I suppose there are many different ways people keep their relationships healthy, but for hubby and I, an active and adventurous sex life seems to be one or our keys to success. With that in mind, we have found that tossing dares at each other from time to time both challenges and stimulates our sexual energy. Here are a few of our stories.
Hubby's Dare #1: "Drive to our favorite public hiking trail and park where we usually park. Head down the trail one mile, then leave the trail going due north for about 200 feet. There above the trail, is a small stand of trees. Remove all your clothes, and handcuff yourself to one of the trees. Make sure your hands are behind your back, and you are facing south towards the trail. I'll follow exactly one hour behind you with the key to the handcuffs."
To me, Hubby's dare sounded simple enough, and I was excited by the prospect of forcing myself to strip naked and lock myself to a tree – all within eye sight of a fairly active hiking trail. Fear of potential public humiliation, mixed with the erotic excitement of being exposed to a stranger, or a group of strangers, is a powerful and stimulating emotion.
Hubby wished me luck as I headed out the door that Saturday morning. "You have nothing to worry about babe, I'll be right behind you." He said, reassuringly, as an impish grin began to form on his face.
I could never tell when hubby might have an extra trick or surprise up his sleeve, and that impish little grin of his merely added to the anxiety I was already experiencing as I slipped into the car and headed out the driveway.
Knowing the terrain I would be negotiating, I had decided to wear hiking shorts, a simple tee shirt, sturdy walking shoes, and a wide brim Aussie-style hat - sensible clothing that would also cause me to blend into the crowd, so to speak, as I made my way down the trail.
Pulling into the parking area at the trailhead, I saw that there were three other cars already there. Nobody was around, so I assumed that the occupants were all well ahead of me on the trail. It wasn't unusual to have a dozen cars parked here, as this particular hiking path was quite popular. The area was not a park, per se, just a public recreation area. The dirt trail wandered through about 12 miles of open lands of mostly grass and brush-covered hills, dotted with small stands of trees and an occasional natural spring. I could not have asked for a finer day as a warm sun was shining on this cloudless early summer day.
As I stepped from my car, I could feel the anxiety welling up inside me. "What if hubby breaks down on the way to rescue me?" I thought to myself. "Panic" thoughts streamed through my mind as I mechanically went through the process of locking my purse in the trunk, and securing the car for my departure. Flipping my hat on my head, I closed and locked the car door and headed off down the trail.
Covering a mile seemed to take only minutes, although I knew it had been a good 20 minutes since leaving my car. I continued on until I was directly below the stand of trees hubby had described. Pausing only long enough to scan the trail in both directions to see if anyone were nearby, I abruptly turned left and started up the gentle slope towards the trees.
I was panting a bit by the time I finally made it to my destination. I guessed that I was standing about 50' in elevation above, and about 75 yards distance from the path. It seemed much closer than I had thought it to be when Hubby first proposed his dare. Nevertheless, I dutifully began to undress as promised.
The stand consisted of less than a dozen small cottonwood and juniper trees, none of which had a trunk diameter of more than 12 inches. The surrounding grass was easily one to two-feet high in most places, and a few small bushes also dotted the hillside. Looking down at the trail, I felt that I would be fairly exposed to anyone passing by that might glance up in my direction. But that was the thrill of it all, right?
Watching for any movement on the trail below, I pulled off my tee shirt and bra, setting my perky little 36C titties free. I had started to heat up during the walk in, especially during the gradual ascent to the trees. Reaching the shade, and losing my shirt felt very relaxing, and helped to calm me a bit as I stepped out of my shorts and panties. Now I really felt free, as I stretched my arms and scanned again for movement on the trail.
As I looked around at the trees trying to decide which trunk to attach myself to, I reached down to my pussy and combed my fingers through my thick bush of red hair. I had always kept my pubes neatly manicured, but preferred to leave the thickness in place. I gently slipped a finger inside my pussy and marveled at how wet I had already become.
Neatly placing my clothes on a nearby log, I stepped over to an adjacent tree along the side of the grove facing the trail. The tree I had selected was only about 8" in diameter, so I knew I would be able to apply the cuff behind my back without too much trouble. Now was the moment of truth. I slipped one cuff onto my left wrist, backed up to the tree, and with eyes closed, secured my right wrist to the other cuff. I could feel my stomach tighten in fear/panic/excitement, as I listened to the cuff clicking down around my wrist.
That did it; I was now standing there handcuffed to a tree, with no way of escaping - my 5'8", 140lb, 40-something year-old naked body exposed to the world. At this moment, I would say that the erotic excitement of my situation overshadowed my anxiety, as I noticed that my nipples were fully erect and I was yearning for something to satisfy my hyper-stimulated pussy.
Just before restraining myself to the tree, I had glanced at my watch and 'guestimated' that hubby would be by within half an hour. Everything was going along as planned.