"Hey, Missy, this is Steve."
"Hi, Steve. Need to schedule an appointment?"
"Yeah, I'm really tied up in knots," was the reply. "Any chance you can see me this afternoon?"
"Yeah, I have an opening at 3:30, will that work for you?"
"No, sorry. I've got a client coming in then. O...K...well, maybe I can catch you next week. I'm pretty busy. Tell you what; I'll see if I can make some time in the middle of next week."
Steve Terry wasn't the type of massage client who came in just to relax. He usually made time only when he was hurting.
"What's bothering you, Steve?" Melissa asked.
"Aww...my low back has been aching a lot...and...I'm really stressed out over some stuff...but I can make it until next week," Steve said. His voice sounded tense and weary.
"Could you make it at 6 today?" Melissa asked in a sympathetic tone.
"But you close at 5:30, don't you?"
"Yeah, I usually do. But, I don't mind staying a little late for you. I don't have anything else to do this evening. Why don't you plan to be here at 6, and let me see if I can help you feel better, and maybe relax a little."
It sounded good to Steve. "I couldn't ask you to do that, Missy. I can manage."
"Come on," Melissa coaxed. "Really, I don't mind."
"If you're sure, OK. I admit I could use a good massage."
"Then six it is. I really appreciate this, Missy! I'll see you then."
"It's a deal. Thanks Melissa."
Melissa Dean had moved into the small town strip-mall shortly after it had opened. It wasn't really a 'strip' mall, because it was shaped like a squared off letter C. The storefronts were still half empty when she signed the lease. The Stephen Terry Company office was directly across from her Healing Touch Massage office. He had moved in about month before she did.
After her divorce, Melissa had attended massage therapy school. When she moved into the Brentwood Center Mall, she had just graduated, and had no clients - except for family and friends who had let her practice on them while she was in school. After she had her office set up, she went along to visit the other shop owners and businesses, handing out her business card, with a coupon for a free one-hour massage, hoping to introduce some people to her services...and, of course, hoping that some of them would become paying clients.
That was how she met Steve almost three years ago. She remembered he hadn't seemed all that interested, but about a month later, he called her and rather sheepishly made an appointment for an afternoon. Since then, she had seen him maybe 7 or 8 times a year. He wasn't really a 'regular', but once in awhile he came for a massage. He worked at a desk - often very long hours - and his shoulder muscles and forearm muscles would get knotted up from typing at the keyboard. And his lower back. And his buttocks. He was usually in his office every morning before Melissa got to work, and his office lights were usually still on when she finished for the day.
He was a nice guy. Very shy to begin with. She knew he was divorced, because he had indicated that in the 'marital status' space on her new client form. Unlike lots of her clients, Steve didn't talk much during his massages. At first, it was probably because he was shy. But after that, he often fell asleep during his sessions.
Melissa didn't know much about him. She didn't pry into patients' personal lives like so many therapists do. He was divorced - but she never asked about it. He was born in September of 1965. He ran his own business - but she wasn't exactly sure what he did. She knew he usually worked long hours. He dressed nicely in 'business casual' style. He drove a nice black BMW sedan. He was always friendly and very polite, whether in her office or when he saw her on the street. But that was about all she knew.
"Thank you for staying late, Missy," Steve said as he came through the door. He usually called her 'Missy' instead of 'Melissa'. He looked stressed.
"No problem, Steve. Really, I don't mind at all. What's bothering you? You mentioned your lower back. What else?"
Hanging his head slightly, he replied, "Awww...I'm just extra stressed."
"Something at work?" she asked.
His face blushed a little, and he paused before answering. "Naw...I saw my doctor for my annual check-up yesterday...."
"What did he find, Steve? Anything serious?" she asked with genuine concern.
Bashfully, he answered, "Awww...he said my prostate is enlarged...and he wants me to see a urologist."
"Is that all? Only enlarged? Did he say he found any lumps or anything?" Melissa asked with interest.
"I dunno. No...he just said it is enlarged." Steve answered.
Melissa had had enough anatomy and physiology, combined with life experience, to ask the appropriate questions of Steve.
"Do you have to get up 3 or 4 times at night to...pee?"
"Yeah...maybe 4 or 5."
"Do you...do you sometimes have to wait a few seconds before...urine starts to come out when you feel the need to pee?"
"Yeah, sometimes. Well, most of the time...it comes out...you know...slowly."
Now it was Melissa's turn to blush. She had read a study on the internet that said that men who don't have sex regularly, or who don't masturbate regularly are more likely to have prostate problems. "Say, Steve, did you happen to read that article on-line last year about...well...it was some study and it said that...guys who don't have...who don't ejaculate regularly are more likely to have prostate problems." Her face was crimson with embarrassment by the time she finished the sentence.
"Yeah, I did," he answered, without emotion in his voice.
"I'm not trying to pry, Steve. But...um...well...how might that study apply to you, personally?"
With a faint nod of the head, he answered, "I guess I'd be in the category of men more likely to have prostate problems."
Melissa knew he was divorced, but had no idea whether he was dating anyone. There were instances when she had glimpsed his penis as he turned over on the massage table, while she had held the sheet so it would not wrap around him or fall onto the floor. It happened commonly, and wasn't any big deal. A few times, when he had fallen asleep, or was nearly asleep, he had gotten an erection while she was working on him. That happened with male clients with some frequency, and wasn't unusual, either. Massages get the blood moving...including into the penis. When men turned over and rested face-down on the massage table, some laid on their penis, and others pointed it downward between their thighs. Steve was a pointer-downer. On a couple of occasions, he had fallen asleep in that position, and when she was massaging his inner thighs or buttocks, he had become erect. With his thighs spread apart, she could see that his erection was sizeable, and as far as she could see, he did something to remove the hair from his scrotum and penis. A few men do that, and most men don't. She liked it that way, and had to avoid temptation to brush against his genitals as she worked on his inner thighs. She thought he was probably sexually active, because it looked like he kept his genitals free of hair. But maybe he just preferred it that way.
"I didn't mean to embarrass you, Steve. Just asking...I mean...I know lots of doctors never ask questions like that," Melissa continued. "Maybe you ought to re-read that article?" she asked with a little smile.
"Maybe so," Steve answered with a slight grin.
"Well," Melissa said, changing the subject, "go ahead and get undressed for me and get under the sheet, and I'll be in with you in a few minutes."
While she waited for Steve to get undressed, she remembered the articles she had read in recent years about prostate problems. Two articles in particular came to her mind: they were about the effectiveness of massaging the prostate as a treatment for enlargement. She had read each article a few times out of interest...and wondering whether the opportunity might ever arise for her to try that type of massage with a client.
Melissa began Steve's massage routinely. He was lying face up, mostly covered by a sheet, and she began by massaging his forehead. His brow was more wrinkled than usual, so she commented, "Go ahead and relax, Steve. I know you're anxious about this prostate thing...but...it's probably just congested."
"Congested?"
She began to work on the tense muscles in his neck "You know I'm not a doctor...but...I do a lot of reading. Lots of middle-aged guys have some congestion of their prostate...which causes swelling. I've read it's more likely in guys who sit most of the time - like you do in your office. And...like the study said...it's more common in men who don't...ejaculate regularly."
Steve was glad his eyes were closed when Melissa said that.
She kept massaging and talking. "It's probably no big deal, Steve. I think general practitioners nowadays are often paranoid, and refer things to a specialist when it isn't really necessary. Everybody seems to have that CYA attitude."
Melissa worked the tension out of Steve's neck muscles with her experienced fingers.
"Tell me more," Steve said, as he began to relax more deeply.
"I've read some articles from old journals - from the 1940s and 1950s - you know that used bookstore across town - they have old medical journals that they just about give away. Anyway, back then doctors used to recommend prostate massage when a man's prostate was swollen."
"Really? Prostate massage? How?"
Melissa continued to work her way to the tense muscles in Steve's shoulders. She intended to sound 'professional' when she answered, "Yes, doctors used to massage prostates. They'd...insert a finger into the man's rectum...and gently massage it...the prostate...and press out some of the congestion."