On occasion, I find myself exploring a strange town on my own. I travel (just a little) for work, mostly conferences or other trips related to my job. Since I often travel by myself, I've developed the ability to eat by alone in a restaurant while thoroughly enjoying myself in the process (as opposed to that obviously uncomfortable vibe that some solo diners exude). Plus, my personality is such that if you are a stranger to me, you don't stay that way for long - we will engage in conversation and probably become acquaintances at the very least as a result.
This evening just happened to be one of the aforementioned solo-dining events, following a day full of conference sessions, vendor presentations, and other mundane minutiae that accompanies the work that I do. As I waited for my name to be called by the Panera dude behind the prep counter, I felt the presence of someone sidling up next to me. Without even looking, I simply moved a bit further down the line to make room - however, as I moved down, so did my new friend.
This caused me to turn my head towards the motion, only to be greeted by a beautiful smiling face. I was still in a suit from the day at the conference, but this gorgeous woman was in sweats and a baseball hat - a look I typically affect when I haven't yet showered, but need to run out in public for something. I smiled back, and then turned back towards the counter. However, out of the corner of my eye I could see that this woman was still looking at me and smiling. You know, that kind of smile that says, "I know you - but you obviously don't remember me." The work that I do connects me with MANY people, so this phenomenon is not entirely unfamiliar to me.
I turned towards the woman and told her that she looked familiar to me, and I wondered aloud if we had met before. Her response? "Oh, I know you, but this is actually the first time we've met."
What? NOW I'm really intrigued...
Of course, this is when the kid behind the counter calls out my name: "Carlton?" I smile at the woman and tell her, "That's me" only to hear her immediately reply, "Oh I know!"
Ok, now I really need to know what is going on here - this is getting a little crazy! However, as I grab my food and turn back towards her, she is gone. Apparently they called her name the same time as mine, and I was too dumbstruck to notice her collect her food and head away from the counter.
Shit.
I hate when mysteries like that are left unsolved...
Ah, well, at least I have the memory of a beautiful woman smiling at me to hold onto - even if we are somehow connected in a way unknown to me. Taking the tray containing my dinner, I head towards the dining area to find a seat. I spot an open booth in a fairly secluded section of the restaurant and head that direction. If I have to dine alone, I really enjoy a little solitude in order to read or answer a few emails. Just as I sit down and open my iPad to read a few articles, I sense a presence at my side. I look up only to see the same woman from the counter standing next to me.
"Anyone sitting here?" she asked.
"You." Came my standard semi-snarky reply, at which point she actually moved me further into the booth as she made her way in on my side.
"So, how is it again that we know each other?" I asked, a question that is frequently on my lips.