I had a 'Krise in der Mitte des Lebens' (in English, a 'mid-life crisis'). I had become increasingly disenchanted with my life, my job and most everything else at the ripe old age (let's just say I'll never see 40 again) so I decided to make a fresh start and to get away from the staid life I was living in Nord Rhine Westphalia.
Being single (actually, divorced and no kids, leastways none that I knew of) the decision was not difficult to make given I only had myself to think about. My ex-wife cited 'unacceptable habits and pastimes; incompatibility' as the reasons for us parting and I had no objections as she had become insufferably dull with no sense of adventure or any interest in doing the things that excited me. (Not strictly true, for I later discovered that she had made a cuckold of me with an equally dull guy who she shared her office with!) So it was that we called it quits and followed up by having an 'amicable' divorce and going our separate ways.
It was the divorce that prompted me to question what I was doing with my life and now free of responsibility to nobody but myself I decided to go the whole way and make radical changes to who I was; what I did and, well, everything.
I started the life-change process by my handing in my notice at the Dusseldorf finance business, an investment bank, where I had worked since leaving school. They were sorry to see me go but respected my decision and we parted on good terms. As to their question as to what job was it that had lured me away, they were not to know that I had been researching the bank's clients and had identified one company that sounded attractive, had stuck out as being progressive, had potential and, more importantly, were recruiting.
The company in question manufactured Saunas and Jacuzzis and other health spa-type of installations and were looking for customer representatives to promote their products and to support existing customers. The job required travel to customer sites (mainly hotels, health spas, gymnasiums; some private houses) and represented a chance to do something really different from that of being stuck behind a desk staring at a computer screen and talking on the telephone. I was not to know (but soon learned) just how different the change in employment would be.
As stated, I had to visit various places and I quickly came to terms with having as part of job responsibilities a requirement for me to actually use the saunas and hot-tubs the company had installed to ensure that they were operating in accordance with the specifications.
l delighted in this aspect of the job given that I admit to being a 'closet-nudist' and I like nothing better than getting my clothes off! There was also the reality that (contrary to the reputation that we Germans may have for being staid and little bit prudish) when it comes to saunas there is a definite link to the culture of FKK (Freikörperkultur) which promotes nudity as being a healthy activity and therefore being naked in the company of other health-seeking individuals is not something that is thought of as being a 'big deal'.. (I also admit to other traits, one being there is no doubt I have exhibitionist tendencies and another of being 'bi-curious' so the prospect of seeing either sex in a similar state of undress was quite appealing.)
So it has been a couple years now that I have been in this job and I love it!
Why?
Well, perhaps the following examples might go some way to telling the story of how to turn your life around.
One of my first customers was (still is) located within a gated community of luxury apartments which has a spa and swimming pool in the basement area. I never know exactly who I might see during my 'inspection' but typically there will always be someone using the sauna when I visit and it is always a delight to meet and make new friends.
On my last visit the occupant of the sauna identified herself as the manager of the complex, a Frau Fäbler. I guessed her age to be around 55-ish and have to say that life had not treated her well. She is overweight with a flabby stomach, thick arms and legs, neck, blonde short hair (that I suspect is dyed) but she has a pretty face and I think she knows it.
I've only dealt with her twice. The previous time she was in her office, well groomed, but her dress didn't disguise the fact that she has really huge tits and a gorgeous, wide, big ass; exactly what I like to see in a woman!
On that first meeting I quickly warmed to her as she was quite flirty, always coming out with lewd sayings and jokes and was clearly a fun sort of person. My visit was to follow up on the replacement of a sealing ring in the hot tub plumbing that had been carried out by our engineers. The repair was a success but my mention of the topic of 'rings' gave her an excuse to talk about different types of rings but in a way that was full of sexual innuendo. She was really quite funny and that excited me and I was tempted to show that I was just as open-minded as herself by letting her see the reason for the developing bulge in my trousers, unzipping and to gauge her reaction at seeing another type of ring, the cock ring around the base of my thickening penis...
... But I didn't, I just continued the banter all the while looking at her cleavage and those incredibly thick udders.
So it was that on my next visit, which was scheduled to take place just before Christmas, that I was pleased to find that someone was already inside when I went to check out the sauna. As per usual I would go and undress in the male changing room, give my cock a few strokes so that it would be pleasingly plump, adjust my cock ring and then seek out wherever the sauna might be located.
I was glad that I had taken that precaution for when I entered the sauna, and once my eyes had accustomed themselves to the darkened room and mist, it was to find that there was already someone sat on the middle shelf, enjoying the facilities. It was Frau Fälber, the fat manager of the complex.
At first I was a little surprised for on my previous meeting with her she hadn't come across as being a 'sporty type' who would bother with such things as saunas and Jacuzzis but, no matter, she knew me and through the fog greeted me with a, "Well, hello, nice to see you again ...."
I turned to her so that she could see everything more clearly, my cock sticking out slightly and half erect. She giggled at my brazen behaviour and continued, " ... you should have given me a ring to say you were coming ... oh, I see that you have bought the ring with you!"
I laughed back at her innuendo and pushed out my hips so that my cock and the shiny steel ring around its base was clear to see. The gesture made my cock get bigger, longer and harder and I could feel the ring tighten its grip; it felt wonderful.
"Hmm, Happy Christmas," was her response to my showing off my cock.
"Hello Frau Fälber, I didn't even recognize you..., (which was a lie)" ... what do you mean by Christmas?"
"Why Christmas? Well, you turn up unannounced and just when I'm thinking about a tree and what decorations I should be putting up, you come in here with that nice looking 'wood' already pretty with a festive wreath and those glorious big balls hanging down!"
My God, I couldn't believe what I was hearing, this was all happening so quickly; she was being so direct and, even better for me, the exhibitionist, she thinks my big balls are wonderful.
My cock reacted to her sexy talk and instantly grew to its hard state and stood out horizontally, the ring squeezing its delightful pressure so that the veins along my length protruded prominently. She kept her eyes on my cock and my balls and only looked at me briefly. Seeing that I had her full attention, I made my hard cock twitch and moved so that my balls wobbled before her gaze.
She laughed lewdly and said, "That's nice. It looks just like Santa's hand bell. Come here and let me give it a ring."
My dick was rock hard, I was living the dream and all in front of a horny woman. I moved closer and without hesitation she grabbed my cock, put her hand around it and gave it a shake so that my balls swung back and forth. "Nice ring to it," she purred.
I enjoyed feeling her hand on my cock, but unfortunately she let go right away. I looked at her and figured she might be wanting me to respond in kind so with my cock pointing at those glorious big tits I said, "Well, you have a nice set of bells as well. Shall we give them a ring?"
I put my hands under her boobs, held them up and rocked them back and forth. She approved and gave what can only be described as another purr. I moved closer and my cock rested between her cleavage.
She made no objection to that so I pushed between the softness burying my cock between her tits; she covered my hands with hers and together we rhythmically raised and lowered her tits, rubbing my hard cock, giving me a titty fuck. She looked down and to make things go more smoothly dribbled her saliva to act as a welcomed lubricant; it felt even better.
Then, as so often happens, other people appeared to interrupt my pleasure. A couple opened the sauna door and came in to make their way and find themselves a seat on the opposite side to ourselves. Frau Fälber pushed me away and at her suggestion I quickly sat next to and behind her so that the other couple couldn't clearly see me. I was able to hide well behind Frau Fälber's fat body and still be able to leave my erection pointing up so that she could see him further. I stroked her thick thigh with the back of my hand, grabbed my protruding cock with my other hand and when neither of the couple was looking my way I stroked back and forth so that Frau Fälber could see the fat knob of my cock which was now streaming sticky pre-cum. Again it felt glorious but I made the mistake of being too noisy and the other couple must have noticed something, because they whispered and went out again pretty quickly.
We sniggered with relief as they were leaving and before they had even closed the door I began to properly jerk off my cock. I was so excited at being caught in this situation that all I could think about was wanting to cum in the presence of this agreeable woman. (I also recognised that this was the type of behaviour that my ex-wife found so disagreeable; she would never have joined me in doing something like this!)