Chapter 5 A Person of Interest
The divorce would be final on December 29th, just before New Year's. Between now and then, I had to establish a permanent residence suitable for the children and I had to work out a visitation schedule for them as well. Whether I liked it or not, I had to deal with Reese.
"I thought we should get together to discuss the shared custody arrangements," I said when I called my soon-to-be ex-wife."
"Yes ... all right. When do you want to do that?"
"Could we meet at the house on Friday afternoon? The kids will be in school and we won't be interrupted."
"Yes ... that would be fine. Would you like to come to lunch?"
"No, thank you. I can't make it until two-thirty, if that's all right with you."
"Yes, that's okay. I'll see you then." She sounded down, but I really didn't worry why.
I pulled into the driveway just after two-thirty Friday afternoon and stepped out of my car. I saw Reese waiting for me at the front door. She stepped back as I came up the stairs, inviting me to enter. It seemed very strange to be invited into my own home. It still was legally mine until the divorce was final.
"Let's go into the kitchen," Reese suggested. No surprise there. It was her main room and the most likely place to find her, even if she was just having a coffee or reading the paper.
"Would you like a coffee? I made some fresh," she said.
"Sure, thanks."
I had brought a calendar with me to discuss how we would arrange the system and to make sure there was no misunderstanding about who had Jess and Matt on which days.
"Do you have any preference how we do this?" I asked.
"I haven't even thought about it. It doesn't start until you have a place for them. When will that be?"
"The first week of November. I've bought a townhouse in Summitview. That will keep Matt and Jess in the same school district."
"That's good. I'm glad you thought of that," she said, still with a detectable note of sadness.
"I thought about alternating every two weeks, but when I looked at the calendar, it meant that they would be with the same parent over both Thanksgiving and Christmas. I didn't think that was fair."
She nodded. "I understand. What will work?"
"I'm willing to start off with two weeks, then you would have them for three weeks, which would look after Thanksgiving. I would take them for three weeks, which would include Christmas. Or ... we could reverse that and I have them for Thanksgiving and you have them for Christmas. I'll let you decided which you prefer."
"Why are you being so nice about this?" she asked with a bewildered look.
"This isn't about you and me, Reese," I said, looking her right in the eye. "This is about Jess and Matt and what's best for them. Remember what Judge Patriquin said. We weren't to use the children as pawns in a battle. I'm trying to be reasonable, but I won't let myself get shortchanged."
"I wouldn't do that, Graham. I thought you knew me better than that."
"I thought I knew you better, period," I said, again fixing her gaze.
"If I agree to your suggestion, what can we do to both have the children at Christmas? I know their grandparents will want to be with them, but I'm probably not on your parents' list of favorite people anymore."
"We could agree that one of us would have them on Christmas Eve, the other on Christmas Day. I doubt they would object," I suggested.
I could see her nod agreement, so I furthered my suggestion. "I'll volunteer to have them on Christmas Eve, then bring them over here on Christmas morning. Is that agreeable?"
"Yes ... that's more than fair," she said with a look of relief.
"Okay, then, it's settled. Once Christmas is over, we can settle in to three week segments or would you prefer two?"
"Let me think about it," she requested. "Maybe I should talk to Jess and Matt and see what they would be happy with."
"Good idea. Let me know what you decide. You can get me on my cell for the time being. When I move, I'll let you know my new phone number. I'm sure we'll be talking off and on."
"Thank you, Graham. You've been very good about this. I'm sorry I've caused you so much hurt. I never wanted it to be this difficult. I let myself ... well ... never mind. There's nothing I can say to make it right."
"Let's agree not to talk about it anymore. It's over, Reese. Except for the legalities of the final decree, it's over."
She nodded and I thought I saw the beginnings of a tear. I rose, thanked her for the coffee, and left. I had accomplished what I'd come for and I was satisfied that Reese was reasonable and agreeable to my suggestions.
I had a thought on my way back to the office that I might just cover my ass by emailing Reese a summary of what we had agreed to. A copy to Miles Hoffman would be visible on her copy. It took very little time to compose a memo and send it off. Just before I left for the afternoon, I received an email from Miles with a two word comment. "Well done!"
I suppose it was inevitable that I would lose contact with Reese's parents. They would be able to see their grandchildren over the holidays without any problem. I had no idea of what their attitude toward me might be, but my focus was largely on my children and my parents. Selfish, I suppose, but my life had been jolted into an involuntary change in the last six months and I was still scrambling to catch up and adapt. I was forced to find a new place to live and to work out a system to keep in touch with my children.