Who finds other women attractive but would never do anything without a catalyst (which is me and lots of alcohol).
Who wants to experiment, sexually, and who needs a few drinks, a local hotel room or a quick trip to Vegas to really let lose.
These are women who are in a rut, and rutting (fucking) with me gets them out of it.
I've been impressed at the sexual activity I have been able to start in some relationships.
One weekend I banged a woman who flew up with me to Vegas; she told her then live-in boyfriend it was a tradeshow and she had to work the booth.
This was just after I closed a smaller deal and she had some vacation time to use. My part of the deal was done and I got paid. I took her to Vegas as a way of thanking her for her efforts.
She flew out Thursday afternoon and came home Monday morning, her ass and pussy both sore as hell.
Even though she was sore, she was worked up. And that Monday night, from the minute he walked into their apartment until the next morning when he had to leave for work, they fucked. She was insatiable.
He didn't know what had come over her.
In a word: me. I had fucked her every day in all three holes and spent lavish sums of money on her to live the life of a princess for four days and nights.
We were picked up in a limo, we stayed in a three bedroom suite with a grand view, fucked in all the beds, went to fabulous shows, ate terrific meals, some of them nude in the room, took her on a helicopter tour of Vegas, went shooting at the 702 Range, had couples massages every day, got her a manicure and pedicure, her hair done twice, had a cabana out at the European pool at the hotel where she sunned topless in a tiny thong (a different colored one each day) after I shaved her bush down to a tiny strip.
You should have seen the looks around the pool when the 22 year old coed from UNLV I hired to be her "best friend" rubbed sun screen on her.
Imagine two topless beauties in tiny thongs rubbing oil all over each other. Every 20 minutes. From 11am to 4pm. One afternoon I had to hire a bodyguard to keep people away. Best $750 I ever spent.
She was so worked up after being fondled for five hours she became multi orgasmic. It was the first time that had happened to her. I take full credit for giving her a new universe to explore.
I took her clothes shopping, including lingerie; bought her some jewelry and we gambled a bit. Stayed up late, slept in.
She loved the attention, the gifts and the sex. I increased her sexual temperature and her boyfriend got the benefits without a clue as to who it was that lit her fire.
I know I changed their lives for the better.
So, what am I looking for? Women who are divorced or widowed are at the top of my list. These are MILFs, but I am not interested in having more kids, I want the ones who can't or won't get pregnant again. And, I won't touch married women. Separated, maybe, depending on the circumstances but married ladies should be sleeping with their husbands, not me.
I wouldn't kick a 25 year old out of bed, but my goal isn't to see how many of those I can fuck.
That age lady is looking for a sugar daddy, pop out a kid or five, quit their job and have someone else support them for the rest of their life.
I'm not interested in diapers, crying babies and trying to get a stroller through security and on a plane.
I want the women that are settled down, those who can hold a conversation and have the ability to take short trips. SF. Napa. Scottsdale. San Diego. Sedona. Santa Barbara. Laguna. Vail. Seattle. Sonoma. Tahoe.
Notice I didn't say Barstow, Bakersfield or Blythe; if you don't know where they are look them up on the map.
That's my background.
Enjoy my stories.
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For almost twelve years I was very happily married. One January afternoon as I was leaving the office, I received a call that my wife had been killed in an auto accident. She was on her way home from the school where she had taught for many years. It seems one of the local hot shot business guys had spent too much time on the 19th hole (the bar at the country club) and even though he was too drunk to drive, neither the bartender, the cocktail waitress or his friends had the sense to take away his keys and give him a ride home or to call Uber.
Driving well over the speed limit, drunk as a skunk and calling someone on his cell phone, and then running a solid red light, he t-boned my wife's car as she was driving through an intersection. She was killed instantly, which was the only blessing. The drunken bastard hardly suffered a scratch.
The funeral and services were a blur and I don't remember much of any of those days. I just remember the numbness and the sadness I felt. It was like living in Phoenix and instantly moving to Seattle, from sunshine and warmth to darkness, never ending rain and bitter cold.
The evenings were hard. The house, once full of life and laughter, was empty and silent. I cried a lot, drank a lot (I bought cases of expensive Cabernet at a time from Total Wine, they even delivered it). The TV was on but nothing registered. The newspapers were just words on print. I tried to sleep, but would wake up just a couple of hours after turning out the lights. Some nights I went to bed and couldn't fall asleep. I lost weight, couldn't and didn't eat much, didn't feel like doing anything.
I was astounded by the number of women who wanted to comfort me in my time of sorrow. Some were neighbors that I didn't think even knew who I was. Some of the ladies had taught school with my wife. Some were the moms of the students my wife had taught ----- there were a lot of these.
I know they wanted to comfort me, but as much as I was flattered, I wasn't in the mood. Me, a normally horny dude, not interested in sex with women who were interested in having it. Go figure.
I was very polite to all and declined the invitations at that time, but I realized that despite some gray hair, some very good looking women found me ... attractive. Or, eligible. Or available. Or, disease-free. Or breathing. Or a guy with money. Or a nice guy. Or, maybe they just wanted to have sex for their own personal reasons, you know, like using me as a live dildo.
I kept their names and contact information just in case I needed it down the road.
Locally, one solid, stable person in my life at this time was the housekeeper. She would come twice a week, Mondays and Thursdays, clean the house, talk to me and try to cheer me up. Her name was Monica.
Monica was Hispanic, not sure where she was from originally, maybe Mexico, and had also suffered some losses in her life. Her husband had passed away of a heart attack several years previously. She had two kids at the junior college, and she was struggling to get by money wise. I guessed she was in her mid 40s.
She had been cleaning our house for more than 10 years. She was short with shoulder length dark hair, no gray that I could see; beautiful round brown eyes and a smile that was contagious. I never thought of her as the hired help or any less of a person because of what she did or where she came from.
Monica was articulate and was a very hard worker. She had always been friendly and nice, welcoming me with a hug hello and goodbye, and wasn't afraid to ask me something if she had a question about what to toss out of the refrigerator and when she needed more cleaning supplies.
I liked that she liked to laugh and she got me laughing more as the days after the funeral went by.
Details aren't always my strong suit but I did notice that sometimes she wore makeup, and maybe lipstick. Nothing garish, like bright red, something along the lines of a light pink. Her complexion was smooth. She wore earrings that complemented what she wore, and once in a while I noticed a necklace.
Monica once had a great body but through the years she had added a few pounds around her hips and ass. Her stomach was pretty flat and she had nice legs. I'd say she had a good body that spring. When the weather warmed up, she had a nice tan; I knew her house had a pool and she liked to be out in the sun.
If you ever seen the beginning of the movie Hall Pass, the two main male characters go to ridiculous lengths to look at good looking women without their wives noticing. The wives not only see what these two yokels are doing, they call them out on their stupid behavior.
When it came to looking at Monica, I had always struggled. If she was in the same room I would watch her. I was trying to not be obvious. When we spoke to each other, it was hard to look at her beautiful, full dark brown eyes when she was smiling at me and talking to me because her breasts simply got in the way.
I didn't stare at her chest ----- honest! But my God, it was hard to miss because her tits were downright distracting.
It appeared to me that sometimes she wasn't wearing a bra because her breasts swayed. Her nipples poked out, a lot, particularly on those days when I had the air conditioning on. I think she realized that short of wearing a Mumu, she wasn't going to be able to hide her assets from me or anyone else. Within a few weeks of the funeral she just wore what I perceived to be tighter tops and yoga type black stretch pants. But maybe it was just me coming out of the fog.