Please read the first chapter of my life with Kimiko!
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"Ohaiyo gozaimasu (Welcome) to our home!" her father called out to me as he extended his hand in greeting. Any apprehension that I may have had about meeting him evaporated into the air! I had come to Osaka to meet the rest of Kimiko's family and seek her father's approval. Kimiko's brother, Tetsuo, had picked us up at the airport and driven us home. Although we had just met a short time ago, we had fallen seriously in love and had committed ourselves to each other.
"Otoosan (father), this is Kawaguchi Todd-san. Anata, this is my otoosan, Kasamoto Genzo."
I started to bow out of respect for him but Genzo interrupted me by coming to me and hugging me. "Thank you for taking care my daughters! I worried when Ai-chan say that travel agent quit. But after she and Kimiko tell me how you look after them, I not worry so much then."
"Kasamoto-san ...." I started but again was interrupted by Genzo.
"So -- so, I think you call me otoosan also, nee (ok)?" and he smiled at me and Kimiko.
"Come inside first, then we talk. Ok?"
Tetsuo and I hustled all of our bags into their home. Kimiko decided to take the question of sleeping arrangements directly at her father and asked Tetsuo to take my bag to her room. Her father raised his eyebrows at Kimiko, then looked at me for a moment. I wasn't sure of what he was going to say. But he finally smiled.
"If you to marry my daughter, then it is proper that you share same bed. Just don't make too much noise, nee?" Kimiko turned a bright shade of pink while Ai and Tetsuo laughed so much that I think they even cried!
I was relieved and so was Kimiko. Genzo took her hands and spoke with her, "Kimi-chan, you are grown up so you make decisions for yourself, ok? You do not need my approval."
"Otoosan," I chimed in, "but we still want your blessing before we wed. It is important to Kimiko and to me that you approve."
Genzo looked me straight in the eyes and said, "then we must know you better." I liked his direct manner. Straight and no nonsense.
So we unpacked and changed into jeans and t-shirts. Kimiko told me that she and Ai needed to shop for groceries. Knowing her father and brother, she figured that they probably ate out each night that she and Ai were away! While they shopped, she hoped that I would spend some time with her dad. I thought it was a good idea also.
Genzo was waiting as we left Kimiko's room. "Todd-san, come." He and Tetsuo took me to their neighborhood bar where we found a convenient table and drank beer and sake the rest of the afternoon!
I discovered that Genzo had been an electronic engineer for many years. He had recently retired as he had reached the mandatory retirement age for his company. While he wanted to stay active, his company's policy prevented him from continuing on. So he free lanced from time to time doing the odd engineering job that came his way.
He was one of the engineers that had worked on a prototype of the MP3 player several years ago. And he had previously worked on communication equipment framework. So he took an interest in my work as a technology designer.
"Hm, Todd-san. Interesting work you do."
Tetsuo had followed in his father's footsteps and was also an electronic engineer. However having just graduated from school, he was still in the infancy stage of his career and had much to experience. He listened with great interest to the stories that his father and I had to share.
I lost track of the number of beers and sake's we consumed but soon Genzo was telling us that we should be getting home before Kimiko and Ai became mad with us for staying out so long! My body clock was thrown off by the different time zones so I had no appreciation for how late it had become. I looked at the clock above the bar and it was 7:00pm. Oh boy! They might just have a reason to be upset!
We walked back to their home and were greeted by Ai who berated her father for staying out so long. Kimiko was in the kitchen and I could tell she wasn't necessarily happy either, however asked her father instead, "Otoosan, what do you think of Todd-san now?"
"Kimi-chan, you have my approval! Your husband to be is good man!"
Kimiko hugged her father, "thank you otoosan. Is important to me that you like Todd."
"Wakata! (I understand.) He is good man. You chose good!"
With that we had dinner. What a feast! Kimiko and Ai had prepared a dinner in a large, communal hot bowl that they called a 'yabemono.' Lots of seafood, vegetables, noodles, tofu and other stuff in a steaming, clear fish broth laced with soy sauce and sake. Simply delicious!
Kimiko served her father and brother first, then myself and Ai. I waited until she finished serving herself before I began to eat. Genzo observed this and told Tetsuo, "American style, many Japanese women like. You learn too, ok? Show respect for woman."
Ai and Kimiko laughed! A few moments latter Tetsuo caught on to what his father was talking about and he laughed also. "You trying to marry me off quickly, otoosan?"
"No, just make sure you don't scare good woman away! Young man sometimes bakatare (fool)!" We all had a good laugh!
After dinner, I helped Ai and Kimiko clean up the kitchen while Genzo and Tetsuo bathed. Then Ai bathed while Kimiko and I relaxed with her father and brother. I used the opportunity to give them the Kona Coffee and Macadamia Nuts that I had picked up for them in Hawaii. Genzo apparently liked the coffee and mac nuts very much and said he would invite his friends over to enjoy both the next weekend.
Kimiko told them of our trip to Sea Life Park, and the Waikiki Aquarium. She had just started on our dinner at the Miyako Restaurant when Ai returned.
"Otoosan, you should see restaurant!" Ai exclaimed! "We sat on tatami (straw floor mats) and watched the ocean and sun set! It was so kirei (beautiful)! And the food! So good!" Kimiko and I excused ourselves to bathe. We let Ai continue the story of their trip.
Taking a pair of yukata's (light robes) with us, Kimiko took my hand and led me to their o-furo or bath house. It was outside of the main house and was a simple structure. I recalled my grandmother's o-furo and it was very similar in nature. An open floor where one actually washed and rinsed, then a hot water tub where you could soak.
We entered the bath house and undressed. Kimiko came to me and we embraced and kissed.
"Anata (dear), I missed your touch. It's too long since you hold me." Kimiko whispered.
"Kimi-chan, I missed you also." as I hugged her nude body to mine. She tilted her head to me and we kissed softly, her tongue searching for mine.
"Anata, please lie down, I need you in me."