Women in the Arcadia Community are governed by what one might call a totalitarian principle. Everything we do, everything we say and think and even feel is regulated by and focused on the fact that we are female. This is challenging, can be frustrating, discomforting and sometimes infuriating, but is always stimulating, often unpredictable, never dull.
Yet I still struggle to fully understand the appeal of being a woman in the Community. We are, with very few exceptions, well-educated, highly motivated, independent-minded and free-spirited. And yet, despite the veneer of equality -- for example Alice's role as administrative director, and the academic and professional achievements of most of us in the "outside world" -- we are in a real sense property. We are owned both individually and collectively by the minority of citizens whose sole qualification for the rights and privileges they enjoy is to be male. And there is no doubt that while we may delight in aspects of our lifestyle, our primary pleasure as females is derived, is expected to be derived, from the males and what pleases them. We work not just as hard but harder, make more sacrifices, tolerate more, demand and expect less, much less, than those we serve and obey. And it is irrelevant whether they have earned their privilege. Our servitude, obeisance and obedience are unconditional and unreciprocated... at least in theory.
Nobody, so far as I know, has ever tested the limits of female sufferance in Arcadia. I doubt very much that the rules which govern our lives can be enforced. It is social pressure and perhaps the threat of ostracism which keeps us "in line"... but that's neither motivation nor deterrence. We are here of our own free will; we understood what was expected of us before we arrived. We knew that our status would be defined and delineated not by what we do but by (in a turn of phrase I hear a lot) what we are and what we are not. And while no one except maybe the most bigoted men and most servile women would claim that we females are inferior -- mentally, emotionally or even necessarily physically -- we do acknowledge
la diffΓ©rence
. It's the
raison d'Γͺtre
of the Arcadia Community.
Sabrina is perhaps the best example of this. If, all other things being unchanged, she had been born with a penis, she would fit perfectly into the role of master, getting as much satisfaction from that as she actually does being a slave... but probably with less of the thrill that she desires. After all, genuine thrills come from challenging yourself, testing and expanding your limits, enhancing your insight and perceptions. And I honestly believe that this is the birthright of the females in Arcadia.
We
are the fortunate sex. Our lives are never boring, never simple, never mundane. Every waking moment, even while preforming the most menial and dreary of chores, is a sensual and sexual experience. It's because whatever it is we're doing, we do not, cannot, are not allowed to forget or ignore, even for an instant (and here's that expression again!) what we are and what we are not.
I've pontificated long enough, but will nevertheless add this. We (the women of Arcadia) are all, to an extent, exhibitionist, probably more sexually oriented than most women. Some of us are submissive and even masochistic by nature. I have never considered myself that way; but this may be the key to comprehension. For instance, being naked in public is, you might think, a novelty that wears off. At first you feel embarrassment, because it's something that (paradoxically) feels unnatural, to be so completely exposed. You may feel shame at being so wanton. These sentiments don't last; and yet, as I've mentioned, familiarity does not breed contempt or complacency. In the end you feel joy and take pride in your nudity, not just because it is pleasing to men, but because it is an expression of your commitment to this lifestyle.