Clover Lane Ch 03

In this chapter: Kris becomes a member of the Clover Lane Femdom Club, learns what is expected from their men, and how the men can be trained as obedient sluts.

When Kathy, Emily, and Kris met, Kathy explained what the club was about and how it came to be.

Kathy explained "I am a doctor of psychology and a licensed sex therapist. Early on I came to understand the sexual dynamics between couples and that they unfairly favored the men. I learned how to change the dynamics and helped a number of women take the dominant role in their marriage. Eventually I came to the conclusion I wanted to live in a community where the women were in charge and the men served at the woman's pleasure. I knew I couldn't be too ambitious and make it happen on a large scale, but when the Clover Lane development began I saw an opportunity and grabbed it. My husband Paul had long accepted a submissive role so I told him we were buying the first house to be completed. As other homes were finished and couples moved in, I made friends of the wives and helped them dominate their husbands through chastity and strict training. Eventually almost all 12 wives had good, obedient man sluts for husbands. Unfortunately, two marriages didn't survive the strain, but both women are in excellent financial condition and are still in the community. You are the first woman to get her husband in a cage without my help. That is quite impressive given that your husband is so highly accomplished and a real stud. But now I think you are going to need some help and I am thrilled you asked. I love doing this and Emily is so excited to help.

It is also time you learned about the Clover Lane community HOA. Every household is represented in the HOA by the woman of the house and the HOA rules specify that no man may be head of household. Effectively, the HOA and the CLFC are one in the same. If some unfortunate circumstance resulted in a man being the head of household, the house must promptly be placed with Susan Sanders for sale. If you recall, Susan was the real estate agent that managed your purchase. The only way for the man to stay in the community would be to be accepted by one of the single women as her submissive. The HOA works with Susan to maintain the femdom integrity of the community. Susan has been a close friend of mine for many years, ever since I helped her dominate her husband to save her marriage. She is one of very few outside of Clover Lane who know the true aspects of our community and she is a whole hearted supporter of what we do here. The top position in our HOA is called "mayor" instead of president. I currently hold the mayor position. What I provide is vision and guidance. The real management work is done by others with the necessary knowledge and skills. My expertise is in other areas.

The community is not in any city. We are in Williamson Co, and of course follow all county, state, and federal mandates, but much is left to us to manage. We contract the public services such as sanitation, common area grounds keeping, enhanced security, and the like. Contracts are let to female owned businesses to the maximum extent possible. In that way we try to help empower women outside our little community.

I also need to explain our social dynamic. The women of Clover Lane are a close knit social group with a lot of interaction. That interaction is highly encouraged as is interaction between our men and other women in the community. What is not encouraged, and is in fact discouraged, is social interaction between our men. As women we work together to control what our men can and can't do. We use the same means men used for centuries to exclude women from positions of influence such as high paying jobs as technical professionals, senior executives, or politicians. It is the female version of the good old boy network. We keep our men busy so they do not have time to cause trouble. Our men get to know each other but we do not let them spend time together without women present. This prevents any possibility of the men conspiring to work together to do anything counter to our interests.

When men and women in the community get to know each other, and a woman has an interest in being sexually serviced by the man, she may approach the man's wife with a proposal. Whatever agreement the women come to is up to them. Nothing happens without the agreement of both women. This rule is an absolute. Without it, the community would be destroyed by human desires and jealousies. Once an agreement is made, the man has absolutely no say in the matter. That's what female dominance is all about. Having to serve other women with no say in the matter helps keep our men humble, respectful, and submissive to all the women in the community. It can be fun for them too, but not always. With the activity that occurs in the community, it is important that nothing undesirable be introduced to be spread, so sexual activity outside the community must not occur.

"Darn," Kris said. "It makes perfect sense but I'm going to miss the attentions of Kim, my little cunt licking personal trainer."

Kathy smiled and told her "I bet you will find Janice, your divorced neighbor across from you on Clover B, will be anxious to fill that role for you. She is very cute and amazing with her tongue and always horny. She gets all the services she needs from men in trade for the attention she gives to the women.

Let me explain the basis of the training process that makes our men submissive to us. We cage our men so we can train them to be good considerate lovers and husbands. Men need training because their natural inclination is to be selfish sex partners who put their own pleasure ahead of the woman's. With proper training that can be corrected. The cage puts all the power with the woman and facilitates the training process. It also gets men to accept the discipline necessary at times to achieve the desired goals. It's all about his dick and orgasms. Sex rules a man's brain. If he can't have sex with a woman he will masturbate, but the cage prevents that so he gets desperate very quickly. Desperation leads to submission. The keyholder owns his orgasms and owns his dick and balls. By denying a man orgasm, you force him to accept other lesser forms of sex, and he will begin to crave any form of sex you offer him and do anything for you. The desperation created by orgasm denial turns the man into a submissive slut because he is totally dependent on the keyholder for sexual excitement. If you offer him your pussy to lick every morning, he will quickly become addicted to the sexual excitement associated with licking your pussy every morning. Soon, if denied the opportunity, he will beg to be allowed to lick you. If you tease him with your tits in the evening after supper suggesting he should clean up the dishes, he will clean up the dishes hoping for more. He will continue to clean up the dishes hoping for the sexual charge that comes from you teasing him with your tits. Keep doing it for a few weeks, reward him with a flash or let him suck your nipples afterward and he is hooked. Just make anything about sex and he will do it. Before long it becomes habitual for the man to obey. It is really ridiculously easy once you give it a try. The essential element and the difficult part is getting the man caged. You have already done that.

We have some things that all CLFC members must demand from our men. These are the minimum training objectives so there is a standard in the community. Some women take it much further at their discretion.

Men are to face up to their responsibilities. This is a bit of a pun in that our men are to be available for facesitting at all times. It is an example of the full services the man is required provide on demand. The man is responsible to pleasure the woman in any way desired or to service other women in the community in accordance with agreements between women. The man is to be a complete submissive slut who does what he is told, how he is told, when he is told. But, in the CLDC, homosexual behavior of any kind between men is not tolerated and no club member is to ever tell a man to do anything of that nature. Women can do whatever they desire with and to each other.

Men are to clean up their messes. Some women squirt but all men spurt. When a man spurts on or in a woman, he is to clean it up with his tongue until the woman is satisfied with the result. Precum is to be treated the same way.

Show all women proper respect. Speaking out of turn, interrupting, arguing or being disagreeable, mouthing off, being a smart ass must all be discouraged. A warning may be adequate for a minor offense if a heartfelt apology is quickly offered and the offensive behavior stops immediately. Anything beyond that calls for the lash as a minimum.

Ass worship is the most submissive thing one person can do to another. It can be offered in a loving way or it can be very humiliating when done as punishment. Showing your dominance by frequently having your man worship your ass is highly recommended to maintain submissive respect. Ass worship of other CLFC members by our husbands helps maintain respectful behavior throughout the community. It also feels fabulous. Cleanliness is of course essential.

Ass licking is also a very effective punishment in the right circumstances. I will relate an event that demonstrates the point. Early on in our D/s relationship, my husband had a bad practice of being rude to waiting staff in restaurants. I got very embarrassed about his particularly rude treatment of a young waitress one evening. The restaurant was very busy, the staff was shorthanded and our food was slow in coming. None of which was this young woman's fault but he was rude to her and left no tip. While my husband was in the restroom before we left I wrote a note to the waitress apologizing for my husband's behavior and included two hundred dollar bills in the note. I also included our address and requested she come to our home the next afternoon freshly showered, and wearing either a dress or skirt so that my husband could also apologize for his behavior. She arrived looking a little scared but quite lovely. I asked if she was married. She was not but thought her boyfriend might be getting close to asking. I was happy to hear that because she really was a delightful young woman. I told her my husband was going to apologize in a manner she might not expect but I thought she would appreciate. I invited her in and told her nothing would happen that she did not agree to. She was a little unsure but came in to find my husband standing in the living room in only sweatpants. He was collared and his hands were cuffed and linked to the collar behind his head. I told her I had chastised my husband for his rude behavior and would chastise him a bit more before he would offer his apology. It surprised her when I quickly pulled down his sweat pants exposing his caged penis and recently caned cherry red ass. She was more surprised when I picked up a cane and delivered 5 more swift strokes. I then asked her to kindly bend over the arm of a chair and pull up her skirt and drop her panties so my husband could kiss her ass as his apology. Her eyes got big but she stepped up giggling and did what I asked. She had a lovely behind on her. Then I told husband to get on his knees and offer his apology without saying a word. He stepped out of his sweats, dropped to his knees and shuffled up to her. He planted a kiss on one cheek. She giggled and started to straighten up when I said, "No that won't do. Lick her crack top to bottom husband." He did, which brought an oh and an ahh from her. I then told her to reach back and spread her cheeks wide so he could apologize properly, and told him to tongue her rosebud until I told him to stop. He went to work and she started getting aroused after a few minutes. I let husband continue and the lovely little tart actually had an orgasm. She stood up after that all flushed and a bit embarrassed. She said she didn't know that could happen and her boyfriend had something to learn, but the real humiliation was my husbands'. He was never again rude to a waitress. I thanked the young woman for helping me teach my husband a lesson. I think our men should show respect to all respectable women, not just those in the community. I take it as a point of pride that Clover Lane men behave in a respectful manner at all times.

By the way Kris, that young woman is 35 now. She was disappointed by her then boyfriend, but ended up married to a fine handsome man who owns his own sporting goods store and does extremely well for them. Her name is Jess Connors. You've not met her yet but she lives two houses down from Emily on Clover A. She remembered my relationship with my husband from her waitressing days and looked me up after getting married. I helped her with her husband Carl. When a house became available, I got her in touch with Susan and things worked out. She and Emily are very close. Jess works at the store with Carl and isn't home much during the day. I'm sure you will meet her soon though.

Some men like to cum on a woman's face. This is hugely disrespectful and is to result in a severe discipline session involving as many CLFC members as possible for maximum humiliation. It could involve pegging by all present, the most humiliating of all things for a man.

Men are to share in household chores as directed. Your man is your household slave. The division of labor is entirely up to you. Abusing this power can cause issues with a man's employment so have discretion. Make sure your man gets adequate rest to be good at his employment.

Kris, with a man like Jim who has a very high stress job, you will need to be very careful. I suggest if you do not want to do domestic chores, consider hiring outside help to do them before overloading your man.

Men must maintain their health and fitness. They are expected to stay fit and attractive to the best of their ability for their dominant.

Men are to submit to discipline for failures. Men who fail to complete assigned tasks, to show proper respect, or to provide sexual satisfaction will endure the lash at the woman's discretion. A major failure is for a man to cum without permission, regardless of circumstances. The woman determines what is acceptable and sets the standard to be met. It varies widely. If man shows any reluctance to submit to discipline, it doubles the punishment. Pain is to be inflicted without injury. This takes some training. We will help you with this."

When she finished Kathy asked Kris if she had any questions.

"Not about what is expected Kathy, that is all very exciting and makes sense. I do have questions on how to get from where I am now with Jim to what you describe. I love that man dearly and would go back to pre-cage if there was a chance I would lose him going forward."

Kathy explained "The women that ended up getting divorced, Janice and Nancy, had problems in their marriages to begin with. One husband was a lazy deadbeat and the other was an alcoholic. Nancy's husband was the alcoholic and got himself dried out after their divorce and has stayed that way. Despite his addiction, he was and is a very successful businessman and makes substantial alimony payments. She lets him come back occasionally to service her on her terms, but she won't ever take him back. An exception is made for Nancy with regard to sex with outsiders because she keeps him caged. The situation is quite amusing actually. Nancy is a real ball buster when it comes to her ex, and as sweet as can be with everyone else. Janice's husband disappeared and never paid a cent of the alimony she won. Luckily she got the house and is now a highly paid investment consultant, so her financial situation is stable. Janice is a very sweet woman.

You, on the other hand, have a great man who loves you enough to accept the cage at your request. You are in no danger of losing that stud. He is going to make a splendid obedient man slut. The whole club is hoping you will share him. Others have talented, well trained, submissive men you might like to command on occasion too. It happens that Emily's Jack is quite popular and she is very generous with his time and energy.

If you need to amp your man up, tie him spread eagle to the bed, take off the cage and edge him for a while. Then ice him down and back in the cage he goes. He will whine and cry and beg for a cum, but don't give in. It needs to be your idea and he needs to earn it. If you don't trust yourself, give your key to a friend for a while and have fun without the temptation to relent. Just knowing another woman has his key will drive him nuts, especially if he knows her and sees her with his key. Flaunting of the keys is important to the psychology of control and is why we wear them openly. It is particularly rewarding when you go out with your good looking man, key in plain view, and another women looks him in the eye and says with a knowing smile, I know what that key goes to, you're a lucky man to belong to her. I've had that happen a few times. It immediately puts the man deep into sub-space and always makes my pussy gush."

Kris then asked "How do I get him to not cum without permission?"

Kathy answered with "This is a simple matter of serious disciplinary consequences. Light discipline can be sexual and fun. That's mostly what we will do with Jim's first punishment. We are not talking light discipline but increasingly long and hard sessions of paddling, caning, and flogging to cause a very long and painful experience. It is tough to do and you will probably need help. To delay his orgasm a man focuses on something unpleasant or counter sexual. A severe discipline session gives him a mental tool to use to control the desire to cum despite the stimulation. When you have given him the ability to stifle his orgasm despite your every effort to make him cum, you have given him a tool you and he will cherish for the rest of your lives. If he fails you must give him a more severe thrashing. I and others can help you with this. It can be unpleasant for loved ones to deliver and sometimes it is better to turn it over to someone less emotionally attached. It also helps that he knows further punishment will be by someone other than you if he fails again, and that it will be worse every time until it is effective. That is what is necessary. It is often best if the wife is not present."

Finally Kris asked "How do I get him to eat his cum?"

Kathy responded with "That can be one of the trickiest things. First soften him up by introducing the idea of licking up his cum. It is often best to begin with precum licked off your tits, your pussy or finger. He is highly excited at that point and won't bat an eye about licking his precum, but always just call it his cum. Tease him about it with Oh, I love it when you eat your cum for me baby. You can have him lick his cum from a ruined orgasm. It's still cum, just not as much, and he is still sexed up. Most men falling under the control of a woman fantasize about having to lick her clean. That thought goes out the window after he cums. It's called "post nut clarity" as in "what the hell was I thinking." Make it a routine expectation that he lick you to another orgasm after a fuck to orgasm. Clean up a little less each time, and spread some around so he can't lick your clit without getting some cum. Then after a few times, don't clean up at all. If he complains tell him licking you clean is now what is expected. You also can just force the issue. Tie him spread eagle, ride his cock and tell him you are going to sit on his face as soon as he cums so he can lick you clean. Don't give him an option. His balls are readily available if additional incentive is needed. A slap or squeeze is quite effective. Having a man lick cum off my pucker hole, either running out of my pussy or down my ass crack, is my favorite thing. Once a man licks his cum from one place on your body, even your fingers, the ice is broken and he will lick it from anywhere else you have trained him to lick."