Sex Addiction Therapy

Codes- F-solo, MF, FF, oral, polyamory.

Intro- This fictional story is meant for mature open minds. It discusses and depicts graphic sexual behavior and adult relationships. Please do not read it if this does not interest you or you are not an appropriate audience. All celebrities mentioned are fictional versions of real people who exist in my universe only. The real people are different and have done their great deeds without help from any fictional characters I have created as far as I know. The characters of Freya Gersemi and her paramours Alex, Katie, and Cynthia belong to the author Freya Gersemi. They are used with permission. Kudos to that author for allowing their inclusion and beta reading this work.

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Late Autumn 2024.

Freya Gersemi was in a bad place.

The twenty-something redhead grimaced at herself in the mirror. She was pretty with tanned skin, medium healthy curves, good face and body. The issue was not how she looked. It was how she felt. For the past seventeen months or so, she had been struggling with sexual addiction. She had met and married a great man named Alex. Enjoying sex with him, perhaps too much, had led her to need more than he alone could give her. So she found two additional sexual partners- her friends Katie and Cynthia. Usually that was enough for her, but right now... all three of her friends were out and she was alone.

Her fingers twitched for a moment. Freya had just gotten up, was still in her pajamas. She had no pressing engagements. Maybe she should go back to bed, pull her pants down, and touch herself. The idea was appealing for a moment. She smiled at herself in the mirror, hefted her breasts, rubbed her body to remind herself she was attractive and could satisfy herself sexually. She turned and moved towards her bed, where she would achieve that satisfaction.

No. She stopped halfway. Freya had been struggling with her sexual needs of late. She needed to cut down on her demands for sex. Or redirect them towards Alex- she wanted to have a baby with him but it had yet to happen. Maybe it would be best that she waited to relieve herself until he got home. Or until Cynthia and Katie got home. Sex was often better with partners, perhaps she should wait.

Freya walked to her bedside table and checked her phone. It was mid-morning. All her partners were at work. Alex was at the hardware store. Katie had a new job as a nurse at a local clinic. Cynthia was working at her dress shop job also. They might be able to check in with her by text, but not at length until lunchtime, and sex with them definitely wouldn't be possible until that evening after they got home. That might not be soon enough for her. Arrgh!

Freya was unsure what to do for a moment. I better relieve myself, she decided. It's my day off. I do have some chores to do, but they can wait. I'll just rub one out quickly, then be in a better mood, and when Alex gets home this evening, I'll be ready to get with him again. Okay, sounds great. Let's do it.

She put her phone down. She could call up appropriate imagery on it- an erotic picture or video, perhaps a story, but that was not necessary in the moment. All she had to do was use her imagination and her hands. The need was that powerful.

Freya turned, fell onto the bed backside down. Her hands roamed about her body, tracing familiar paths. She fondled her generous breasts and her thighs, one hand on each. She squeezed each of her breasts, each of her thighs. The ache inside her eased, then grew. Her heart rate and breathing became heavier. Her skin was soon flushed with arousal and need.

Her hands moved to the bottom of her shirt, the top of her pants. The garments were pushed up and down respectively, allowing her hands direct access to her nipples and pussy. Her nipples were soft tan nubs but quickly became sharp points as she rubbed them. Her pussy was shaved and opened to her touch. She teased the edges, tickled the lips. Her thighs heaved. Her clit became erect and emerged from its hood, ready for love. Freya held off fondling it for a few seconds, wanting to build the tension inside her mind.

She imagined a lover's hands touching her. Soft and knowing at first, touching the right nerves, building the right feelings. Loving words whispered in her ear, chuckles at her constant need for stimulation. Then caresses of her pussy and breasts, feelings stoking inside her. The need became greater. The touches responded, becoming increasingly hard and fast.

"Ahh!" she moaned. "Yes! Yes!!!"

Two fingers stroked her pussy's insides, then approached and seized her clit. Pressed it hard. Her other hand massaged her breasts in counterpoint.

Her lips moved quicker as she pleasured herself. Her cries echoed on the air.

Her orgasm was approaching, but not quite here yet. Freya longed for it, continued stroking herself, letting the pleasure build. Every touch furthered it, every squeeze of her clit and nipples, every caress. She imagined Alex, Katie, Cynthia... perhaps all three at once? It was her imagination. She could do that. The image quickly took shape on her mind. Cynthia and Katie were rubbing her breasts, kissing her lips with their tongues. She licked her lips to simulate the latter. Meanwhile, her fingers inside her became Alex's cock stretching her insides, pressing into her clit. The pair of fingers was not as large as his cock of course, could not reach her as deep. But pushed against her clit, it would do. Oh yes, it would do.

Each of her lovers took shape in her mind. They were all around her age. Alex was a blonde man, well-built and handsome. Cynthia was a deliciously curvy blonde, plump but still pretty. Katie was a slim brunette. Cynthia and Katie were in love with each other, engaged to be married soon. They had slightly different personalities- Cynthia was outgoing and sarcastic, Katie was the quiet caring type- but they both had wild habits in bed. Alex was easygoing, loving, willing to explore Freya's desires with her. The girls were similar in their friendship. All were with her now, inside her mind, touching her, aiding the passion inside her. It was building, growing. Freya stroked herself, willing the climax to come.

"Ahh!" she breathed faster. "Yes! YES!!!" An explosion blossomed in her loins.

The feeling flared inside her. Freya gasped for a long instant, then exhaled and relaxed. Her insides were too sensitive to touch now, so her fingers withdrew from her inner folds. Her other hand dropped to her stomach, let her breasts settle. The desire inside her settled also. She was calmer now. The need had receded. Good.

She focused on her surroundings. The house was quiet. Freya decided to get up, focus on her chores. She rearranged her clothing, covered herself, took her phone off the charger and slipped it into her pocket, then stood up. She moved about the house, checked the common areas. The kitchen was clean, the dishwasher was almost full. Freya poured herself a glass of orange juice, microwaved a bacon biscuit for her breakfast. She also checked her dog Rio's food and water, refilled both. Her pet walked over and rubbed her leg in appreciation. Freya favored him with a pat on the head.

While she was eating breakfast, her phone signaled a text.

It was Cynthia. "You up yet?"

"Yeah," Freya typed back. "You okay?"

"Fine. On a break. Checking in. You look at those links I sent you?"

Links? Freya blinked. She checked her email app. Yes, she had new messages. They just hadn't immediately been on her mind.

She looked quickly at the ones from Cynthia. Apparently, Cynthia and Katie had been surfing the net the previous night and come across a personality they thought Freya might appreciate. An online influencer named Dr. Lindsay Coleman- a licensed psychotherapist with nearly thirty years experience in treating patients with anxiety, depression, and other mental issues. Her main practice was in the Western United States, but Zoom allowed her to talk to clients online worldwide. She also had her own YouTube channel featuring several videos and podcasts in which she introduced herself and discussed various common or controversial issues. Sometimes she would talk to guests and lead them to explore their issues- the guests included a few celebrities and average people also. Then there were interviews with various popular talk show hosts and other pundits. All the videos had numerous comments and likes.

Freya's eyes widened when she saw some of the topics. Sexual attraction and how to fulfill it. Finding the best partners. Online and in-person dating. A number of videos discouraging anti-sex movements along with anything that promoted unequal treatment of people based on gender, ethnic background, and other factors. How to detect, avoid, and deal with sexual abuse and neglect. Overcoming addictions and other negative behaviors. Freya examined the video titles and summaries. She detected a definite sex positive agenda, but also one geared to address problems and decrease their impact. Judging from the number of likes, this psychotherapist knew her stuff.

Freya checked her picture and bio. A redhead woman in her late forties, hair slightly darker than Freya's own. Intense dark blue eyes, snub nose, full lips, tanned skin. Curvy figure like Cynthia's but with muscles more than fat. The woman was often in fighting stances- she looked like she could get in the ring with female martial artists like Gina Carano or Holly Holm. Her bio said she had achieved her undergraduate and master's degrees in psychology at the University of Texas at Austin and then her doctorate at the University of Southern California. Throughout her psychotherapy career, she worked with various law enforcement agencies across America, treating crime victims nationwide. She also worked with Hollywood celebrities- she met them though a sideline as a film stunt performer and coordinator. Numerous high ranks in mixed martial arts aided that. Her resume said she had worked on action TV shows and movies, including the Marvel Cinematic Universe and other popular series. This work had allowed her to amass enough finances that she did not usually charge for online psychotherapy, although she did have well-paying tip jars at Patreon and other services. The celebrity clients, who dealt with all sorts of issues thanks to their public lives, appreciated Dr. Coleman's advice and endorsed it. This led many average people to follow their lead.

"I'm looking at the links now," Freya texted Cynthia, needing to pause a bit. "You think I should watch this doctor's videos?"

"And talk to her if you can," Cynthia replied. "She's the kind of woman I think you want to be. Check her out. See if you agree. I gotta go. Talk later."

"Talk later," Freya texted back, then returned to examine the videos. One of about thirty minutes addressing sexual addiction caught her eye. She started playing it.

A voice spoke in a Deep Southern United States accent, mixing various dulcet tones. "Hi y'all, Dr. Lindsay Coleman here. This video, I want to discuss sexual behavior and addiction. Are you struggling with a constant need for sex? Fear you enjoy it a bit too much? Then you might want to listen in."

Freya listened to the video with headphones while she finished her breakfast, then loaded and started the dishwasher. Dr. Coleman made a few quick reminders that her videos were for appropriate mature interested audiences only, then got to the meat of her discussion. "Let me say first that sexual activity is not inherently a bad thing," Dr. Coleman said. "It is a natural human need and to most people, it feels good, right? I know it does to me, and most people I know. If you're asexual, well, I will address that in another video. This video is about enjoying sex while managing possible addiction to it. I have had to deal with this process my entire adult life.

"My sex life began at age eighteen. I already knew what sex was at that age, I just hadn't had it with another person yet. My parents were proud hippies with a liberal mindset who explained sexual attraction to me as soon as I could understand it. But they stressed to me that I should not have sex until I reached the legal age of consent. So I held off. Then when I was eighteen, I got way into it. I went through ten boyfriends before my nineteenth birthday, put out for all but one. Kissed three girls too. The next year, I became a confirmed bisexual, dated many more men and women. That has continued my entire life. Some people I've dated have been problematic. Most have been very good to me. I prefer the good ones, of course.

"I still have a liberal dating attitude today. I'm married now, to my longest lasting male paramour- that word means romantic partner. Yet I still enjoy group sex and dating worthy people as a swinger- I plan to do that until I no longer can. I always keep all my relationships open. I enjoy sex with a wide variety of partners. Do I like sex? Yes. Am I addicted to it? Yes and no."

Freya whistled at the doctor's words. They spoke with honesty and experience. Maybe this woman can help me, she mused. I'll keep listening and find out.

"Any behavior can be addictive. Sex in particular, when fulfilling, can be very addictive. The question is, are you in control of it or is it in control of you? If your need for sexual activity is in control of your life, you have a problem. This includes if you are dealing with a controlling or abusive partner. If on the other hand, you are in control of your sexual needs, managing your behavior with attention and maturity... then you still have a potential problem, but it is not as serious. It can in fact be a very healthy thing, a very good thing to have in your life. A source of pleasure, comfort, perhaps even love. Keep listening, I will help you learn to bring that about."

There was a quick reminder to like, comment, and subscribe if you enjoyed the video. Then encouragement to check out other related videos. Dr. Coleman then got back to the topic at hand.

"I'm going to speak from my own personal experiences here, and address other people's when I can. Certain things have encouraged me to enjoy sex more than most people. All my life I have had to manage borderline personality disorder. I have issues with anxiety and depression. I need friendship and love. Sex is an important part of that. Do I sleep with all my friends? No. Not regularly. But there is a... significant plurality. This has been true all my adult life.

"What else has increased my need for sexual activity? Well, I have a drive to befriend and help other people. This has led me to a career in psychotherapy. It has also led me to a lot of relationships. I haven't always been able to sort good from bad relationships right away. The ability to do that is something I have wanted to learn. After over twenty-five years of licensed psychotherapy and almost thirty of sexual activity... I'm good at it but still learning new tricks when I can.

"I am infertile. That has often allowed me to enjoy sex with a lot less anxiety than many people experience. And more depression, as I am forsaken by some partners who would prefer I not be infertile. Or watching my friends with families, being reminded that I cannot have what they have. I am considering adoption now that I finally have a husband, but I will address that in another video.

"I have an overactive imagination, too. I always have. And I'm neurodivergent, though I do not fit the stereotype for that in many ways. I am extroverted, empathetic, I like to connect with people in any way they will allow. I have worked in the adult entertainment industry as a model, body double, and exotic dancer. I admit that without shame. I have also worked in the television and film industries as a stunt performer, stand-in, body double, and acting coach. My entire life, I have enjoyed regular frequent sex. But I still get overly into it from time to time. The challenge is to recognize this issue and be better at responding to it."

Freya continued listening, taking mental notes.

"My age has steered my attitude at times, as it does for everyone. Am I embarrassed by the wrong kind of attention? Of course. I have had issues with unwelcome attention too. Your experiences are probably different from mine. They may be worse or better. I hope you will listen to me regardless and leave with wisdom gained.

"The key to managing sexual addiction is, first and foremost, do not let your fears or desires consume you. If you are not in control of your sexual activity, you need to get in control. You need to manage your sexual activity, day by day and long term, work towards a good state of happiness. Constant recurring problems with stress and relationships may be fine for fictional characters, but for real people, you want to be able to handle your life.

"Balance is very important. You have to address all your needs with the right attention. Sex, like work, food, and friendship is just another need at the end of the day. You have to remind yourself there are multiple ways to satisfy it and address it in ways best for you.

"Work to find healthy desires and activities. Do not be ashamed for wanting them. Find the right friends with whom you can address them, in discussion if not in deed. Trust yourself before anyone else. Find other people whom you can also trust. Quality is preferable to quantity, as in most things. Work to find and overcome problems. Don't be ashamed of healthy behaviors. If there are unhealthy behaviors in play, recognize and address them. Stop unhealthy behaviors as best you can. Find the right partners and appreciate them when you do. If you have a partner who won't appreciate you, or worse, tries to control you, or abuse you, work to overcome them. Leave them if you cannot change them. I hate to say it, but changing anyone on a lasting basis can be difficult. Often better to walk away, get help. Hopefully that is possible.

"It is also key to make sure sex is not the only satisfying thing in your life. Do you have a good job? Hobbies? Social and family life? I have always tried to achieve and maintain these. I have other things besides sex that satisfy me. My psychotherapy practice, my skills at mixed martial arts, my work in various entertainment venues, my relationships with family and friends. Some people may insert work in other arts and crafts into that. Or other hobbies like sports or video games, or other jobs. Whatever you do, as long as it's healthy and you're good at it, it's worthy. You just need to make sure sex isn't your only outlet for pleasure and stress relief. If it is, problematic addiction will happen more likely than not."

Freya found herself nodding in agreement. It's good my friendships are based on more than sex, she thought. I was friends with Cynthia and Katie long before I got sexually involved with them. Alex, well, that happened quickly, but there's plenty of things we can have fun doing together besides sex. Then there's my job, Rio, keeping this house in order...

Dr. Coleman paused for breath, then resumed talking. "Learn what sexual activities you can discuss with others and what you can't. In the times we live in, it's usually okay to be queer or bisexual. That hasn't always been the case. Even today in some places it's still not universally accepted. More on that in other videos. You mainly want to discuss your sex life with appropriate audiences, people who will have a positive attitude and encourage good behavior while helping you get away from and overcome bad behavior. In other videos I will help you sort out which is which.