My wife Sharon has from time to time spoken about being curious about strip clubs. This is not something that I could ever press her on. She would clam up and act like I was a pervert. However, I have always kept this in the back of my mind.
I have a theory that all women, no matter how modest, have an exhibitionist streak in them to some degree. They like to show off, especially if they are attractive or have a nice body. My wife falls into both of these categories. At 42 she is a cute, thin brunette with perky A cup breasts. There are always guys hovering around her and she occasionally comes home with stories of being hit on. When it's a young guy hitting on her, I'm assured of some action that night.
One night we were going out to dinner and the kids were with their grandparents. At dinner, as I plied her with wine, I tried to get her to admit to wanting to do something a little more sexually daring. She was being coy but I could see the wheels spinning in her head. Throughout dinner I would run my hand along her bare thigh under the table. At first she would brush my hand away and look around to see if anyone was looking but eventually she let me explore a little more. To make sure she stayed comfortable, I didn't push her too far.
In the car after dinner I asked where she wanted to go. She gave a vague I don't know type of answer so I decided to go for broke and asked her if she wanted to go to a strip club. She didn't say no-I had passed the first obstacle. She expressed some hesitation. She was afraid she would be seen by someone we knew or would be harassed or stared at lewdly.
If she was going to do it, she needed to be left alone and allowed to simply see what one of these clubs was like. She was curious. She wondered how the girls did what they did and how the guys reacted. She was concerned that the guys would get carried away and what that would mean for her.
I promised her that these places didn't typically get too rowdy. The bouncers kept things in check. She agreed to give it a try if I promised we would leave if she got uncomfortable. I told her there was a place in the city that I passed on my way to work that was BYOB. We would pick up some drinks and head on over.
We arrived and paid the cover charge and went on in. As soon as we entered, she was surprised to see a naked girl on the stage. She didn't think they were allowed to get completed nude. I let her know that since there was no alcohol being sold, the restrictions didn't apply. It was a quirk in the law.
We made our way to an open area not too close to the stage but not all the way in the back either. We broke out our drinks and she started asking me questions about what the girls would do. She seemed to be enjoying herself. A topless girl made her way up to us but Sharon was a little uncomfortable so she moved on to the next group.