These are some of my sexual adventures with Alice in the late 1970s, beginning when we had just moved into a new shared rental with a few friends, after already living together for about 18 months.
Up to this point our sex life had been active- but irregular; as a nurse Alice worked shifts and we had to make the most of our opportunities. Sometimes this was during the day, but only if there were no housemates around so we would not appear too over-enthusiastic. Alice was always seemed willing and always seemed to enjoy sex; we would strip naked and after much kissing and fondling, mostly she would lie back and I would ride between her legs.
After a few weeks in the new house, around 3 am in the morning, things changed. I woke from some wild erotic dream with a massive erection and, taking care not to disturb the sleeping Alice, quickly pleasured myself. After my years of practice, this seemed quite possible and in less than a dozen well timed strokes I squirted hard onto my belly, forming a warm milky pond. But, as I tried to slowly slip out of bed to clean-up the evidence, Alice woke.
She turned on the bed-side lamp and immediately wanted to know just what was I doing? I quickly explained I had an urgent need and that I had satisfied it in my usual way and it was no big deal. To my surprise, Alice took a very different view- she was insulted that I had not woken her if I wanted sex. All the men she had known said they hated masturbation and men only did it when they couldn't get a girl. And when I asked- no, she did not masturbate!
I was surprised and as delicately as I could I explained that, although most would deny it, in reality all men masturbated. I confessed that even when I had a girlfriend I probably had "sex" this way almost daily, and sometimes more. I did not think this was wrong, and it gave me a lot of pleasure. Also, I had read that women who masturbated were a lot more likely to have orgasms during sex with their partners, than those that did not.
Alice said that I had given her a lot to think about, enough to postpone our discussion, and we were able to relax and catch a few hours sleep. Of course, i knew that Alice was bound to ask me more about my "activities," and the prospect of telling Alice some of my naughty secrets made me very nervous, and very excited, and I hoped she would ask me soon.