I've never been a woman thats like older men, I've always preferred them closer to my own age. Well, my mind has been changed. It's all thanks to Drew.
Things hadn't been good in the bedroom department in my marriage for awhile. I have a high sex drive and my husbands is snoring. I've tried to spice things up but he is always 'too tired'. So I decided to try something, to put my desires first. That's how I found myself signed up for AFF.
There had been some chatting, a few pic swaps...I even made out with a guy only for him to ghost me. One particular Tuesday, I opened my messages and saw I had a new one from wolfman49. He was 49 and his listed city was not near mine. On my profile I had specified I was looking for men 26-40. 49 was a good bit past that. His profile picture was a pretty toned chest with salt and pepper chest hair.
I opened the message and read, "Hey, how are you? I'm in the same situation looking for some skin to skin contact and the excitement of someone new...you? I'm in your area."
Well that fixed the distance issue but there was still the age thing. I'd never been attracted to anyone that much older than me.
I replied back, "Hey, I'm pretty good thanks. You're a bit outside my preferred age range..."
"Ah ok cool. Im 5'll", 185 and in good shape," he responded with a picture of himself attached. He was at an NFL game. And he looked much younger.
I couldn't help myself. "Well from what I can see, you are pretty fit/good looking. Can I see a better picture of your face?"
And he gave me one. He had some wrinkles around his eyes and mouth but a kind smile on his handsome face. Without his hat i could see greying hair but it didn't bother me.
"Well that's good enough to keep me talking," I let him know.
He replied, "Ok, cool! I live in Little Rock but Im your area often for work." We exchanged IM names and started chatting there.
"Hello again, I'm Drew"
"Hi there Drew, I'm Amanda."
From there we talked about what brought us to AFF. We both were married, with kids, but in sexless or not enough of sex type relationships. We both craved the passion and desire and excitement that we used to have. We both loved our spouses but needed your needs met.
We talked about what kinds of this we had been missing. The kissing, the touches, feeling wanted...
Before long be had to go. He was in town for a business meeting and had to leave. We planned to talk more. The next day we did. We talked about erogenous zones, what positions we liked and disliked. And the sexual chemistry started to build. He was smart, and I liked that. It was easy to talk with him.
Finally, Drew brought it up. "Do you think we can meet before I head back? I'd really like to."
I let him know the only day that might work was Thursday. And that would be if he could make it between 1-3pm. I had someone coming over shortly after 3.
He said he thought he could swing by on his way out of town, he'd be passing my road anyways. We talked late into the night and finally said sweet dreams.
Thursday arrived and I was a nervous excited wreck. He messaged me his timetable for leaving and I decided I was going to hop into the shower really quick and maybe park at the gas station if he had not heard back yet.
I was so nervous my hands were shaking as I lathered up. I was also excited though. That someone was coming over who thought I was hot, that wanted me, that was a turn on.