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There is definitely something special about the summer that just makes us feel sexual. We're not sure whether it's the warm sun, the ability to wear less clothing, or the smell of fresh air. If we had to guess, we'd say that 95% of our adventurous sexual activities occur during the months of May, June, July and August. Those four months spell trouble for us.
We've done a lot too. We are Tyler (Ty) and Alexandria (Alex), both in our 20s, both in reasonable shape, comfortable with our bodies, and both avid exhibitionists. We've known each other since college and pretty much right from the beginning we knew that we both got turned on by the idea that someone may be watching. While in college we used to have sex in front of the window with the curtains and shades open, just hoping that someone would be looking from a window in the neighboring high-rise apartment complex. We'd go to the beach during the summer and have sex on the sand dunes just hoping that somebody would walk by. We'd go into the dressing room of a store at the local mall and have sex hoping that someone would hear us, or even better hoping that the store would be one that had security cameras in the dressing area (is that an urban legend or do stores really do that?). On the weekends, we'd go to a nearby office complex and have sex in the little gazebos that so many companies use as there smoking lounges.
All these activities were great fun and it always made it better when someone saw us. It was great to see who would stop and watch and who would walk away embarrassingly. You would be surprised to know that most people (we'd guess 8 out of 10) would be too embarrassed to stay and watch. It always amazes us. Here WE are naked (we always took all of our clothes off, what's the point of merely unzippering and hiking up a skirt?) getting caught in an intimate situation and YOU are embarrassed? That must be a trickle down effect in this country from our puritan fathers. But that's what made our public acts of exhibition so much fun and easy. Once we realized that other people were embarrassed (for some reason) by what we were doing, we no longer became embarrassed for what we were doing. Rather, we began to flaunt it.
The down side to this unfortunately is that our society's legal system does not exactly allow us to be as free as we would otherwise like to be. But, (knock on wood) we think that after doing this for a while now, we know that as long as you walk that fine line between "accidentally being caught" and flaunting it, people will believe that you are not doing it intentionally for others and you don't get labeled as being indecent. Quite simply, there is a big difference between having sex up on those dunes where people feel that they "happened upon you, oops!" and having sex in the middle of the beach where everyone can see you. There's a big difference between having sex on the balcony of your second story apartment (which we also liked to do) and having sex on the patio of your first floor apartment. Don't ask us why, but there is a big difference between having sex with all the lights on inside your hotel room and the drapes open for everyone to see walking by on a busy sidewalk (which we did on a trip to Baltimore) and having sex out on that busy sidewalk. And lastly, here is another one: having sex in a Jacuzzi at a resort is much more acceptable than having sex in the swimming pool. In any of those situations, if you do the first one, people seem to leave you alone and not call the police, but if you do the second, chances are you're going to have to answer some tough questions.
So that is our secret. We are not by any means discrete about our activities, we just think through the situation and decide whether other people would think that we are intentionally being indecent. We try to select areas or times when there is little to no chance that children will ever be there (that would be BAD). And we try our best to pretend that we don't know that someone may be watching. But God, what a rush when we get caught!
While we were in college, we went to Sandy Hook (a nude beach in northern New Jersey). It was our first time ever to a nudist area. We both had done our share of skinny dipping before that, but that was usually at night. We thought it would be fun to be able to walk around, get a tan, and go swimming knowing that other people would be watching us. As an added incentive to attract attention, we decided (it was Alex's idea) that it'd be cool to completely shave our pubic hair so that we would draw more attention and allow everyone else to see everything. We both keep our areas trimmed (Ty shaves his balls because it increases his sensitivity and Alex usually keeps a thin "landing strip") but this time, we thought it would be more fun to shave it all off and let it all out for the world to see. After doing that, we wondered what you are supposed to wear to get to a nude beach. It seemed kind of funny to wear a bathing suit, only to take it off, but would you wear clothes to a beach? Isn't that a bit overdressed for any beach? In the end, Ty decided to wear a pair of swim trunks and Alex went with her beach cover-up (almost like a sun-dress to wear over your bathing suit only this time she wasn't wearing a swim suit underneath).
We made the drive to Sandy Hook and got there a little after 10:00 in the morning so there weren't that many people there yet. We were eager to begin our fun and decided that a spot closest to the parking area would afford the best opportunity to be seen by everyone. Now to get to the nudist part of the beach, they make you walk a little bit up the beach from the parking area through the non-nude area. So a spot right over the line and on the nude side also allows non-nude people to see you. Perfect for us! So we plopped our stuff down right next to the sign that lets you now that "nude sunbathing is permitted past this point". We didn't even both laying out our towels and blanket before it was off with the clothes. We had actually talked all about the possibilities of our day during our 2-hour drive up:
"What if we get turned on and can't control ourselves?"
This would be much more obvious if Ty got an erection, but without any pubic hair, Alex's swollen clit and parting lips would be fairly obvious to everyone as well. We dismissed that concern figuring that people had probably seen all of that before anyway, and as long as we didn't do anything to act upon the sexual excitement, we were sure that we wouldn't be breaking any of the "nudist code of ethics".
Ty wondered, "Well what if someone gets turned on by us?"
Ty wasn't upset or jealous thinking about the idea of another man getting an erection while looking at his girlfriend, he just wanted to make sure that other people wouldn't be offended by all of it.
"Relax Ty, these people are comfortable with the human body. They won't be offended; besides, it'll be fun to see if we can get anyone excited!"