I was married for four years in a traditional style, with the man, the husband, leading and me in the background. I was brought up that way, and I thought it was normal. My mother and sisters acted the same way in their marriages.
Until I changed and taught them.
Dissatisfied in bed, where sex was much less than desirable and of poor quality; frustrated professionally and socially, because he wouldn't let me evolve; I started to have lovers.
It was married friends who initiated me into this, showing me the need to have lovers.
The first one was banal and ordinary, a commonplace affair, but it gave me what I lacked, an acting and very manly cock.
As I said, I was too needy in bed, marital sex was not what I expected in terms of quality and quantity. I met the guy, a handsome boy, two years younger than me. I took off my panties, spread my legs, and he gave me what I had long desired, a thick cock that fucked me a lot.
It was the first experience. It lasted three months. The boy wanted other pussies and left.
The second was a married man, twice my age.
He taught me that there were dominant men, like him, who put me to bed and did everything I wanted, I never denied him anal sex and my mouth for his cock. And those who were born to be dominated, as my husband should be.
He and the next lover showed me that I should be the goddess at home, completely dominant in our relationship.
I, being shy, didn't know how to do that.
The guys, the men who fucked me, taught me.
They gave me the whole theory, themselves, males, men. Showing me how to cuckold and make my husband submissive.
I discovered that the woman who commands, dominates, is confident and knows how to be a woman for other men. And should make it a married lifestyle. Get married to be happy, even if at the expense of the cuckold, who must be the sacrificed in the intimate and marital relationship.
He must exist to serve her. Be docile and obedient servant. Or slave.
A goddess woman, sensual, exciting, vulgar, fatal, thrills men. It commands fear and respect. They submit. Accept your orders. Are happy to serve.
It was these men, my own males, who made me become the woman I am today, full of confidence and pleasure.