Chapter 1 - Meeting People
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People are always asking me where I meet the people I date and have sex with. Although I chat a lot on the Internet, I've never agreed to meet anyone I've chatted with nor do I ever intend to. While I know this frustrates people I'm totally open about it. Still, some people choose to ignore me and push for it. Admittedly once in a while I'll lead them on but I don't feel guilty about it - personally I think they deserve it for not respecting me in the first place.
Just to be clear, I chat on the Internet just for fun. I enjoy talking to different people and exchanging ideas, fantasies, opinions and such. It's like the difference between playing a video game against the computer and being on-line. Interacting with other humans is always much more interesting and that's how I feel about chatting.
So where DO I meet the people you read about here? Well, here is where 99% of the people I've had sex with have come from, in the general order of success:
1). Recommendations from my friends
2). School (well, at least back in high school)
3). Church (you'd be AMAZED at how many people I meet there for sex)
4). Parties (just at the party, never afterwards)
5). Neighbors (including babysitting)
6). My dad's office
7). Escorting Service (I was the escort - I wasn't hiring anyone!)
The one thing they all have in common that's different from people I chat with is that NONE of them know anything whatsoever about my sexual relationships at home. I didn't list family members above because I certainly don't look at my parents and relatives in the same way as I do the other people I have sex with.
This leads up to another reason I don't meet people I chat with. Although I post a website that contains a lot of personal information and such, I alter enough of the details such that I figure the odds are negligible that anyone I care about will recognize us. If I were to date people from on-line then someone outside my family would have direct knowledge of who I am, where I live, etc. which is NOT something I want anyone to know that isn't in my family (and even then only a few selected ones know.
Chapter 2 - Melissa Confides in Me
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In this case I met Richard and Melissa at church. An older couple, Richard was 42 and Melissa was 40, they had two kids in the youth group that I work with. The two of them keep in shape though and most people are surprised to hear their real age, figuring them to be at least five to ten years younger. Actually, my mom suspects that Melissa has had a little help from modern technology when it comes to keeping her figure but I don't see anything wrong with that.
One night after youth group was finished and the everyone had mostly left I was helping Melissa put things away in one of the classrooms. We were alone and the majority of the people were out in the main gathering area. Melissa started to say something to me and then seemed to change her mind and went back to work. This repeated several time until the last time we both burst into laughing over it.
"Melissa, is there something you want to ask me or whatever?" I finally managed to ask after we'd calmed down.
Melissa took a big breath and motioned for me to take a seat. We both sat in those ridiculously small chairs they put in the preschool classrooms. Melissa took my hand and I looked at her with a quizzical look. It was obvious she was very nervous which made me wonder what in the world she was being so coy about telling me.
"Ummmmm... I hope you don't mind me discussing this with you Kelly," she started out, "Just let me know if this make you uncomfortable and I'll drop it."
"Sure Melissa, but you can say anything to me," I replied.
Melissa took yet another deep breath and started over yet again. "I was in the kitchen earlier tonight and there was a few of the fathers talking. They didn't know I was in there and I was about to shoo them out when I overheard what they were talking about. They were talking about you Kelly, and I hate to say this but not very nicely either."
I looked at her intently as if I had no idea what she was talking about, although I had a pretty good idea which guys she was talking about. Melissa looked upset though, probably thinking I'd be hurt by what she was going to say. "My goodness Kelly," she said with her hand over her mouth, "They said you are having sex with some of the married men in church! OK, I'm sure that's a huge exaggeration as they DID talk mostly about it being just oral sex but still, sex is sex!"
Melissa paused to gauge my reaction. Seeing how I just sat there listening without much expression so she continued on saying, "Then they talked about the clothes you wear around town and I couldn't believe the nasty things they said wanted to do to you. Finally I couldn't listen anymore so I made some noises which scared them off."
Melissa looked at me in the eyes, "Is any of that true Kelly? I have to admit that I've always thought you dressed a bit... well let's just say... inappropriately at times but I can't believe such a good girl like you could ever be the kind of slut they were making you out to be. My goodness, all of the parents here just adore you and you do such a great job with the kids. Richard and I have even trusted you to baby-sit our kids for years now!"
With that she stood up with her arms crossed. She just shook her head in disbelief and then looked at me solemnly saying, "Well, I assume since now that you're going to such a nice Christian college that all this just a bunch of guy talk, right?"
She looked so perplexed I couldn't help but smile mischievously at her and she knew instantly what I meant by it. Her face turned red as she blushed and looked away from me. "Oh my god Kelly," she said, "Your parents are such wonderful people, I can't believe they condone that kind of behavior!"
"Well..." I said, "I don't hide anything from my parents."
With that I expected Melissa to faint at any moment but instead she just went silent for over a minute. A bit confused myself now, I wasn't sure where this was all leading so I just sat there with my hands folded in my lap, quietly waiting for her to continue. When she finally broke her silence she turned to me with a look that took me totally by surprise. She was smiling at me! Well, if that surprised me it was nothing compared to how I felt when she made her next remark.
"Well, I have to admit I was sort of hoping you would say that," she said softly. Her smile became a bit naughtier as she saw the surprise in my face. She licked her lips and said, "Kelly, I were wondering if you would ever be interested in being with an older couple?"
"Being with?" I asked innocently. I knew full well what she was implying but I wanted to hear her say it.
Melissa put her hand on mine as she answered. "You know what I mean Kelly... Richard and me."
Wow, now THAT is what I call coming in straight out of the blue! Holy smoke! I'd indeed always fantasized about doing such a thing with a married couple but so far never had the opportunity. (I don't count my parents since we don't have sex out of lust as this would be.) Well, once I did it with my neighbors but they were swingers and thus it wasn't like it was anything too terribly naughty.
THIS, however, was totally different. Richard and Melissa were pillars of the church community and although I knew Richard had sneaked a peek at my ass a time or two, pretty much every guy in church did so I never considered it any big deal. In all the times I'd babysat their kids I'd never gotten anything even remotely like a hint that they were interested in any such thing with me or anyone else for that matter. Like everyone I babysit for, I'd poked about their house a bit when the kids were gone and they were one of the few homes where I never found any pornography, sexy lingerie, "personal" photos/videos, or anything like that. They may have just done a better job of hiding it but I doubted that this was the case in their situation. Of all the couples at church their age they would probably be the last one that I would've expected this offer to come from.
I was quiet while I contemplated all this and Melissa must have thought it meant I was upset by what she said. "Oh god Kelly, I hope I didn't offend you," she said with a worried look on her face. She let out a deep sigh and her face turned beet red. "Oh dear, this is soooooo embarrassing," she said softly, "I can't believe I said that. Please don't tell anyone."