My wife was the type... well you know the kind: "Oh I couldn't wear something like that. Anyone could see my bra right through it!" Now that isn't to say she didn't like sex. She was just extremely reserved. Her background was very strict and she was brought up believing that overly sexual women were loose women. And her ideas of overly sexual were stringent to say the least.
To her, keeping our sex life alive and thriving meant the rare "daring" deed or maybe trying a new position. Daring might be something as exciting as her flashing me from our window as I cut the back grass with no one around anywhere. But she was a good faithful wife and willing to give herself even if she wasn't in the mood as long as it was just us and no fear of interruption. Unfortunately, that was most of the time and it showed considerably.
I was never one to long for wild sex orgies and swapping partners or anything, but I did have a streak of wanting just a bit more out of our sex life. I never verbalized it because I knew it would hurt her to think I wasn't happy and that's the last thing I wanted to do. Yet it was her who typically came up with the little surprises from time to time.
For instance, not surprisingly she had told me before we were married that she wasn't a virgin, but that she had never in her life masturbated. I quizzed her on that asking why and how she kept from doing it and her answer was that it just never seemed exciting nor did she feel it would be satisfying. Like most men, watching a woman masturbate is always a huge turn-on, so I asked if she'd do it for me. She made a face and said it just seemed dirty and unfulfilling.
When we got a video camera, I asked if we could make some videos in the bedroom. That was of course out of the question. I'd pull it out when we were alone on vacations or in a motel while traveling and she'd pretend that she was going to flash me until she saw the little red recording light come on then her whole personality changed. But I persisted in asking her to let me make a video over and over when it seemed appropriate until one day it worked.
We had a little piece of land and it had a mobile home on it. We never spent the night there but it was convenient when we went for a day's outing or just a hike in the woods to come back and have that place to retire to for a bit. On this day I had brought the camera with us to get pictures of things in there for insurance purposes, or so I said. I did want those, but I also wanted pictures and videos of her naked.
I took pictures all over the place and then set the camera on a table in the bedroom. After we had sat down and relaxed a bit I asked if she'd like a massage. Now she loved massages, yet refused more than accepted because she connected them with sex. Typically if I got her naked and rubbed her back and shoulders well, she would get horny herself and want more. So you see it wasn't me who made it sexual, but rather her. Yet it only occurred and was allowed if she was already at least somewhat in the mood.
This day she surprised me by saying that a back rub sounded great. I told her to go in the bedroom and get comfortable and I'd give her a nice back rub. Now I said nothing about removing any clothing, but as she walked in she began undressing. I tried acting nonchalant about it by just casually waiting for her to get to the level of undress she wanted and lay down.
While she was undressing I saw the camera there and turned to turn it on hoping she wouldn't notice I had done that. But even before I turned back to her I heard her say, "Turn that OFF!" in no uncertain terms. Now it was a warm day and she just kept undressing until she slipped off her panties and was totally naked.
I said to her, "Aw honey, can't I just have one video?"
I was shocked as she climbed up on the bed and with her back to me said, "What do you want it for?"
