"Let me tell you a little of what it's like so you know what we're talking about. In western societies where men and women do not have to conduct themselves as modestly and decorously as in your countries, it is not considered particularly bad for men and women to strip for each other. Men will go to clubs where women strip for money, not sex, although it's often implied. Women will go to clubs where men take off their clothes for money. Often, the money is tucked into what little clothing they are wearing so the near naked or naked person can be touched. The men tonight will be taking off all of their clothes. Each of them will try to do so as sexily and erotically as they can. The men may or may not become aroused by doing so. They may or may not dance closer to the women in suggestive ways, by thrusting their hips towards the women's faces, mimicking they'd like to have oral sex with them. Normally, if you are single, it is not uncommon for the women to at least touch the cock of the person doing this, perhaps even lick or suck on it briefly. Sometimes, the married ones will do this too. Sometimes, the husbands do not care, or they don't know but would care if they knew. Men may do the same things in women's strip clubs and consider it not to be a violation of their marriage vows.
"Tonight's show is a little different from a normal show. The women are going to vote on who provides the best performance. The top performers get to pick one of four women selected to be a prize and have public sex with them, also for viewing enjoyment, like a live sex show. One other person, currently being trained as a submissive like myself will have seven people having anal sex with her, also in public. Her husband, who is agreeing to this training, will be having sex with another person in public, in front of her. That's where this show is different.
"Often times, when the men and women come back from these clubs, they've been sexually aroused by the show they saw and they have great sex with their spouse, which can be of benefit to the marriage, especially if they've been married for a while and they're not having sex as often as when they were first married. One of the reasons James may not mind you watching, is when it's over, you and he will have some hot fucking together.
"You're not single. James does not want you to touch, lick or suck on other men's cocks, no matter what any of the other women do. He's concerned this is outside of your normal frame of reference and cultural boundaries. You would never do such a thing if living within your own society. Now you're outside your society and your life was changed in many ways from how you were raised. James is not necessarily afraid of you looking at other men's cocks. If he were, he'd just tell you not to go, but he's worried about the changes. Looking and touching are vastly different things to most people.
"The thing you need to ask yourself and be honest about, is what if James was in the contest. Would you want him stripping for the enjoyment of the other women, if they were allowed to watch, but not touch. He'd be aroused by stripping for them. His cock would get hard and he'd be dancing to make other women get turned on. That's what you're doing by watching others. You'd be turned on by other men's bodies. If you then go back to your room and allow your arousal to be used by James, this is okay. If you allow your arousal to be used by others, it's not. If James dances and strips, if he allows his arousal to be used by you, that's okay. If he allows other women to touch him and bring him to orgasm, that's not okay."
"If he danced for other women and did well, would he pick some other person to have sex with?"
"Because he's married, the only person he wants to have sex with is you. Given this information, would you want him dancing naked for other women?"
She looked at him. "All he would do is dance, no touching, no sex?"
"The rules of marriage apply to both. If you can't touch and have sex with others, neither can he. If you can watch other men strip for you, he should be able to strip for other women, or watch other women strip for him. That seems fair, doesn't it?"
"Yes."
"The other part is harder to determine for all of us. If by doing this, all it does is cause you both to go back to your room and fuck all night, it's probably good. If doing this causes you to think of other men and make you desire sex with them, it would be bad. You haven't been exposed to these things culturally. Thinking of other people in a sexual way is okay if you never act on it.
"Everyone thinks about what sex would be like with another person, but in a good, healthy marriage, you never act on that thinking. You allow those daydreams to enhance sex with your spouse, but not have sex with others. You should know in your heart you would never act on your thoughts. James doesn't know and I don't know what is in your head right now, how it might have been twisted up by your slavery. James was raised around these behaviors and hasn't been twisted by something done to him. He can expect to know what he would do when faced with these temptations. No one but you know what you're thinking and feeling. I shouldn't decide what you two do in your marriage. I can tell you what I think would be harmful or beneficial, but not what you should do.
"If you think you would have no problem watching James dance naked for other women and you have enough control to watch with delight but not act on how it makes you feel, it's probably okay for you to go. If you're not sure of yourself, I would wait until you know yourself better. We've got another group tomorrow afternoon. You can discuss what happened with the others, how they felt and what they did afterward to see how they reacted. But except for Maahnoor, they're all single and can do what they want. We could do the show another time in the future and maybe you'll understand yourself better. If you would like to know what it's like, perhaps you could play some stripping music in your room and have James strip only for you. Whatever you do together is okay. What do you think you should do?"
She thought for quite awhile, a couple minutes at least. We let her work it out. "I don't think I know what I would do yet. I'm not even sure I want James to take his clothes off for other women; not sure if I would be hurt if he did. I will stay home and perhaps James can strip for me."
"I think that's a wise decision. At some time in the future, what you and Maahnoor might wish to do as you're the two married ones, is get together and have only James and Henry strip for you. The four of you probably understand what you're each going through better than anyone else."
I stood up and they stood up after me. I hugged them both. "Try to remember always to do what is best for your partner and things should always work out."
"Thank you, Beth," James said. "I knew you'd understand what to say. I'll give Ateefah a great show."
I laughed. "I know you will. Henry was wondering the same thing. You might both want to talk to them. I haven't heard what they decided."
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Dinner was a quiet affair. Master and Björn didn't have their usual places at the heads of the table. Instead Hannah had Master's end and Leo had the Captain's. Edgar, Miranda, Fatima and Lynn were also gone. Pierre, Sherry and Manuel were waiting on them in the Stern Room. Alex, Richard and Marnie made up for three of them, and a few of the new men were there to fill out the table, two seated and two serving with Reggie. There was a wide range of submissives there without their Dominants. The food was still great and the wine as tasty as ever, but no one was getting fondled and so the meal was without the usual bit of moaning which normally accompanied dinner.
I was seated between Richard and Alexa, with Marnie on the other side of Richard. and he and Marnie were both getting nervous as the hour for the stripping contest approached. It would signify a huge change in their relationship, and they were unsure what to expect. Watching me give Marnie oral sex was nothing compared to watching as several men filled Marnie's ass with their cum. Marnie had fucked all afternoon, but her husband hadn't watched as she was. Now, he would, though he'd be starting the parade in her ass. Plus, Mistress Farber told Marnie she'd be sucking the cocks of every man who fucked her ass and she had no idea what that would be like, not knowing how I'd prepare her. I'm sure she was queasy at the thought, and was barely eating, her stomach likely doing somersaults at the idea.
I put my hand over Richard's and spoke loudly enough they could both hear me. "Relax a little. Nothing will be as bad as you think right now. I genuinely think you'll both be much happier in the future than you are now. You're getting worked up over nothing, reacting as you think you're supposed to react instead of how you really feel. If I didn't think this would end up better for both of you, I'd put a stop to it.
