Just why are men's balls on the outside of their bodies, when their counterparts, the ovaries are tucked inside a woman's body. Scientists say that they need to be cooler than the body to produce sperm, yet men bake them at their body's temperature inside under and outer garments. Others might say that the balls are the way to a man's heart. They have as part of their nature, avenues to intense pleasure, intense pain, and all measure of states in between. In polite society these days men honor all reasonable requests from their ladies in exchange for affectionate and the occasional corrective attention paid to their scrotums.
The times have changed. Men have their balls out commando at home. When at play and at work they have modernly designed pants with a nylon pouch that holds the balls outside the pants, keeping them cooler and available. When women want attention, cooperation, or affection from their men they tickle, caress, love pat, or otherwise fondle their nuts and men generally give them what they want. In those cases where they don't, women can take corrective measures. Corrective measures can involve enforced chastity, hobbling with humblers, or in the severest situations a squeeze or rap on the nuts. Healthy relationships, however, involve cooperative men and loving women.
There is the usual flirtation, innuendos, and teasing, it's just that the focus has evolved from pleasuring a man via the head of his penis, to the often maddening pleasure of stimulating his gonads. Generally, men love the affectionate attention to their jewels so much so, that they cooperate with those that seem to adore them. It used to be that a man would be solicitous, fulfill the 'honey do list,' and behave in ways that wouldn't embarrass their mates with the promise of penetrative sex, a blow job, or at least a hand job. Woman found it less work for their part to take a man to feverish state by playing with his balls, making him motivated to please her, before having him finish in a way and time of her choosing.
Women can choose to go topless in public but must have their vulvas covered. Men can go bottomless but must have their penises sheathed. The popular method of modesty is to wear a sheath attached to a belt around the waist, pinning the penis up against the belly. It wasn't very often the case, except at the beach, pool, or gardening at home. At private parties, however, all bets were off. Women loved being in various states of teasing nudity and men were given to wear groin enhancing adornments like teardrop cock rings, scrotal straps, and ball stretchers.
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Syd and Nancy invited their closets friends along with business acquaintances to the annual summer bash. Guests got themselves comfortable upon arrival by taking off travel clothes and handing them over to a clothing checker. The clothing checker and other hired servers could be identified from the guests because they wore collars with bowties and cuffs with cuff links. The males also wore birdlocks to prevent erections around the semi-clad female guests, and the female servers wore translucent black bikini thongs and high heels. They were paid to be gracious if groped or had their nipples teased.
The women guests dressed their men in neck collars and various decorative or merely functional cock rings to keep their men on display, ready, and excited. Some men wore short tops but most were otherwise naked. The women dressed themselves in a variety of revealing displays which included see through wear or otherwise went without any covering. A station was set up for the women to get their bodies painted, and that grew in popularity as the evening progressed.