I am a 25 year old woman and I have been married to my husband for a year and a half. Before that, we had been on and off dating for more than 6 years. During the first year of our relationship I had caught him cheating on me with his coworker twice.
I like to mention that he is in the army reserves. I forgave him the first time and I broke up with him the second time. It wasn't more than 2 months after our break up until he made me fall for him again and I tried to fix our relationship. It seemed all happy for the first 6 months, I did get worried but he never showed any signs of cheating.
Once we were at a dinner in this fancy restaurant and I excused myself to the bathroom. Only to return to see his hand on the waitress's ass while he was groping her. At that time I brushed it off and believed him when he told me that I saw wrong and I was being to harsh on him for it. But I guess I was not.
We kept going to the same restaurant every other week. He used to state that he knew the owner of the restaurant and half way through our dinner he would excuse himself and leave in some room upstairs saying that he just wanted to talk to the manager since they where friends. One time I decided to follow him.
It was true that he was going to the manager, but what I had no idea was that the manager was a woman and he was fucking both her and the waitress on her desk while I was waiting like an idiot downstairs. I was so heart broken that I could not even say anything.
He admitted on having sex with both of them every time we went to that restaurant only when it came to me that the waitress had gotten pregnant from him!
I broke up with him as soon as I found out about the pregnancy. However, my husband has a way of convincing me of having changed and not more than one month later we were back together. I became the babysitter of his son as soon as he was born and I ended up raising him as if he were my own son.
I knew that during the other four years of our relationship he was cheating on me with so many other women, however I had never caught him in act and neither did he ever do a false move so I could not really put it on him. Everyone began telling me that I was just imagining things when I told them he was cheating and all our friends had told me that he had truly changed this time. He never once pretended to stay over time at work, he did not leave the house at bizzare hours, he never left my side if we were out, so I guessed that he had truly changed himself. So when he asked me to marry him I accepted right away.
One year into our marriage and we seemed to be living a happy life, the two of us and his son whom I had legally adopted. Everything was going smoothly. Until one of our mutual friend; let's call him John, comes into the picture. John has known my husband since middle school. They are definitely best friends or bros. John even has his own tech repair company and fixes our router or whatever electrical device that gives out on us for free. He even secretly installed an app on my phone to catch my husband if he is cheating.
John was always there for me in a subtle type of way when it came with helping me cope with my husband's infidelity. All honesty there would be no marriage if it wasn't for John. But to say the least, that app comes in handy. I have yet to catch my husband red handed which is a good thing right?
Six months ago however, a woman came knocking on my door while my husband was out. She was holding a girl in her arms who was about 3 months old. The woman told me that she needed to speak to me about my husband and I let her in. Once inside she told me that she was one of helpers at our wedding, 22 years old and our wedding was her first job after she finished her school. She told me that during the wedding, my husband kept grabbing her and groping her everywhere.
While she was walking with trays he would purposely push her against a wall just to cop a feel and at one point he even put his hands up her skirt and touched her pussy. She then continued to say that at which one moment my husband had excused himself because there seemed to be a problem with lack of drinks - a situation which I remembered - however, he did not go to check inside like he said. Instead he had entered the kitchen and asked her assistance, he took her upstairs (our hall had bedrooms upstairs) and he had fucked her in one of the beds.
She kept apologizing to me repeteadly saying that she should not have let my husband do that to her, however he was telling her that if she doesn't have sex with him he would report her to her seniors and she would loose her job. I was devastated. To make things worse, she informed me that the girl in her hand was my husbands daughter which she concieved on my wedding day!
She continued to talk. She told me that the reason she came to tell me was because she felt incredibly guilty. My husband knew about her pregnancy and she said that after her daughter was born, my husband when to look for her and once again began a sexual relationship with her. I had no idea what to do. I knew that if I talked to him he would deny everything so instead I decided to just follow him around in hope to actually catch him in the act. It took me a while since my husband had ways to hide himself but a month ago, he said he was going to a doctor's appointment.
I followed him and I saw him enter the same restaurant as before. I knew something was up. He walked straight upstairs and I followed him. There was the said waistress, the mother of his son, waiting for him and he fucked her. I did not stay for long but I knew that there was another woman inside, probably the manager from before as well.
I met my friend that night and I spilled everything to her. She suggested that I give him some of his own medicine. She said that I could keep pretending to be happy and idiotic while I go out and grab some men for myself, however I am not sure whether I should do that or just divorce him straight away.
I decided for the meantime I'll keep pretending. I didn't have much confidence to do anything drastic at the moment. One day as we are going through mail, his staff Sergeant or something tells him that he is needed due to high demand for his MOS. Since he was in the reserves this army wife lifestyle has never had much presence in our relationship. At times I even forget that he is even in the reserves. He has to leave the following morning to his new station.
He apparently has to work with Navy sailors so he will be on a boat with no reception. I don't know the protocol on communication but we'll find out as we go. He could be gone up to 4 weeks or longer. It's been 2 weeks since I caught him cheating at the restaurant. It's still fresh and I told him I knew. Surprisingly he didn't put up a fight but this caused tension in our relationship enough so that we had our son stay with my sister and her family for a while.
He leaves before I could even wake up but leaves a note explaining how much he loves me and when he gets back he'll make it up to me. Same thing he always says. He also said that our wifi router is busted and I need to call John over to fix it.
Lord knows why or how it's busted, I'm pretty annoyed because I was planning on ordering groceries that morning which I need service for. I looked through our emergency contacts, hence I don't know John's number by heart, then I called up John, telling him the situation and just like that John came over.
He fixes the wifi router kinda as baffled as I am about how that happened. Looks like my husband placed a sticky note on the router causing it to catch fire and burn the router a tad bit. I mean luckily this didn't get out of hand, but something so small could cause so much damage if left carelessly. All the house devices start to reconnect, I walk over to John to thank him once again for saving the day to which he chuckles. He shows me all the devices that are connected to our wifi; he looks at me to confirm all these devices are authorized.
"Yep all looks--" I stopped and paused and noticed an unrecognizable iPhone 6s; I thought to myself about who's phone that possibly is. Me and my husband always keep up with the latest iPhones, so to see the 6s as an active device on our internet in 2022 is odd quite frankly. John helps to ding the phone through find my iPhone app which leads us to the phone in my husband's office. My husband must've left it... John unlocks the phone with ease and inspects it. "Looks like it definitely belongs to him." He hands me the phone. Since my husband's office is connected to our bedroom I told John to wait in the other room as I investigated the office and phone. Not expecting that I would be gone for almost 2 hours. Once I opened his phone I opened his photos full of nudes and porn. I look at his messages, he texting his hoes under his buddies names and so forth. I even know a few of the women personally! It's just sickening.