Two of my best friends recently shared a sexual encounter with me . It was an incredible experience. And while it may or may not lead to anything more, it was extremely unique and important to me. It involved my friends Tom and Diane; who are dating each other.
They both wanted me to keep this a secret although I told them that I was going to journal about it. Tom of course wanted to read my version of the story and I promptly told him he could only read mine if he also wrote his. Below is my version.
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Being present when friend is both exhibitionist and voyeur.
Tom and I were out playing soccer most of the day. We are both gym and activity junkies at this time in our lives. I had plans to visit family that evening and stopped by Tom's house for a quick shower since we weren't at the gym today. Tom's house is often the center of our social life so it isn't uncommon for many of us to use his house as our personal base.
Diane, Tom's girlfriend, is living at Tom's for a short while until she finds a new roommate. They are a great couple who everyone expects to live together eventually. But Diane is also very independent and wants a few years in her own place first. I've always appreciated both of their purposeful ways of living.
After I showered my family plans were cancelled, so I found myself just hanging out with Tom. Shortly thereafter Diane burst in the front door lagging several boxes behind. Apparently she agreed to drop off a bunch of old clothes at Goodwill for her sister. But upon inspection she discovered the boxes also contained many prospective costumes which she wanted to consider before donation.
Tom, not a fan of clutter, just finished his shower when he objected slightly to the boxes and wanted some assurance that they wouldn't linger in his house too long. Costume parties were still a solid thing with our friends so this had huge potential. We all energetically sifted through the clothes together.
Soon we had a good pile of vests and skirts and other random colorful fun garbs with the remaining donation boxes repacked. Without any evening plans, I agreed to drop these off on my way out.
While we were still holding up the most fun clothes, Tom asked Diane to model some of the sexier options. Diane is confident if not also reserved. According to Tom she is quite playful and not bashful. By his account, she is very creative and sexually giving in their relationship. Yet I've never witnessed her actually being very public and mostly shows an outwardly reserved personality.
"Naturally you want the girl to show off, so cliche", Diane negatively responded. "What if a girl wants the guys to model for a change. Maybe that is the option today."
Now Tom does tend to be fun and casual. I've never seen him back down from an artistic flamboyant showman opportunity.
"True, we can do that. I just thought since we have a guest here you might want to play runway and model a few of the more fun pieces" Tom held up a fairly sheer blue frock.
"Really, you want to make our guest uncomfortable and use him as the excuse for your own personal pleasure. You just came back from soccer and I know how you get on adrenaline. I'm sure you and I can play with these later." grabbing the garment out of Tom's hand. Still, she was just playing offended and was enjoying the banter.
"I'm not uncomfortable by the way." This was my way of chiding Diane while encouraging Tom's suggestion.
"Nope, I'm calling a Sadie Hawkins audible. Today I get to make the requests and you two model for me."
Aw, playing the Sadie Hawkins card. Neither of us would actually know when that was so it was a smart strategic advantage. Tom and I agreed and started putting on various selections at Diane's direction. Most gave a good laugh. Some were clearly for women and didn't fit either of us, but we tried. I stepped in the other room for some of the changes requiring clothing removals.
Tom pushed Diane deeper into the control position. He soon told her she needed to dress both of us as she desired. If she thought it was sexist to assume the girl would model for two men, then in the spirit of Sadie Hawkins she needed to dress us as she found sexy. This made her ponder for a bit. "Just for fun", he said. And to counter his original sexist assumption, she needed to impose her sexy desires on us. Smart way of forcing the flirty hand yet maintaining her control.
Diane slowly walked around us both to add suspense. She dug into the pile and picked out two rather basic but colorful vests. From Tom's stories I knew a few things about Diane's preferences and she was completely a chest girl. We purposely hit the presses most at the gym knowing Tom would be rewarded later. Thus, at this age, we both were quite firm from the abs up. The selection of vests wouldn't have made as much sense without this knowledge.