After posting our stories describing how we started exchanging erotic photo's (and eventually ending up in a threesome) with a very good friend, we've received quite a few emails asking us questions about how we started, why we do it, and what we're doing now.
This isn't really a story in the strictest sense of the word, but we thought that perhaps a biography of sorts would be a good idea, so people can get to know us and perhaps understand our motivation for doing (or not doing) the things we wrote about.
If you've read our other stories, some of what is said here may seem to contradict what we wrote about, but let me assure you, those events did happen. We have, however, taken certain liberties with dialogue and timing, to place the stories in context, and have obviously altered names to preserve the anonymity of the parties involved, but have essentially written about events that have really occurred in our lives.
I guess the logical place to start would be at the very beginning, right back in the days of yore when we first started experimenting with ways to add a bit of a spark to our sex life.
We've known each other, and been a "couple" for close on twelve years, and have been married for six years (almost seven; how time flies!) and we're as happy as clams. Obviously, like any couple, we've had our share of ups and downs over all this time, but in general we're very happy.
To be honest, the whole thing probably started in one of those down times, about five years ago, not only a year ago as we said in the first story. Jen was in a bit of a depression, partly because she'd just had a baby and was feeling down about her figure, down about the responsibility of becoming a mother, and also partly because I'd been ignoring her due to work commitments and things like that. In my defense, at that stage we weren't too well off, as we hadn't been married long and we'd done the usual things like buy a house, car and all the things a newlywed couple needs to survive and I'd made the mistake of working way too much to try and catch up on the shortfall. We also weren't prepared to be parents, and I guess that took its toll too. Suffice to say, we were both not too happy, and we were taking it out on each other.
A very good friend of the family saved us. He didn't know it, probably still doesn't, but he saved our marriage and for that I'm eternally thankful. He sat me down and we had a chat over a couple of beers in the pub one night. He basically told me that I needed to pay more attention to Jen and never mind that the work was what brought in the money. If she left me, I wouldn't have anyone to spend it on! Coming from someone who'd been happily married for close to thirty years, those words carried quite a bit of weight. Thankfully, I wasn't stupid, and I heeded his advice.
I started coming home on time, helping out around the house a bit more, and most importantly, I paid attention to Jen. That was how I finally found out about her problem with her self image. It wasn't just "baby blues" as I'd assumed, it was more that because of my neglecting her, and the sudden change in weight associated with having a baby, she felt she wasn't attractive any more. Damn! What an idiot I had been!!! Well, I was determined to put it right. For the next couple of months (and to this day, actually), I'd stop and look at her, and really see the beautiful woman I'd married, and I'd tell her what I saw. A charming smile, stunning eyes, and yes...a beautiful body. Like a lot of women, she thought I was bullshitting her. Perseverance on my part finally made her realise that yes, she was attractive to me, and I meant every word I said about her being beautiful. She still didn't fully believe me when I told her that other guys also found her attractive though...
About this time, I saw a little gadget I just had to have. OK, I'm a geek at heart, so sue me! I saw a little camera called the Epson PhotoPC 500, one of the first commercially available digital cameras in our country. I bought one as soon as I could, and was a very happy camper. Well, after I'd begged forgiveness from the missus, that is. Being an early adopter of new technology is an expensive affliction!
Photography had always been a passion for me, and I'd played around doing my own developing and printing for years. I'd unfortunately had to give up the darkroom when our son was born, so hadn't been able to indulge my hobby for a while. With the new camera, I was at last able to get back into it again. Of course, the hard disk soon began to fill with the obligatory baby pictures and random snapshots as I indulged myself. One night I asked myself "Self, why the fuck haven't you got any nude snaps of Jen?". Once I'd gotten the idea, I found it very hard to get rid of and I plotted and planned how I was going to get Jen to pose naked for me. At this point, I had no intention of ever letting anyone else see her naked, I just wanted a few nudes of her for my own use.
Well, a short while after, I mustered up the courage and asked Jen if she'd pose topless for me. She was reluctant, but I told her once again that she looked fantastic, and she eventually agreed. One Saturday, while gran was looking after our son, Jen and I set up a makeshift studio in our lounge and did a quick shoot. Most of the photo's were bog standard Page Three shots of Jen standing topless against a plain background, but one or two really stood out. They captured her smile and twinkling eyes perfectly. We did get a bit hot and bothered while we were taking the photo's, but it wasn't until we were looking at them on the computer that we lost control and ended up making love on the floor of the study, in front of the screen. Jen saw finally what I had been telling her, that she was indeed a beauty, and that she could definitely grace the pages of a men's magazine alongside any of the models. It was the start of a great hobby for us, that's lasted till today, and will probably last for many more years to come.
Jen realised that she is very attractive, and also, more importantly, that she's quite the little exhibitionist. She really loved showing herself off in front of the camera! I was happy as a clam because I'm a voyeur, so we're a perfect match in all respects.
Over the years, whenever we got the urge to have a bit of sexy fun, I'd whip out the camera and we'd indulge in a bit of photographic foreplay. Jen's become a lot more adventurous, and has graduated from doing purely topless shots to doing everything she can think of in front of the camera. I am, indeed, a happy man. Lucky too, to have a wife who lets me indulge my peculiar little hobby. I'm still a geek, though, and have since traded in that first camera for a better model. The running joke in our house is that a new camera hasn't been tested properly until it's seen Jen naked. All my cameras have been thoroughly tested, let me assure you!
Our collection of nudes of Jen has grown over the years, and we have quite a few now. Over 2000, at last count. Most of them are pretty tame, like the earliest ones showing her topless or nude around the house. As she got more comfortable being photographed, she let me take slightly more risqué ones of her spread totally open, or masturbating with fingers or dildos, and even of the two of us having sex. My personal favourites are those "grab shots" of her naked around the house. Somehow they're the most erotic. Not the most titillating, but erotic...and yes, there's a huge difference between the two.
A major development was the first time Jen truly realised that other men found her attractive. I'd been a bad boy, and had posted one or two photo's on the 'net one night when I'd had a beer or two too many. They were thankfully well masked, or she'd have castrated me. I'd posted them in the newsgroups. I think it was something like alt.binaries.pictures.erotica.amateurs Whatever group it was, I got a couple of replies from guys that basically said they would love to fuck her. Well, I showed her the replies, and she was stunned. That was a turning point. She agreed to post a few more, just to see if anyone else thought she was sexy. The replies were great, and ever since then she's been even happier to pose for me, and happy to let me show her off to the world via the internet.
That's where my little kink comes in. Somewhere along the way, I found out that the thought of letting guys see Jen naked was a massive turnon for me too. I can't explain it, but I know it's one of the things that makes me come like a horse. Jen couldn't understand it at first, but over time she's come to accept it, and also her desire to let people see her nude body.
For a while we were content just to do nudes and the occasional porn shot that we ended up posting, but soon that even got to be boring. No, boring's not the right word. We wanted to make the pictures different to those we saw posted by others who shared our hobby. We started doing themes, getting Jen dressed up in a costume, or something like that. It wasn't until we were asked to do a shoot outdoors that Jen really found out what she loved.
A regular in the newsgroups suggested a shoot in the forest, a nice backdrop for Jen's nude body. We thought "What the hell" and one weekend set off for a walk in a nearby nature reserve. Along the way Jen would occasionally stop and pose for me, at first fully clothed, but I soon talked her into taking off her top. Our first outdoor topless shot still makes me horny! By the time we got back to the house, we were so horny, we fucked in the car in our garage. We couldn't wait to even get inside.
When we discussed the shoot afterwards, we found out that Jen's exhibitionist tendencies were definitely deepening, and that she was now interested in taking photo's in places where we could get caught, or at the very least, seen. She got off on the idea of someone, preferably another man, seeing her. That was another turning point for us, when we openly admitted to each other the possibility of introducing a third person into our sex life, even an anonymous one in a purely voyeuristic capacity.
