When we first got married, in 1996, my wife, Mary, was quite conservative. She didn't even own a 2-piece swimming suit and would never consider going out in public braless.
We'd been married for 3 or 4 years when it suddenly dawned on me that the thought of people seeing Mary partly or totally nude really turned me on. At that moment, I started on my, still ongoing, project to make her into an exhibitionist.
As part of my project I suggested that Mary take a pole dancing class, and she quickly agreed. There were 2 main reasons for her taking the class. First, she thought it would be fun and good exercise. Second, the students would have the opportunity to perform a recital at a small, local, open to the public, strip club. Since I love for her to show off in public, this seemed like a great, safe way to do it and not get arrested!!
The class went well and Mary had a great time. There were around 25 students, off and on, in the class. At 42 she was the oldest student in the class. As the class got nearer to the end the date for the recital was set. We spent a lot of time picking an outfit and songs and rehearsing and I took her to several strip clubs so she could see the "real deal".