask me why I am posting this because I am not entirely sure myself. But, the story is true and I certainly don't think it is typical. Whatever you think, be kind. Thanks, and hopefully you enjoy it...
I was a little older than a lot of other boys when I lost my virginity. I had just turned 19 and I was commuting to college. As an aside, commuting to college absolutely sucked and I don't recommend it to anyone unless you know what you are in for. I wanted to go away to school but since my older siblings both fucked up when they went away, my 'rents decided that I should stay home so they could keep an eye out for troublesome signs. Well, I fucked up just as good by going to college at home - so take that Mom n Dad! But I digress.
College for me was in NYC and I commuted about 1 1/2 hours each day via public transportation, usually invovling 1 bus and three trains. Not fun. But, the one good thing about college was that I met A, who was probably my second serious girlfriend. My first was at the end of high school and we had fun but never went all the way.
A was from the Dominican Republic and one year older than me. She was about 5'3, 115 lbs and had very pretty brown eyes and a great smile. She had a cute figure, boobs were not large, and a little bit of a Spanish butt, but it certainly looked good to me. I met her because she was in one of my pre-med classes (yes, I started off pre-med and ended up a lawyer -- LOL -- can anyone say organic chemistry?) Well, A and her friend, P, were both very sweet and very shy - but somehow my friend Andrew and I broke them down a little and we were all able to hang out and get to know each other better. We would sit together in class, go study in the library, get lunch, all that good stuff.
As it turns out, A would take a similar train as one that I would have to take to get to school, so after awhile, I would ride the subways with her to her stop and then go back to get to my stop (this is where you all say "awwwwww"). Well, I knew I liked her, and I certainly hoped she liked me.
So one day, while she was about to get off the train, I asked her out. She didn't say yes right away, but she told me she would think about it and get back to me the next morning. The thing was, as she had told me already, her parents were very strict with her and her sister. They didn't want her dating (even though she was 20) and she was not allowed out of the house except to go to school, church and a few other organized activities. I knew this, but was hoping for the best anyway. The next morning, she told me that she had decided we could go out - although it would have to be a strictly school time thing. I think we were both pretty happy with that decision.
Well, being in a commuter school, with about 20,000 other people crammed into 3 buildings, you can imagine that it was tough to get some alone time with A. As we spent more and more time together, we would seek out hidden study rooms in the library, empty stairwells, or floors of buildings which happened to be quiet at the time. We were kissing and making out alot - but it was just too hard to do anything else. I'm sure my hands wandered over her jeans more than a few times in public, but that was pretty much the extent of what we could do on school grounds.