I kneel on the floor at the foot of her bed, my head engulfed by her thighs and her hand holding my face against her most sensitive area. My eyes open once more to look up at her, and just beyond her breasts I see a very, very happy woman. Though my cock is hard as a rock and BEGGING to be touched, still I kneel with my hands behind my back.
It's only week two.
Flashback to November 1st.
I sit in the living room with a cup of coffee in my hand. The two of us had attended a rather drunken Halloween party the night before, at which she told me of the 'presentation' she'd been working on all week. She was super 'hush-hush' about the details, but was sure it would take our relationship to the next level.
It was a fun party overall, we both had plenty to drink (I'd call it a sensible amount for a Halloween party) and upon arriving home we may have had a partially costumed makeout sesh. Playboy bunny is a cliché costume, but she looked absolutely fantastic in it. She looked great out of the costume, of course, and after we took it to bed we had some very hot sex. I slept very well after that.
So here I am, feeling groggy with a cup of coffee in my hand and she emerges from the kitchen wearing a dressing gown and holding her laptop and a can of beer (hair of the dog, she swears by it). Upon plugging her laptop into the TV I'm greeted by the title of her presentation:
"Why We Should try No Nut November"
I burst out laughing.
It was a very funny slide to see at 10 in the morning and she was smiling ear-to-ear as well. But she let me run my course, put her drink to one side, and dropped her dressing gown to reveal a pair of knee-high socks and her translucent red and black lingerie. That shut me up.
"Now that I have your attention" she started "I would like to make my proposal: I want you to try going a whole month without orgasm."
I respectfully smirked and stayed quiet for the next few slides.
The first slide laid out the rules: no orgasm. No cumming from masturbation, sex, oral, anything. I was allowed to be touched where it feels nice, we could have all the sex we wanted and I was even allowed to fuck myself so long as I didn't finish. If I had a wet dream that was okay too. Other than that I was not allowed to "nut" for the entire month. I also would not be allowed to watch or consume porn unless she felt like watching porn with me.
Truth be told, I was starting to worry - I felt small and I felt condescended to. Of course I could go a month without masturbating, obviously. I just don't. And why would I. Besides, I don't want to be told what to do! Who is she to tell me how often I'm allowed to orgasm? I kept my grievances silent, even though she could tell from the look on my face exactly what emotions were stirring in me.
"Though in the past months we have had an adequate amount of sex" she continued "The frequency has done nothing but go down while the sessions have become shorter, and I believe that the orgasm gap has grown. As the man in the relationship you are more likely to orgasm during sex than I am, and as a result I've spent more and more nights feeling sexually unsatisfied."
It was true. It's a cliché that men don't care about their partner's orgasm during sex but I was a model cliché. Positions were more likely to be my choosing, she was far more likely to 'give' during foreplay and especially oral, and sex would be over when I was finished, even if she wasn't. My mind went back to last night...
"In fact, I kept a log!"
The next slide showed a calendar of our sexual activity in October. It was not very impressive on my part. In blue were all the times we'd had sex - maybe once every two-to-four days - and in red were my orgasms. There were far more red dots than pink dots (which represented her orgasms during sex).
"Hold up..." I interrupted for the first time this whole lecture "what are the dots in purple?"
"Those are all the times I've masturbated. Most of the time it's while you're asleep after sex."
There were maybe twice as many purple dots as pink ones. She hadn't cum from sex in nearly two weeks.
"Fuck... I'm sorry"
"Never matter!" She explained cheerily "that's why this new experiment will benefit both of us!"
The rest of the talk was truly fascinating. According to a survey she referenced, Men who stopped excessively masturbating were found to have increased attention span, better performance in bed, and more fulfilling orgasms. Meanwhile straight women have the lowest orgasm rate of any demographic and pursuing HER pleasure could lead to more exciting bedroom experiences.
"So, if we do try this No Nut November thing, you'll get to cum more and I'll be self improving?"
"Yep! But you gotta stick it out to the end! That's the point. And to encourage that I'm going to set a few parameters and a wager..."
