A chill filled the night air. A scattering of snow laid patches of the white fluff in random formations. I walked my little poodle down to the corner and looked up at the street light. Early evening as painting the sky a dark gray and darkness was moving across the celestial sky scape. My mind focused n the woman that I was meeting this night.
Soon, I would leave for my rendezvous with my destiny. That night I hardly knew the feelings that would over take me. I was beyond myself with anticipation. For many months, I had thought about this creature of beauty, desire and feminine provocation.
She was truly a beautiful woman. This woman was possessed with class, intellect, and something else. That thing called else was a quality of refined sexuality. She reminded me of a smoldering ember. An ember left unattended, yet ready to burst forth with a raging flame with enough proper attention. She walked with confidence. With grace. With charm. With mystery.
She overwhelmed me. My emotions were stirred to my core. But no matter what I did or said, the wall of reservation remained raised. She just seem unobtainable. Like some majestic peak off in the distance that I wanted to climb and to conqueror. Still, she remained always elusive. Just out of touch.
Months passed. Our conversations were formal and polite. I could sense that she knew the essential nature of men. I wanted more than she was offering. She was content to just be, well, formal friends.
Then in just one day the parameters dramatically changed. She walked by me. This time she was harried. She appeared worried. I could sense that her spirit had been dashed. By whom or what, I had no clue. Even so, I knew as a man, that now was the time for me to redefine my approach to this beautiful daughter of Eve.
So I did. I began to talking with her. Just small tidbits of small talk but all designed to reaffirm a woman's deepest need. That need is to be accepted and affirmed as a beautiful, sexy woman. I could tell that my words moved her closer to me. Slowly at first. but over time, she would make eye contact with me. I knew that she was gaining a comfort level with me.
I knew that a man can find comfort and meaning in all sorts of boyish and childish nonsense. But a woman? She finds her meaning within her emotional world. This a world filled with doubts, fears, anxiety and often feelings of rejection and fear of being alone.
Address those with a woman, and well, you can be her hero. So, how does a man go about addressing those deeply held concerns of a woman? In a word. Be the man. As you seek to draw from her well of pleasure and comfort, redefine her doubts, fears and anxiety, assuring her that as a man that you will be there for her during those trying times. All of this seem simple. And it is so.
What this woman did not know, was that upon each conversation, I was reaching further and further into her temple of womanhood. I wanted her to realize that I had feelings for her but beyond that, I wanted her to know that I desired her as a woman. And not just as a sexual being but as a total woman.