Chapter Forty Six
"Well? Aren't you going to ask me in?" Ged's mother asked him with a grin. How he loved that grin!
"Er, yes, Mum, come in," Ged's brain was trying to keep up and failing.
"That hug?"
They hugged. Whenever he hugged his mother he felt at peace, secure, at home.
"Will you bring my case in from the car, please?" she said as she separated and passed him, making for the kitchen and the kettle for tea.
He stood looking after her, his mouth open.
"Close your mouth dear," she said, looking over her shoulder as she went, "You'll catch flies."
He smiled in spite of himself: it was one of her sayings. He felt he should stay with her and he watched as she navigated her way round the kitchen as if it were her own. Then he noticed, as if for the first time, the pile of unwashed pots in the sink and felt guilty, as if he'd let her down.
She did not advert to it, but made the tea and brought him a mug, gesturing for him to sit at the kitchen table.
"Are you staying?" he asked after they had taken their first sip of the hot brew.
"For a while," she said. "If you get my case. Gwen's husband is ill and Cassie is having a well earned rest. You've really put her through it, you know? I knew there was trouble when you didn't ring me, but Cassie did."
Now he felt really guilty as it came home to him with clarity what he'd been doing to Cassie, and how heroically she'd borne it. Then he realised that Cassie must have been phoning her often, no doubt for moral support. He did not feel upset at that, or annoyed: it was what she needed.
He said nothing but smiled with embarrassment at his mother, who could always read him.
She nodded. "Show me," she said, and he knew what she wanted. He laid both hands on the table, palms down.
Her face became stony, and he knew how deeply the sight hurt her. This was her son, and it was flesh of her own flesh that was mangled. She took his hands and kissed them both. He knew it was her sign that she would give anything to take his disability on herself. How did she manage to convey so much and so deeply? He felt overcome by her love.
"We'll have a little chat later," she said, and he remembered her 'little chats' from his childhood. They were mainly her monologues interspersed with Ged saying 'Yes Mum' at appropriate intervals. "Before that, I think we ought to sort this kitchen out, don't you?"
There was only one answer required, namely, 'Yes Mum', and Ged duly gave it.
"Right," she said. "Do you want to wash or dry?"
"Mum, my hands..."
"What about them? Have you
tried
to wash up?"
"Well, no, but--"
"Come on Son," she said. "Try. See what you can do."
"I don't think I can hold a plate and dry it, so I'd better try washing."
He did, and found a way of holding a plate with his right hand fingers and thumb, standing it on edge in the washing up bowl, and cleaning it with his left. He discovered that he had more trouble using his left hand to wash the plates than he had holding the plates with his disabled right, because he was so very right-handed.
He found he could support mugs against the bowl while he washed them. He began to feel excited. Then he remembered.
"Mother?" he said with reproof in his voice.
"Yes, dear?" So innocent!
"There is a dishwasher."
"Yes -- you!" A little laugh.
"No, I mean--"
"I'm perfectly aware there is such an appliance, my darling, but this is about you using those hands."
"You mean you knew about it?"
"Of course," she said patiently. "I have been here before, or don't you remember?"
Of course he remembered, but he was not often in the kitchen, being busy with his music, or being unable to use his hands.
Then he was distracted by trying to find a way to wash the cutlery. Again he managed to hold each knife, fork or spoon, stuffing the handle between his palm and clenched ring and little fingers and holding the article in his index finger and thumb, but using the left hand was the difficult thing.
Afterwards, she casually asked him to put the kettle to boil, which he managed without difficulty: he'd been making tea for three days. His mother made the tea, while after a second request from her, he went and got her case from her car.
Once again he needed to think through how to do it and grabbed the case with his left hand, while shutting the car door with the flat (such as it was) of his right. He carried it up to the en suite "best' guest bedroom, which Cassie had been using, and was thankful the bed was already made up. Cassie must have done it, ready for his mother.
"It'll need airing," she said from behind him. "Pull the bedclothes to the foot of the bed, the radiators will do the rest."
Again he did as she asked and pulled the duvet back to expose the bottom sheet, using his left hand. Then he went down to the living room. She followed after some minutes.
"Gerald!" she said, and he knew he was in trouble. "When was the last time you changed your bedding?"
She had been in his room.
He was tempted to say he couldn't remember, since either Gwen or Cassie did that job for him, but thought better of it.
"I don't know, Mum," he said. "Cassie or Gwen does it usually."
"We'll have a cup of tea and then we'll change your bed," and she went off to pour it.
She asked after his friends by name, and he was forced to give non-committal answers, because he didn't know.
She nodded, and he knew she was really learning about his state of mind. Somehow, again he didn't mind, and wondered why that was.
She asked about his song writing and he was forced to tell her he was not writing any more. She did not ask why, and he knew she knew why.
After the tea, she took him upstairs and extracted a bedding set from the chest of drawers in his room.
