At their next session Gail appeared in a suit but it was much more tailored than her 'one size too big' look of her first sessions. Mona took particular note of the blouse worn under the open jacket. It wasn't skin tight but closely followed Gail's curves. Those curves were very impressive; the woman had a very top-heavy hourglass figure. Gail noticed Mona assessing her and said, "This is my new office look-new suits and blouses that fit better. I keep the jacket buttoned when there are any men around. The other women in the office have noticed and have commented on my curves. One of them thought I had breast enhancement surgery and wouldn't believe me when I denied it. The other women set her straight saying they'd seen hints of my breast size before. They questioned why I covered my body up since they would all love to have a body like mine. I explained about the men's leering and they understood. One friend teased that sooner or later I'll forget to button up and give one of the guys a heart attack.
"In any case, when I get home I either unbutton or remove the jacket. Bill loves my new look. He's said the blouses could be tighter but he knows how I feel about the men at work so he realizes that's not going to happen"
At Mona's request Gail gave a summary of the past week as related to their past session. She reminded Mona that on the day of that visit she'd caught Bill's attention in the morning by wearing a form fitting dress she hadn't worn for years. Later, at Mona's suggestion, she'd teased her husband by phone telling him of the sexy lingerie she was wearing for the first time after about three years of plain cotton. They'd had a passionate evening that day but he'd then left on business for several days. In his absence Gail had culled most of her modest lingerie and baggiest clothing and donated it to charity. She'd bought some demi-cup bras and bikini panties. One set was especially delicate and had a matching garter belt- the first she's ever bought. She'd splurged on several pairs of high quality stockings and new 4" heels. With her husband away Gail had worn the garter and stockings with skirts and the high heels around the house for two evenings to get used to them.
Gail blushed and told of using the Internet to order her very first push-up bra for a special at home evening she planned to arrange for the next week. Realizing that she didn't have any slutty clothes to expose the cleavage the bra would display she'd bought a short Kimono style robe. It could be tied to cover up or expose her bulging breasts. These hadn't arrived yet.
Mona acknowledged that Gail had certainly been busy and asked if any of her purchases had been worn for her husband yet. Gail explained that they'd returned to their 'Second Anniversary restaurant' on Saturday night. She'd worn her garter belt lingerie set and told her husband about it during dinner. He'd gotten excited and they'd skipped dessert in their shared desire to get home quickly. At home he'd absolutely flipped at how sexy she looked when the dress came off. He'd hugged and fondled her passionately. Unfortunately, there was some grumbling and frustration when he took her to bed since her genital area couldn't be accessed without removing her garter belt, stockings and panties. Bill had found this somewhat disappointing but they'd had passionate sex when he'd gotten her clothes off. Later, Bill had told her how great it was that she was perking up their love life and promised to make his own efforts in that regard. Nothing had come of that yet but he was away on business again so there hadn't been much time.
Mona smiled and said, "It doesn't work with all styles of garter belts but many women put their panties on over the garter belt. It makes going to the bathroom easier and gives your lover much easier access. It also allows you to be very slutty and keep the garter belt and stockings on during sex; many men love that look."
"Oh my. That sounds very sexy. It never occurred to me."
Mona said, "I need to ask you more about your past sex life and about your husband. I was surprised when you said you'd never touched his penis. That's fine but as you said it's a little unusual after being married for five years. I assume you've seen his penis. Is there a religious or other cultural constraint on your love life that you haven't mentioned?"
Gail said, "I have seen his penis from a distance in the shower or when he's getting dressed. I haven't seen it up close and haven't seen it erect. As to the religion question the answer is yes and no. My husband and I both have very conservative religious backgrounds but we moved away from our communities and have tried to be more like everyone else. I hesitate to use the word 'Amish' because there are so many misconceptions but we each were raised in Amish communities. The subject of sex was taboo in our youth."
"Oh, I see," replied Mona. "That explains a lot. I think the average American man would have put your hand on his penis within the first month of dating if you hadn't done it yourself. That doesn't mean that's the right way for a guy to act but I think it's the norm in our society. Not touching him during five years of marriage is rather extreme. The Amish background explains things.
"Well, don't believe half of what you've heard about the Amish. For Bill and me it simply means we didn't have the exposure to TV, movies, books and the Internet that average kids have. We're not against sex; we're simply inexperienced. Between our busy schedules and other priorities we just haven't focused on sex."
"Okay. Well, I'm not a sex therapist and I don't think you need me to give you lessons in sexual practices. There are lots of resources for that. On the other hand, you did say your sex life in the early years of your marriage was much better than it is now. Can you describe a little of what you feel you had before but don't have now?"
Gail hesitated and said, "For one I'd say 'frequency' and two, 'passion'. We were very inexperienced but Bill used to make love to me every day; now it's maybe once a week. He was so excited to touch me and in particular to play with my breasts that he was almost out of control. Maybe it was the novelty of having my breasts available. He'd never seen or touched anyone else's breasts."
Mona said, "Oh. If your breasts were his first I can understand his being over-excited. It must have been like giving a Ferrari to a student driver."
Gail laughed and acknowledged that their first time together had been very clumsy. "We were both very nervous and somewhat in awe of the other person's body being so different," she said. "Bill ejaculated on my leg before he could enter me. I think I adjusted to being with him pretty quickly; he was like the proverbial kid in the candy store with my breasts for at least a year. He's still obsessed with them- just not as much and not as often."
"Well, I think that's a common experience for young couples. The early passion suffers as day to day responsibilities interfere."
