My husband knew I had been with many other men before we met and that I had sex with them. He wanted to watch me have sex with another man after being together 41 years. I think it was also to satisfy his voyeur needs. I was not sure I could go through with it but he told me me it would not be like cheating since he would be present.
After thinking about it, I came to several conclusions.
First...if I was going to take the next step in my sexual journey to become a Hot Wife, I had better do it now. I was not/am not getting any younger.
Secondly, we would have to find a suitable man.
At the time, we were both 68 and did not want a 25 year old. A man in his 50s and older would work. Someone who can still achieve a solid and hard erection.
We also knew we had to pick out someone we are comfortable with. Someone who could show they are disease free as I hate condoms. At my age, I would not have to worry about pregnancy at least.
Someone we could trust to not brag of his conquest. Someone who would respect boundaries. Someone who would not be such an alpha male that he would impugn my husband's masculinity.
We decided to use Adult Friend Finder and SLS and we got a lot of responses. Most were worthless.
But one stood out.
Single man. Got divorced a couple of months prior. Age 55. Nice looking. His name is Thomas. Professional job. Said he works out at a gym lifting weights several times a week. He wrote a nice paragraph about who he is.
Not one word about wanting to fuck or screw or do me, etc. We thought that spoke volumes as to who he is. Sounded very much like a gentleman. He says this would be his first time doing it with another man's wife.
When he said he was divorced I remember thinking "He is looking for pussy. He might be a great candidate. LOL."
We messaged him and said we wanted to meet.
We met up with him at the coffee shop. Neutral ground. If it did not go well, we could easily extract ourselves.
Our discussion went well.
We liked him and he liked us. We told him he needed to be disease free if he wants to screw me without a condom. We thought that would scare him off but he agreed to get tested. We also told him that my husband would be present. He wants to watch, but also just wants to be sure the man does not abuse me or cause other issues. He readily agreed. I guess he would - he wanted to fuck me after all.
A week later he shared the test results and he is clean. We agreed on a date and time. We booked a room downtown at a nice hotel on the river.
Now...it was getting scary.
I hoped I would not back out.
I hoped my husband would not get cold feet.
The day before, I got my toes done in "Hooker Red." The evening of the big event, I put on a nice dress and heels. Closely trimmed my pubic hair. Shaved my legs. Put on my sexy red bra and panties. Hubby was in his nice slacks and dress shirt. We packed our bags to spend the night and also brought the other essential -- Astroglide lube.
We did not bring condoms since he is clean. And, I am well beyond the age of worrying about pregnancy. I hate condoms anyway.
We drove downtown. We did not say a word. I guess we were both excited and nervous about what was to happen. For the first time in 31 years, another man, other than my doctor, would see me naked. And, for the first time in 31 years, I would have sex with another man.