The Evolution of our Pizza games
Be patient, evolution didn't happen overnight.
We married young. Thanks to my uncle and grandparent's help we soon had a small concrete block home on a standard 50' X 100' city lot. I'm guessing that the little house may have been as small as 20' X 20', no larger than 24' X 24' with a six foot wide wood framed addition across the rear. The little house sat a foot or so in from the alley and maybe a foot from the south lot line. There were no set-back rules back then.
There was a cement driveway leading to a one and one half car cement block garage just ahead of the house and off to the north side of the lot. Within months I'd bought and began restoring a 1931 Model A coupe in my little shop. This was my dream since middle school, marriage and a baby were not!
The house sat on a cement slab with a small living room on the front right corner and the tiny bedroom next to the living room. On the back half, a kitchen with dining area and a small bathroom left of it. The door going out to the rear porch was next to the bathroom and another door was on the end of the porch to the small rear side yard. All windows were the old style, wide and nearly floor length, letting in lots of sunlight, and easy to see out, or in, as we'd find out.
Dollie was already five months pregnant with our first son. It wasn't an accident. We planned it so we could get married. She was thin, maybe 110#, with medium boobs for her frame. For those who feel they need to know, slightly hanging grapefruit sized with little nipples just above center.
The weather was cooling down. Dollie began wearing long baggy dresses and loose fitting blouses rather than her normal sluttish clothes. Few people knew she was pregnant until after we were married a short time. Soon she filled out and there was no hiding it!
To make matters worse, Dollie went into convulsions at seven months, having the baby two months early. Our son was fine but Dollie was now in a coma for days. With our preacher, doctors, and nurses, I was taken into a small room and we prayed. I was told Dollie may not recover and I'd be left alone with a new baby. Crap, I was barely able to take care of myself.
After the group left I whispered for help. I wouldn't call it praying. Although we occasionally went to church, I never actually believed in the Bible or that we were created by the Lord. Still, I felt I wasn't sitting there alone. In a short time a nurse came to tell me my wife is now sitting up asking for me. Similar things happened later in our lives.
This is a story about flashing for pizzeria employees. Yet there is much more to this evolutionary game than just pizza. Some of you say your wife or significant other won't play certain games. Maybe you haven't gone about it right. Evolution and fantasy doesn't happen overnight, as my wandering off topic often shows.
Love has always been our reasons for my fantasies to become games. It may sound silly, but without trust and love, there's no way Dollie would have put up with me all these years. She always said it was love at first sight.
For the nearly two years we dated and the two short months we were married Dollie constantly said I love you and expected me to say it back to her. I often did say it yet wasn't so sure I really loved her. What is love and how does one know when they are 'in love'? It was seeing her holding our baby and the thought of loosing her that finally made me realize I loved her!
All of our married life, even this past October, we'd lied and told everyone we married a year earlier. In reality we didn't recently celebrate our 59th anniversary, it was our 58th. Our kids finally found out October 2014 when we bought a home to move back to where we were from. I needed a marriage license to get the house. Since the kids live near, the oldest picked up the marriage license for us. He laughed and said they'd always heard rumors that he was born right after we got married. All three of our adult children told us it doesn't matter, they've always known we love them! Love does not make a Subaru, it keeps families together!
More love. Dollies' mother and several of Dollie's old high school friends were at the house everyday, some there day and night. By now I was twenty, as were most of my friends. Dollie and her girlfriends were eighteen to nineteen. We could sometimes buy beer but couldn't go to the bars yet. At that age we thought bars were where fun happens. For now fun happened in that little house.