WARNING: If you don't like stories where the cheater gets away with it or gets forgiven for it, this story and many others in my catalog are not for you. Unless otherwise labeled, my stories are FICTION no marriage has been endangered to create this story. This is not our universe though it has similarities. STD's are not an issue in this universe, unless they feature in the story line. I don't care if you think every infidelity should end in divorce, or you would divorce. Your morals are not a part of my stories.
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I Love my Husband, But
Understand, this is not an easy decision for me. I am 39 years old, married for 15 years, two lovely children and a husband who adores me, and who I am still deeply in love with. I am thin, 5 foot 6. However, over the past few years our sex life has deteriorated. Then he was diagnosed with early onset prostate cancer. In the end, he had significant surgery, that in the end removed the cancer, and then two years of chemo. Finally, the effect of the surgery and the chemo, was total erectile dysfunction.
We tried everything, though he drew the line at surgery to implant a penile prothesis. I agreed with that decision, after talking to women whose husbands had gone that route. They said the effect was similar to a warm dildo. While a few loved it, most said it was not worth it.
Jeremy retired from sex.
But I am still interested, no horny, very horny.
We both work, so both of us have had opportunities for straying, and enough freedoms that with a bit of care, the other one would never know. I started by carefully sounding out some of the women in my social circle. All of us have had our kids and have reliable long term birth control, IUD's, implants, tubes tied, vasectomies. To my surprise, close to a third of them admitted to seeking comfort outside the marriage. Another third have seriously considered it, and still have it as an option that they are considering. Even more shocking, many of them were deeply involved in the church and present as faithful considerate wives. Those who are cheating and have a husband with a vasectomy also have a reliable alternate birth control. Many of those who are cheating are not what one would normally consider to be attractive, some overweight or others just not very attractive. All successful at cheating without getting caught. Some have been doing it for years.
Luckily for me, I am attractive, physically fit, normal to underweight, 38C breasts. People often under estimate my age.
I am getting ready to leave for work. "Jeremy, I am going out to dinner with Louise. She is having some problems and wants to talk. Dinner is ready to go in the fridge, and instructions for preparing it are on the counter. I don't know how late we will be."
"OK, I will get Andrea and Scott to help out with dinner." Andea and Scott are our children, aged 12 and 15.
I kiss everyone and head to work. Work is relatively smooth, nothing out of the ordinary, but busy. The day runs by quite fast. Louise and I meet at the restaurant in the downtown Hilton.
Initially we chat about kids, school and the challenges of getting our husbands to contribute to the spring cleaning. We order dinner.
"Louise, remember a while back I asked if you knew anyone who had cheated on their husband."
"Yup, are you thinking of doing it?"
I blushed. "Yeah, kind of."
"Jeremy no longer meeting your needs?"
"Yeah, not once since his prostate surgery two years ago."
"Hell girl, I didn't wait that long. After a gap of three months, I was on the hunt."
"Weren't you worried about getting caught?"
"OK, I look for sex, not an affair. An affair is long term, repeat encounters with the same man. That leaves bread crumbs. You need to set up a regular meet. That leaves bread crumbs. It may start spontaneous, but it soon becomes frequent. That leaves bread crumbs. You start texting and e-mailing together. That leaves breadcrumbs. You develop an emotional attachment. That causes you to behave differently. More breadcrumbs. Eventually the breadcrumbs add up and your husband notices, or his wife notices, then bam, fireworks. Women who don't want to get caught don't leave breadcrumbs."
"So, how do you avoid breadcrumbs? I don't want to create distress for my husband."
"None of us do. You have an advantage that I don't have. Your work takes you out of town every couple of months. If you can, organize your trip to allow you an evening free."
"Huh, evenings on the road are boring as hell. There is only so much TV I can watch. I do take books, but even that can get tiring. Then how do you find someone? Ideally someone who is not going to come back to bite me."
"I don't have as many options for travel, but George has his activities and he sometimes travels, so I hunt locally. If George is in town, I try to really restrict my searches. I use my work computer to find Giglios in the area. There are a few I have used multiple times. Strictly a commercial transaction. I make a point of forgetting my phone, so that if George tries to track me, it is in the kitchen. I do that often enough for things like walking group, or groceries or the hair dresser, that George does not see it as unusual. For instance, tonight, my phone is by the bathroom sink. George knows I am out with you, so if he needs me, he will have Jeremy try your phone. If that does not work, he will chastise me for forgetting my phone, though it is usually just a comment, 'You forgot your phone again!'"
"That will not be a problem, I chronically forget my phone." I check my purse. No phone. "See, I unintentionally forgot to bring it tonight. No idea where it is."
"OK, so we have an evening off. George and Jeremy are watching the kids. So, we can try the other way I have of finding short term partners."
"Oh?"
"There are three universities and a dozen tech schools in this city. Pick one."
I thought for a moment "Ladbrooke Tech."
Louise flags down the young waiter. "Tell me what bar do the Ladbrooke Tech kids hang out at?"
He gives her a strange look. Pauses for a minute, "Probably Franklins. It is the closest to the school."
"And where is Franklins located?"
"Southbank and 42
nd
Street."
"Thank you, can we have the bill please?"
"Of course."
"See how easy it is to get information without a phone?"