It all began when two of my friends, one married and one engaged, decided it was time for me to find a man.
"All you ever do is work. You need to have a little fun. Get out there and get some nookie!" they chided. I rolled my eyes but couldn't keep from chuckling a little. I did work a lot and it didn't leave much time for socializing, much less chasing men. My friends' solution was well meaning even if it was a little simplistic. They just wanted me to be happy so when they decided to set me up a profile on a dating site I agreed to go along with it. As my friends happily conspired about what to write and which photos of me to add I had to grudgingly admit to myself that maybe my life had fallen into a bit of a rut. Frankly I didn't expect much to happen but maybe I did need a little excitement. I thought I would perhaps just see what happened. My friends knew my hesitant nature though and once they had completed my profile to their satisfaction they elicited a promise from me to pick a man to go on a date with within a month. I wondered what I had gotten myself into but I was determined to see things through. I never go back on my word, and that would have been reason enough, but I was also curious.
I was surprised to find several interested parties when I logged on the next day and with each day there were more. There were so many different types to sort through. I immediately rejected the virtual advances of old and really young men, men in different states, men who had a cat in every profile picture, men who couldn't spell or put together a sentence decently, really short guys, guys who looked like creepers and anyone dressed like a thug. I chatted briefly with the few who made it through the initial cut to determine if there might be some compatibility there. None really seemed to click. It wasn't until I only had two weeks left to keep my promise that I found him. Or rather he found me.
I logged on after work that day and found a new message. As usual I first went to his profile to see if he made the first cut and he passed with flying colors. He was my age, just a little taller than me, in a town close by, his profile was well written and interesting, and none of his photos had cats in them. He didn't look like a creeper either. He was, in fact, well dressed and handsome. His profile did not say where he was from but his light brown skin and facial structure suggested some south Asian heritage. I read his message and found it charming and amusing. He had a sense of humor. I immediately replied. Over the next few days we wrote back and forth and decided to meet each other.
We decided to meet at the local brewery, a place with a comfortable atmosphere, good food, and most importantly, excellent beer. I was terribly nervous as I got ready. My philosophy has always been that a man should like a woman for who she is. I had informed him that I would be meeting him looking like I do every day. I wanted his first impression to be based on the real me and not the grand illusion women can sometimes make of themselves. Still I wondered if the real me would be enough for him. I'm 5'11" tall with long legs, curvy hips, and nice C cup breasts. I have waist length reddish brown hair and hazel eyes set in a well proportioned, oval shaped face. I chose a pair of form fitting jeans that flattered my ass, my skater shoes and a black t-shirt with a band logo on it. I brushed my hair out and kept it down and left on the glasses I usually wear during the day. I snapped my wallet chain on, grabbed my phone, checked myself one last time in the mirror and headed for the door. Yeah, I looked a little punk but that is how I usually look. He could take it or leave it. At the very least I would have kept my word and gone on the requisite date.
Just as I pulled into the parking lot I got a text from him saying he would be waiting for me at the door. I took a few calming breaths and walked towards the restaurant. Sure enough he was there. The pictures on his profile had not prepared me for what he really looked like in person and for a moment my brain stopped functioning as it tried to take everything in. Fortunately I have had polite manners very thoroughly instilled in me and they worked in lieu of my brain as I approached him and introduced myself.
"Hi, I'm Eve. You must be Puli. Did I say that right?" I asked as I extended my hand.
He smiled and nodded as he shook it, "Yes, you did. Its good to meet you Eve. Shall we go inside?" He had a nice voice with an accent I couldn't quite place. I smiled back and nodded. He walked ahead to open the door for me and then followed me into the restaurant. The hostess said there would be a short wait and that we could head to the bar area until our table was ready if we wanted. It seemed like a better idea then just sitting on a bench so we drifted in that direction and ordered ourselves some beer. We began to talk as we stood sipping our beer and I got a better chance to look at him up close. He was just a bit taller than me, perhaps 6' even. He had a generally lean build but was not skinny and his shoulders were wide and built for power but were not overly bulky. His face was more round than mine, his nose was wider, he had beautifully sculpted plump lips and shiny black hair cut short and carefully gelled. His eyes, fringed by long lashes, were a deep, warm brown and his skin was a very lovely shade of mocha. It seemed very different from my own porcelain paleness. He wore dark jeans, leather shoes, and a button up shirt. He looked incredible.
I asked what he did for a living.
"I am an engineer," he said. "I came to America five years ago to earn my Masters degree in electrical engineering. I went to school in Texas and after I graduated I eventually found a job here designing things like power substations for the local utility company."
I was impressed. He was obviously a very intelligent man, a fact which I very much appreciated. I asked him a few more questions about his job to keep him talking a bit. His mentioning coming to America confirmed that he was not, in fact, born here but I still couldn't quite identify his accent. His English was perfectly spoken, not in the stiff technical way in which some foreigners speak it, but with American vernacular and sentence structure. His accent was smooth, almost British but not quite.
"What do you do?" he asked.
"I'm a research tech with a local pharmaceutical company. I see a lot of tissue samples and do a ton of data analysis. I got my degree in Biology so its a job that fits me well," I replied. His eyes widened just a bit and he nodded appreciatively. He asked a few more questions about my job, just as I had asked about his. Before we knew it the hostess informed us that our table was ready. We each finished our beer as we looked over the menu and discussed what looked good. The waitress took our order and quickly returned with fresh beer, leaving us to talk as our food was prepared.
I still could not place his accent. I was going to have to ask. "You said you came to America five years ago. Where did you grow up?" my curiosity begged. He smiled.
"I'm from Suryapet. It's a city of about 100,000 people in south central India." That explained the British influence in his accent. He did not sound like one would expect a stereotypical Indian would sound though. His accent was much more posh. I found it to be very charming. I smiled back at him.
We talked about a number of things as we waited for our food. We continued to talk as we ate and when we had finished our meal we ordered more beer and kept talking. We discussed our taste in movies and found that we had similar taste in music. He spoke of his childhood in an Indian city and I told him about growing up on a farm in a county with only one stoplight. He was smart and charming and funny. We drank our beer and talked and laughed. I was having a great time and it was 1:30 and closing time before we knew it. He offered to walk me to my car. We chatted as we walked, neither of us really wanting the night to end yet. When we reached my car he turned to face me.
"I've had a really good time with you tonight. I would like to see you again. Is it ok if I call you?" he asked.
I looked at him standing two feet away from me. There was a very handsome, articulate, fun, gentleman asking if I wanted to see him again.