I had sexual encounters with 23 other women when in a relationship with my wife. She herself was no angel, sleeping with other men without my knowledge at the time. Her stories would be quite something to read.
We'd married young and as we had small children were in a situation where we wanted to make the relationship work so the kids didn't grow up without a dad. Due to this I stayed with her, but I ensured I had my fill of other women whilst I was still young and attractive.
This is the story of the first of my indiscretions with other women. Before we were married, before we had children. This is our early years where mistakes are easily made and damage to a relationship starts. This story is particularly important to me as it was the beginning of a decade long string of affairs and sexual encounters. I've not told anyone else about this until now.
My wife, who was my girlfriend at the time, was a hairdresser. I'd not been introduced to the hairdressing world before. It turns out they're a very social bunch and on my first meeting with her work colleagues we ended up eating after work, having some drinks, which lead to more drinks and eventually to a backpacker's bar. This bar was chosen as it was one that would be open late, have good music to dance to and other young people to dance with.
I had brought my flatmate with me as he was keen to meet some new friends. We all enjoyed a good social night and the evening rolled on without any hiccups. I noticed quite a few of her colleagues were flirtatious with me and I appreciated it but didn't cross any lines. There was one girl though who was persistent. She was perhaps a lesser attractive member of the group physically but she had a very pretty face with sparkling, bright eyes. Very short with a bit of weight on her, she more than made up for it with the level of attention she gave me and her rhythmic and seductive dancing.
As the night turned late most of the hairdressers in the group started to leave. They had to work in the morning and there's a limit to how late you can stay out drinking when you're on your feet all the next day trying to be nice to clients. I was still studying at the time and had no such limits. My lady and I had a chat and she could see I was having a good time with the remaining staff and my flatmate and was generous and suggested I should stay. She really wanted to hit the hay and I was having a good time. We weren't living together yet so that was fine. I'd see her the following evening after work.
Off she went and as she left a sort of group exit happened. All her work colleagues started to leave at around the same time. "Night over" I was thinking. Grabbing a last drink and a chat with my flatmate before catching the train home was the plan when the short girl appeared from the toilet area. She'd deliberately skulked away from the group so she didn't have any social pressure to leave with them.