I'm a single dad with 2 kids. Their mom lives in the same town and we share them 50/50. Daycare centers are expensive, and most require parents to pay regardless if the kids show up or not. So I opted to seek out independent day-care providers/babysitters.
I hired a young lady after searching a local independent daycare website. Now most of the "sitters" on this site are young college students looking to help pay for college. I was a college student myself, and admired anyone trying to help themselves! Anyway, the first young lady I hired was OK, but she was more interested in talking and texting on the phone with friends, etc. instead of spending time with and watching the kids (the kids advised me of this after so long). Within 3 months, I had to let her go. So there I was again, looking for another provider. I posted an ad on this same site and interviewed several candidates. I always met the candidates at a local coffee shop and paid for any expenses. I also made sure the kids were with me to see if there was/was not a connection between them. I finally narrowed it down to one or two young ladies. THEN, just a few days before I was going to make my decision, another young lady came into the picture as she answered my ad I still had posted. The ad included my contact info, and after she posted her interest in the position, she called me. This was the first candidate that had ever called me prior to meeting me. We talked for almost 30 minutes. The conversation was incredible, and I had a great feeling about her as a daycare provider for my kids! I was so impressed with her I invited her to dinner at a local restaurant where the kids and I had previous plans to dine.
This young lady was not only on time, she was there before we were! GREAT start as I believe in punctuality! She sent me a text letting me know she was there already. When the kids & I walked into the restaurant, I immediately laid my eyes on the most beautiful woman I had ever met in my life! It was her! Robbi Jo! Early twenties, medium-length straight-auburn hair, light complexion, 5'0, 95 lbs. at the most, gorgeous petite figure, infectious smile, small-breasted (I'm not a breast man), perfect ass (I AM an ass man), and the greatest swagger I've ever seen in such a young woman! I was in awe! She was like a magnet to my kids! They knew who she was before I really knew! It was the most unbelievable first meeting I had ever had with a potential sitter! The dinner and interview were both PERFECT! Robbi was definitely the bomb! I not only wanted her to watch the kids due to her personality and skills/abilities with the kids, I also (secretly) wanted Robbi from that night on for myself!
She began watching the kids shortly thereafter. Robbi lived in an apartment near my townhouse. All was convenient. Then, I bought a home on the other side of town -- a 4-bedroom home, and that meant a bedroom would be unoccupied. I asked Robbi if she would be interested in becoming a live-in nanny! After thinking about it briefly, she said, "Sure!" So, Robbi Jo was now moving into a new home with the kids and me!
Robbi was awesome! Got dinner started for the kids before I got home. Sometimes, she even got it started or ready before I got home when the kids were at their mom's house. I allowed her to bring friends over (and her friends were just as HOT as she was). During the early months of the year she lived with us, she once complained about a stiff neck and back (probably from the stress associated with going to college, working, etc). I offered to give her a massage, but she didn't think it would be appropriate to get a massage from her employer. I understood and respected that.