Lovers Once Again
After escaping a long, boring and sexless marriage, I met up with my friend Stacy who I dated many years ago but kept in touch with over the years. After being married so long, it felt a bit naughty to be meeting up with a woman other than my wife, but we just went to dinner and caught up on our lives.
Stacy has never been married and isn't currently dating anyone. She is an incredibly beautiful woman and I was dumbfounded as to why she's never found the right guy. At some point in our conversation, I realized that she's still single because she has a certain type of guy that she is attracted to and will not compromise. Whether it be their look, job or attitude, she is quick to toss them aside. I've told her many times that there is no perfect man out there and that she should focus on their good attributes and accept their less than perfect ones.
"Stacy. You're going to have to pick one or you'll be single your whole life."
She said, "A few times I've thought I found the right guy, but then find out they aren't into my lifestyle."
"What do you mean? They don't have the same interests as you?"
She said, "No, they want a monogamous relationship."
I paused for a brief moment of confusion.
"Wait. You don't want a monogamous relationship?"
She smiled and said, "I can't have just one dude for the rest of my life."
This definitely piqued my interest. She had never expressed this to me when we were dating, but maybe our relationship didn't get to the point that she felt comfortable revealing this to me.
"You never told me this when we were dating."
She giggled, "You and I never dated."
I sarcastically replied, "Oh, we didn't? I've been telling people that we dated, but apparently that never happened."
She smiled, "Dinner, drinks and dick is not dating."
We both laughed.
I asked, "You really don't want a husband and a big house on the corner with a white picket fence?"
"Oh, I do. I definitely do. But I want that husband to share me and allow me to share him as well."
Now I was really interested. One of the issues my ex-wife and I had in our marriage was sex. After our love life dwindled down, we read all the marital help articles and bought all the sex toys in an attempt to rekindle our intimacy. I even suggested we role play or go to a swinger's club and watch people fuck, but she turned it all down. Unfortunately, our intimacy eventually died completely and we divorced amicably. I'm only 51 years old and still in pretty good shape, so one of the main factors in divorcing my wife was that I became extremely concerned that sex for me would end so early in life.
"Hey!" Stacy's voice woke me out of deep thought.
"Oh sorry. I was just thinking about the times I talked to my ex-wife about having an open relationship."
Stacy said, "Most women don't want an open relationship. They don't have the stomach to see another woman touch their man."
"Yep. Exactly. That was her answer when I suggested swinging."
I was still intrigued by Stacy's requirements in a man and wanted to dive deeper into it.
"So, how did you first get interested in open relationships?"
She said, "I never said I'm interested in an open relationship. That is definitely not what I'm looking for."
"Oh, I thought a non-monogamous relationship is the same thing as an open relationship."
She sighed and rolled her eyes, "OK, I'll explain it to you. There are a few types of non-monogamous relationships. The main one's are open, polyamorous and then the swinger's lifestyle."
"OK, so you're not interested in an open relationship. This is interesting, so explain further."
She said, "Open means you can go on dates with anyone at any time, outside your marriage. Polyamorous means bringing a third person into the relationship both emotionally and physically."
I said, "So, basically that is a live-in threesome."
She giggled, "Yeah, basically but with emotions involved. That gets too complicated, so I am only interested in the swinger stuff. But if I found the right guy, I wouldn't rule out having a girlfriend as well."
I spent a few moments trying to process all of this. Watching Stacy with another girl? I could easily get on board with that!
Stacy spoke up, "You look confused."
"No, I'm not confused at all. You explained it well."
She said, "So, that's what I'm looking for and very few guys are willing to share me."
For some reason, I have always been fascinated with the swinger's lifestyle. I've read books and articles, read erotic stories, watched shows and even looked up swinger websites. Most of my curiosities revolved around watching how someone else makes my wife orgasm, whether it be a male or another female. I think I am more of a cuck and fucking the other man's wife is just the cherry on top.
I've always been extremely attracted to Stacy and this meet up was purely intended to catch up with an old friend, but these revelations really made her even more attractive in my eyes. Stacy is a couple years younger than me, but in much better shape than I am. Being single, she is really into fitness and looking after only herself, where I have been more focused on just trying to stay in shape rather than making it a priority in my married life. Her body is toned, her above average sized tits are nicely shaped and her little ass always looks perfect in whatever clothes she wears.
During dinner, I couldn't help but check her tits out as we sat across from each other. I have always thought that Stacy was the one woman in my past that I should have put more effort into, so the desire to date her has always been in my mind. But it had only been a month into my divorce and still had mixed feelings about asking Stacy on a date so quickly. However, her non-monogamous requirement is really what I want too and I at least wanted to let her know that I'm on board with this arrangement. So, with a little nervousness, I decided to plant the seed.
"I love your mindset."
She asked, "What mindset?"
"I'm not one for monogamy either."
Stacy's eyebrows lifted and she said, "Oh, really."
"I've always had the desire to share my wife or girlfriend, but always seemed to fall in love with a woman that has no interest in it."
Stacy simply said, "Interesting."
We continued with small talk after that, almost like she was trying to process my comments but didn't know how to ask more. We finished dinner, gave each other a deep hug and went our separate ways.
The next few weeks were pretty standard for me, but now with the addition of occasionally texting with Stacy. Our texting conversations were very surface level, but one day I received an interesting text message.
"Wanna go out Friday night?"
I looked at her text message for a couple minutes before responding, "Dinner again or is this a date?"
"I want you to take me on a date like you did years ago."
I responded, "I thought we didn't date :)"
"LOL. OK, we dated."
I didn't respond right away and decided to think this one through. Was I ready to move on from my 10-year marriage so quickly after being separated from my wife for not even 2 months? Do I need more time to repair myself before jumping back into the dating scene? Would this start the ball rolling with Stacy on more than a friendship level?
I decided that I wasn't getting any younger and whatever happens is meant to be, so I responded.
"I would love to take you out."
She instantly responded, "Great! See you Friday."
Later, we texted back and forth and I agreed to pick her up at 7pm.
Friday came, and I felt a little nervousness and butterflies in my stomach as I drove to Stacy's condo. It had been a long time since I was a single man and taking another woman on an official date seemed so foreign to me.
When I arrived, I rang the doorbell and waited for Stacy to open the door. Anticipation began to build, but she didn't leave me hanging for very long. When the door opened, I was met with Stacy's beautiful smile which instantly calmed my nerves.
Stacy was wearing a tight white dress and red stiletto heels. I stepped back and said, "Whoa! You look amazing" and took this time to look her up and down from head to toe. Stacy's long brown hair was flowing down the sides of her face beautifully and she was wearing only a small amount of make up as she always does. Her tits looked bigger than yesterday, her nipples poked ever so slightly through the tight material and the dress accentuated her slender waste and hips perfectly.
"Man, you're a knock out."
She smiled and said, "Thanks. You look great yourself. Are you ready to go?"
"Absolutely!"
When Stacy went back inside to grab her clutch purse, it gave me a moment to relax and shed the guilt I felt earlier about taking her on a date, or anyone else for that matter. I decided to just enjoy my time with Stacy, which got me excited about the night ahead.
Stacy came out, locked her door and we walked to my pickup truck. I opened the passenger side door and quickly realized my truck is a little too high and it will probably be hard for her to get in, especially with the tight dress she was wearing.
"Do you want me to lift you up into the truck?"
"No, I can do it. But don't look, I'm not wearing panties."
I chuckled and watched her climb into the passenger seat. Of course, I was looking but unfortunately Stacy didn't expose herself.
On the drive to the restaurant, our conversation was great. I felt a new and relaxed attitude with her and it almost felt like the good old days. As we pulled into the parking lot of Fleming's Steakhouse, I could see Stacy's eyes light up with excitement. I pulled into the valet lane and giggled because my Chevy pickup truck was now amongst a bunch of Ferrari's and Lamborghini's that were parked and on display.
As I stopped the vehicle, one valet walked toward my door and another started walking toward Stacy's door. I said, "Looks like your guy is going to get a peek before I do."
I got my valet ticket and walked around to find Stacy waiting for me. She looked so amazing and I was really excited to spend more time with her.
I said, "Let's go have a great meal."
As I began moving toward the door, Stacy said, "Are you going to hold my hand?"