A Lifetime of Sex-Positive Nudism

My name is James, and I have been married for 45 years to Cindy. We are now both in our mid 60s, live mainly in the US Midwest, and are both very active and in great shape for our age. We are both nudists and we are both bisexual. We have had almost 50 years of experiences as sex-positive nudists, which I define as nudists who believe sexual experiences can be a part of a nudist lifestyle. We realize and respect the fact that some nudists/naturists keep these two parts of their lives separate; that is, they believe that the nudist experience should be non-sexual. In fact, there have certainly been times in our lives when we have enjoyed the nudist lifestyle without sex. However, sex has also been part of nudism for us. In this essay I will write about the experiences we have had over the last almost 50 years as sex-positive nudists. Hope you enjoy!

Chapter 2: Nudism and Sex in our 20s

Cindy and I got married when we were 21 just before entering our senior year of college. As detailed in Chapter 1, our introduction to nudism and partner-swapping for sex was with my brother and his wife. After our initial experiences with them it was clear to both of us that nudism and sex with others would partly define our lifestyle going forward. We were (and still are) very much in love with each other and enjoy one-on-one intimacy as a couple but we have also opened our marriage to include sex with others, including some polyamorous phases of our marriage.

After we finished college, we were both fortunate to secure great professional positions that afforded us the means and time to travel. Much of the traveling we did in our 20s was to nudist resorts and beaches around the US and in the Caribbean. We also went on a few week-long nude cruises, so we had plenty of opportunities to expand our nudist and sexual experiences. While we had some opportunities for bisexual encounters, most of the time our experiences in our 20s were heterosexual.

The first nudist resort we visited was in central Florida, where there are several resorts. Public sex is frowned upon in these resorts out of respect for nudists who separate their nudist lives from their sexual lives. With that said, we found it easy to find sex during these visits.

We didn't quite know what to expect during our initial visit to a nudist resort but after settling in we thoroughly enjoyed this first visit. After checking into our room, we removed our clothes, picked up a towel, and headed to the area around the pool where there were 100 or so other naked people. There was a mixture of married couples and single men and women there of all ages and all body shapes and sizes. At the age of 22, we were certainly one of the youngest couples there. Everyone was friendly and welcoming, and it was liberating to sit out in the sun surrounded by so many like minded people.

Sometime in the afternoon of the first day we were there, we met and then chatted with another couple who were quite attractive. Bill and Di were in their early 40s and both completely smooth and very tan and both very athletic looking. I couldn't help but notice Di's perky tits and very pink pussy lips peeking out at me as she laid in the lounge chair with her knees up and her legs slightly apart. I saw that Cindy had her eye on Bill's uncut cock. I think the couple noticed us looking. Bill eventually told us they were swingers as well as nudists and asked if we were of like mind. Cindy let them know that we were. Bill then asked if we were interested in swapping. Since we were all in agreement, we left the pool area and went to the couple's room and paired off, all of us on their king size bed. Di began stroking me as we kissed, and I began rubbing her labia and clit with my finger.

Meanwhile, Cindy was already on her knees licking Bill's low hanging balls while she gently stroked him. I laid Di down on the bed on her back, spread her legs, and began moving my tongue down her thighs and over her already wet pussy. She was moaning. Cindy was on her back as well and Bill was finger-fucking her fast and hard, which elicited loud moans. I turned Di over and she got on all fours before I penetrated her from behind. I fucked her hard while reaching around and fondling her breasts. Out of the corner of my eye I could see that Cindy was getting fucked hard as well. Bill's cock was relatively small, but he really knew how to use it because Cindy was wet and squirting. I could hear his large balls slapping against Cindy's ass. I increased the speed of my thrusts with my cock plunging in and out Di's wet pussy. Right before my climax I pulled out and shot a large wad of cum on her sweet, firm ass and back. Cindy took the husband's cum in her pussy. We all then laid down on the bed and chatted some more, a bit tired but definitely happy.

Before parting, the couple asked us if we were interested in going to a swinger party as their guests the next evening at a house that was near the nudist resort. I asked how they learned of the party, and they told us it was through a swingers website they were on. Eventually, we subscribed to that site, and a few others, and have used those sites over the years to meet like-minded people.

We arrived at the address the couple had given us and rang the doorbell, not knowing what to expect since this was our first house party. A very attractive woman in her 40s named Beth answered the door naked and let us in after we told them we were invited by Bill and Di. She introduced us to Larry, her boyfriend. We told them that we were first timers at a swinger party so didn't quite know how things worked. Beth explained. She told us to first get naked like everyone else then for Cindy to write her name on a slip of paper she supplied. The slips of paper went into a large bowls by the door. She told us to get drink if we liked, mingle a bit, and get to know people. There were about 25 people there, including Bill and Di who we met the day before. Many were from the nudist resort, so we had seen them during the day. Most were married couples but there were a few single men and women there as well. We were not the youngest: there was a single college age guy there with his girlfriend.

About an hour after we arrived, Beth got people's attention and said it was time for the drawing. Each man picked the name of a woman out of the bowl. It turns out that there was one extra guy there, so he didn't have a name to pick. I looked at my paper and saw the name Linda. Cindy's name was drawn by a guy named Richard. Beth told everyone it was time to pair up and told the guy who had no name to pick that he could join any couple who agreed. He ended up joining Linda and her sex partner. The other ground rules were that you could have sex anywhere in the house but no means no when it came to specific sex acts.

It turns out that Cindy was paired up with the college guy. They headed to an empty bedroom, and I didn't see them for a couple of hours. I asked, "Where is Linda?" She stepped forward. Linda was in her 50s and on the curvy side, with very large, full sagging breasts that I found very sexy. I asked Linda where she wanted to go, and she replied: "How about right here in the living room where there are others." There were 3-4 other couples who chose to stay there as well. We went over to a couch and sat down next to each other and began kissing.

This was totally a new experience for me--I had never made love to a woman who was 30 years older than me. It was heavenly. Linda was soft all over and a great kisser. We kissed and made out for quite a while. She took my very hard cock in one hand while she fondled my balls with her other hand. She began slowly stroking me while I laid my head back. She had just the right touch. I eventually sat back up and leaned over so I could take one of her very large sagging breasts into my mouth. I took turns licking and sucking her two breasts while also gently stroking her pussy. She then said: "Let me titty fuck you." I stood up a leaned into her as she laid back on the couch. She put my cock between her two enormous breasts and used them to slowly stroke me. Every once and awhile she would put her head down so that she could lick and suck the tip of my cock on the upstroke. I found this very stimulating. She then said, "I want that big cock inside me." Linda positioned herself over the arm of the couch and I stood up, slid my cock into her wet pussy, and fucked her from behind. It was a different experience. Linda was plumper than Cindy and other woman I had fucked. Nonetheless, my cock slid easily in and out of her super wet pussy and Linda began to pant heavily. She came a couple of times and asked me if I would finish in her mouth. She then got down on her knees, took all of my cock deep in her throat to the point I could feel her throat gripping and un-gripping my cock. She didn't gag. I started pumping harder, going deeper and deeper into her throut then let loose with a giant wad of cum that she eagerly swallowed. It was one of the best orgasms I ever have had.

We sat back and chatted for a while, and I asked if she was ready for a second round. We kissed for a long time, both getting hotter and hotter. I laid her back on the couch, put her legs up on my shoulders and buried my face deep between her thighs. I licked and sucked her clit and stuck my tongue deep in her vagina. She was very wet. She was moaning, "Fuck me, fuck me, fuck me," but I continued pleasuring her with my tongue until she orgasmed. Eventually, she grabbed my cock hard and directed it to her wet pussy. I fucked her hard and deep until both of us climaxed. Linda laid down with her head in my lap looking up at me and we chatted for quite a while between periods of kissing. She told me I was the youngest guy she had played with for quite a while. I think she enjoyed our time together.

Eventually Cindy came out of the bedroom with Richard and had a big smile on her face. Richard was still hard, and it was obvious he was very well-endowed. She later told me he wasn't big on foreplay but fucked her five times in the two hours they were together in between periods of oral sex. He wanted to go again but Cindy said no--her pussy was raw. It turns out that Brian was from the same large city in the Midwest we lived in. Cindy and he met up for fun a few times after we all got back home--Cindy had found the first of many regular fuck buddies she had over the years. They hooked up often until he moved away after graduating from college. Over the years, we made many return visits to the nudist resorts near Beth and Larry's home and often attended their swinger parties as well as other parties in the area. We always had a good time there although unfortunately for me I never saw Linda again.

In our 20s we also discovered how good sex in a swingers club could be. Swingers clubs used to be more prevalent than they are these days and there were a few near where we lived. These clubs are all fairly similar. They have meet-and-greet areas, large areas for group sex, and smaller rooms. We have been to clubs with themed rooms as well, such as BDSM rooms.

We arrived at the club around 9 pm one weekend evening. We pretty much knew what to expect because we had swinger friends whom we met who filled us in on them. We paid our cover fee and went to the meet and greet area to have a drink and mingle with others there. It was relatively early in the evening so there were about 50 people there, some dressed fully, some women in flimsy negligees, some men in G-strings or jocks, and some men and women totally nude. We decided to get nude, so we stripped down in a locker room where we stored our belongings then went back to the meet-and-greet room. Being nudists, we enjoyed the naked time.

This particular club had two very large rooms for group sex with a variety of mattresses and pillows on the floor. In addition, there were several small rooms. The rules were simple. Some rooms had doors that closed. Other rooms had a rope across the door opening. The rule was if the door was closed the activity was private. If the rope was across the doorway, you could watch but not enter the room. If the rope was down, you were free to enter and participate in anything that was going on. No meant no for specific sex acts, though.

After chatting a bit, Cindy and I decided to move to an open room to start making love with the rope down. Exhibitionism has always been part of our sex life. This meant we were inviting others to join us if they desired. We laid down on the large bed there in the room and started kissing and rubbing our bodies together. It wasn't long before a few people came by and started to watch. Things heated up a bit and I began stroking Cindy's pussy, which elicited some moaning. A few minutes later, a guy entered the room, got in bed with us, and began kissing Cindy. She took his hard cock in her hand and began stroking him. She then got on all fours, and I entered her from behind and began fucking her while she sucked the guy's cock. Eventually, the guy and I exchanged places so he could fuck her while I was getting pleasured orally. There were 5 or 6 people at the door watching. He spoke for the first time when he said: "Would you like to try a double penetration?" We knew what that was although we had never tried it. Cindy said: "Sure, as long as both cocks are in my pussy. I don't want to do anal." The guy then laid down with Cindy above with her back to his chest. He penetrated her pussy. I got on top of Cindy and the guy, so she and I were facing, and attempted to put my cock in her pussy, which was pretty much filled up by the other guy. It took a little doing and Cindy getting a lot wetter, but I managed to get fully inside her at the same time as the other guy. Her pussy was stretched to the max. We began moving our two large hard cocks in rhythm. I also sucked on Cindy tits while we pumped her. I found the double penetration to be extraordinary--my cock rubbing against another cock and Cindy's wet vagina at the same time. I came first, further lubricating her stretched pussy. Not too long after that the guy came as well, and we both pulled out. A huge amount of semen came out of Cindy when we removed our cocks. The guy thanked us and moved on for his next fun. We cleaned up a bit then went to the meet and greet room to have a drink and chat some more.

Later in the evening, we went into one of the large group rooms where there were about 20 people all naked in various sex positions. It was quite a sight to see 20 bodies writhing around on the mattresses and pillows. This was an "anything goes" room so bi sex was allowed. We joined in the fun with the people who were there. We found the anonymous nature of large group sex to be stimulating. You often don't know whose mouth is on your pussy or who is sucking your cock. You can fuck for a time and move on to another pussy. The combinations for group sex are almost endless. I saw two women in a 69-position eating each other's pussy and a guy sucking off another guy. It was also the first time I saw a woman get anal sex as some very large burly man has his cock stuffed deep up the ass of a very thin, buxom woman. I saw a lady lying on her back getting oral sex from a large man while she was caressing and jerking a cock in each hand. At some point, Cindy and another woman were both licking and sucking an enormous hard cock they found. Cindy said she got fucked by at least 5 different guys there, although to be honest I don't know how she could tell. I sampled 3 or 4 pussies myself. We stayed in the room quite a while before getting dressed and leaving. We left the club satisfied. We went to this club and others occasionally when we were younger.

I suspect that the prevalence of these clubs declined after HVI and concern for STDs rose as the 1970s passed. We haven't been to one in several years. But there were few better places for pure hedonistic experiences than these swinger clubs.

In the next chapter, I will write about our experiences raising our two sons in a family nudist household.