Jan and I have been married for a long time, longer than many of our friends. From what I have heard and read from other husbands, it is not unusual to have a fantasy about seeing ones own wife having a sexual encounter with another man. That was a relief for me since I have wished to see my wife with another man for a very long time and I didn't want it to be a strange fantasy. After hearing that I was relatively normal, it put my mind somewhat at ease.
We had been married for about fifteen years when I started considering what it would be like to watch my wife please another man and to witness her being pleased in return. There were those rare occasions when I could talk her into conversing with other men in chat rooms while sitting at the computer. However, since she was not familiar with how to voice her sexual longing through the written word, I would give her things to say to these anonymous, yet horny, gentlemen. They seemed to enjoy their sexual banter. On one such occasion, I mentioned her upcoming birthday and that I was considering getting a guy for her present that year. Jan said, "That sounds more like a birthday present for you." I'll have to admit...she was right. I told her that I thought she would really enjoy the new experience, as would I, but she laughed it off and the subject was dropped. Sometimes, when Jan and I would be making love, I would mention what I would like to see her do with another man while I watched. We would talk about it during sex and it made the sex that much hotter...I think for both of us. The one time we had a semi-serious discussion about the possibility of my fantasy coming to fruition, we were sitting in the car talking about it. She told me, "If I did this, it would have to be somewhere out of town because it would be awkward if I ran into them on the street." I thought it was a definite maybe, but it never came to be. I have offered scenarios to her, different visuals that have been whirling around in my head for years. You could say it's an obsession and I think you would probably be right. That has been a frustration of mine; wanting to have this fantasy with my wife play out in front of me, but never having it become reality.
Over the years, Jan and I have learned what works in our marriage. Our sex life is no different. I have found, through years of research...ok, maybe through years of trial and error...what my wife really likes sexually, figuring the journey is as much fun as the final destination. I enjoy foreplay tremendously since I tend to be a very tactile person. I like fondling her large, full breasts...squeezing them, licking them, sucking the nipples ~~~~~~~~~ mmmmmmmmm. Oh...sorry, I got a bit distracted. I also love to put my hand between her legs, sliding a finger into her pussy, stroking her ass, finding ways to make her feel good and better. She seems to enjoy it a lot and I think I have gotten pretty good at it. Like I said, I've had a lot of years to practice. One evening, as we were playing, she was coming down from what might have been her third or fourth peak experience and she made me stop so she could catch her breath. I always like to watch my wife's face when we play like that because I do like to see her enjoy the experience. During this "cooling off" period, I made the half-joking comment that we should sell tickets. (I knew that there are guys that would pay to watch another couple have sex, and I thought this might be a great way to reintroduce my fantasy without broaching the subject head-on.) She again laughed it off without giving it much more thought. However, I was not going to give up that easily.
Two weeks later, I mentioned it to Jan again, explaining that it wasn't as far-fetched an idea as she thought. I explained that it might be financially beneficial to find guys who would be willing to pay a small fee to have a front row seat to something we did anyway. It wouldn't make us rich, but it couldn't hurt either. Jan mulled it over and told me that if I could find men who were willing to part with their money for a little peek of us in our bedroom, then she would reconsider. This was the opportunity I was looking for. I couldn't get to the computer fast enough. Pulling up the local marketing tool on the computer, I posted an ad. It read, "We are a married couple searching for a single male of legal age who would like to watch us have sex. No involvement, just watching. Must be respectful of preset boundaries. Please attach a picture with your first email. Thanks!"
After the ad posted on-line, we started receiving responses almost immediately. I answered each email in turn with what we were looking for to make sure that the guys knew what we expected in return for the show. I culled it down to the top three emails and let Jan look at them so that she would be satisfied with our first paying "customer." We settled on a 33 year old man, Ian, who was recently divorced. From the picture and the description provided, he appeared to be 6'1" tall, about 190 lbs., with a muscular build, with brown hair and blue eyes. After making arrangements with Ian and giving him our contact information, Jan and I discussed how the evening would progress. I didn't think that having sex is something that we would have to choreograph, but we tried to cover everything so nothing would be left to chance. We decided that, although joining in would be out of the question, Ian could watch while nude and could masturbate if he chose.