I have a clitoris. If you're looking directly at my vagina, it's located sort of at the top. Even if I haven't trimmed my pubes, it's not that hard to find.
The guy who is on top of me, who I'm now having sex with either doesn't know or care.
I have a clitoris. I've heard that it has about 8,000 nerve endings. Whether it does or not, it's incredibly sensitive.
The guy whose penis is in my vagina, who I'm now having sex with either doesn't know or care about that either.
Even though I've got some other erogenous areas--the front of my neck, my nipples, even my ears--I've never cum except from stimulating my clitoris. I love the feeling of having a cock in my pussy, but I've never cum except from directly stimulating my clitoris.
The guy who is moving in and out of me, who I'm now having sex with either apparently doesn't know or he doesn't care about any of that.
He reminds me why I really don't like one-night stands. In a relationship, both partners should be concerned about each other's satisfaction. But, a guy who is only expecting to have sex with me this one time can only be concerned about getting himself off. Since he isn't worried about getting a second time, he doesn't need to think about what I need to orgasm. This guy doesn't seem to care even if he does know that I've got a clitoris.
If I sound bitter, sorry about that. In college, I had my share of one night stands. One morning, right before graduation, I woke up knowing that a guy had been there for part of the night but I didn't remember anything about him. I certainly didn't feel sexually fulfilled. If anything, I felt used. I was grateful that my STD screening was negative but I made a rule that I wouldn't sleep with a guy until at least our third date. I won't say I've kept to that rule one-hundred percent of the time but it's pretty rare that I don't.
I wish I had followed that rule tonight. It's Annie's fault that I didn't. She's more into serious one-night relationships than I ever could be. I don't judge but I wasn't thrilled when she asked me to hit the bars with her. I figured that she'd find someone to go home with and I'd go home by myself.