My wife Rita and I celebrate three birthdays a year, in March, June and September. Mine comes in March and hers in September. We call the June one 'ka-quarter'. Have I lost you? A thousand apologies, but let me explain about 'our' sister.
Becky led me to Rita. I had come to Nairobi on a UN Mission. In my leisure time I love to sing so as soon as I landed, I sought out the Nairobi Music Society, though it took a little time. We practiced at a preparatory school in the leafy suburb of Kileleshwa. Since the practices began at 7pm to allow for those people coming from their offices, I never really saw the beauty of the place until three weeks before the May Concert, which we called the Summer Concert, although here, close to the equator there are no clear-cut seasons such as we have back home in Britain. On this Saturday, three weeks before the concert, the conductor called an "all-day" rehearsal to allow the choir to go through all the music, and in the afternoon session to practice with the Nairobi Orchestra just as it would be at the concert itself.
That was when I was able to see the neat playing fields, flowerbeds and mature trees. I had heard of such schools at home whose premises were "country" like a Lords manor; it was a bit difficult to believe that such an environment was created for small children! That was also the day I noticed Becky for the first time. She was a light-skinned girl in the soprano section. At tea, as I returned the spoon I had used to stir sugar into my cup, our hands bumped into each other. I looked up to offer an apology, and was met with the most unusual eyes. They were a sort of liquid-brown, and set in a smooth face of amazing calmness.
"Sorry!" I smiled my apology.
A radiant smile of very white, even teeth answered me, "Its alright. I was a bit clumsy there."
I found it difficult to tear my eyes away from that loveliness. I held on for a second more than courtesy allowed. We each took two biscuits from the plate and I placed mine on the side of the saucer, ready to find a place to sit.
"I am Becky," came the surprising words. I had not thought that such a beautiful woman would give me the time of day, yet here I was being offered an opening gambit.
Delighted, I turned back to her. "I am pleased to meet you Becky. I am Brian Goodman."
"Have you just joined us?" she inclined her head. "I don't seem to remember seeing you at the December Concert."
I reflected that it had taken some time to find the Music Society. "Yes, I joined in March. I didn't think I would catch up with those of you who had started in January. That is why I did not want to miss this rehearsal." We sat companionably next to each other on the chairs set in the lawn beside the Music Gallery. "Incredible that such a building would be solely for teaching music to children."
"Wait until I show you the individual rooms where they learn different instruments."
"Are you telling me nothing else goes on in this whole building?" I lifted my eyes to scan the large edifice. I could not believe that all this was available in an African country for African children.
"Only the Hall in which we practice is not strictly for music. The rest of this whole thing is dedicated to the development of music."
After lunch, the orchestra joined us for the rest of the rehearsal. I found that I enjoyed the music more, probably because I felt I had someone to connect with in the whole ensemble. By the end, I was confident with all my music; even if the concert were the next day, I felt I was ready.
Almost naturally I found myself walking next to Becky towards the parking. "Going straight home, I imagine?" I hazarded a guess.
"Yes, but I am amenable to suggestion." Her brilliant smile was enough to dazzle me.
"Sawa!" I used my first Swahili word. "Follow me to Kasuku Centre. There is a pizzeria there called Pizza Corner."
"Follow you, or race you?" This time it was more of a mischievous grin.
Presently we arrived at the Centre. "You do not mind pepper, I hope?" She shook her head. I bought us a medium Chicken and Beef Pepperoni.
"You do not mind if I get us the drinks, I hope?" I laughed my consent.
She told me, almost as if I had asked her why she did not have a boyfriend despite being so gorgeous, "I have just finished the academic programme for my MBA. At the end of May I do my final exams, and I will be as free as a bird."
I updated her on my work for UNEP, whose headquarters were in Gigiri, on the outskirts of Nairobi.
You had better believe me when I tell you I had not been looking for a girlfriend, but Becky and I came to a swift understanding that as soon as her exams were over, we would spend a lot more time with each other. She would never spend the night away from home however, in deference to her parents' wishes.
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The concert was rated a great success, as the Music Society was able to make a healthy donation to a childrens home that was selected to receive the bounty from this year's Summer Concert. Another charity would be selected for the Christmas Concert. To celebrate, Becky and I went to the Carnivore and indulged our meat palates. In the evening we stayed on at the disco, dancing our feet sore. We found we could not last much beyond midnight, added to that stiff rule she had placed herself under, of not spending a night out of home. So we parted a few minutes before 1 am. That was the last time I saw her alive.
The day after next, a Monday, she took a lift with her parents, leaving her own car at home. In town, she got onto the University shuttle bus. At the campus, she chatted with her friends for a moment before walking off in the direction of her lecture room with one of them. Unaccountably, the driver of the bus chose this particular moment, while the two were behind the bus, unseen from any of the side mirrors to reverse. He bumped the two but Becky fell in the path of the rear wheels, which ran over her, wrenching her neck away from her body. The other students, on seeing the girls knocked down, tried to alert the driver, but he only wondered what they could be shouting about so early on a Monday morning. Only when he felt a bump did he stop. Everyone was running towards the back of the bus and he followed them to see what the matter was. Becky's friend only had a grazed knee but it was obvious that Becky was badly injured.
The driver alerted the transport department, both about the accident, and about the need for an ambulance to take the injured girl to hospital. Becky did not make it to hospital however; she died of excessive bleeding on the way.
But I was not to know about these events until the following evening. That Monday I sent her our customary SMS message at lunchtime, and called her in the evening. It puzzled me why she had not responded to my message, given that she usually left her phone in her bag in the locker, and looked for messages from me the first thing after leaving class. The call did not go through, instead giving me a tone like that of a non-existent number. I tried to convince myself that since I knew she was sitting for a CAT that evening until 8:30, that her phone had been snatched by pickpockets in town as she was going home. When I could net get hold of her the following morning I got really worried.
By a stroke of luck I remembered they had a house telephone, whose number I had in memory. I called it with trembling hands. It was answered by a very young voice, and when I asked to speak to Becky, she told me to wait while she called someone. A sweet young voice came on, asking me, "I beg your pardon?" Apparently she had been given my request. As soon as I repeated it, she said, "Havent you heard the news?"
My heart jumped into my throat as I assured her I had not. "What happened?"
"She had an accident at University." By now my heart was beating like African war drums.
"Where is she? Which hospital? Which ward?"
"Actually..." I did not need to let her finish her sentence. I let the earpiece drop back onto its cradle, staring at the turquoise wall unseeingly. I thought that I did not need to stay any longer in this country if Becky was no longer in it.
Suffice it to say, dear reader, that a week of mourning followed, which concluded with her funeral on the Saturday. So many of us shed tears freely, including family, colleagues, and classmates. I stood with the family at the graveside with her two sisters on either side of me. They seemed to choose me rather than any of their relatives.