My wife Martha was 30 and I was 32 years old at the time we became involved with the spouse swapping lifestyle. We are an upper middle class couple who live in a well to do suburb of a major metropolitan city. Both Martha and I were raised in upper middle class homes. I have a well-paid management position with a medium sized company in the city.
My wife tells me that she and others consider me to be a handsome guy and she has said, "Honey, I admire you for being a very gentle and very easy going gentleman who is willing to be of help to those who need and / or who have asked for your help." My wife has told me, "That is why I was attracted to you and why I agreed to marry you in the first place, Dear." Of course, there are a few other considerations that were involved in our decision to get married, too.
Martha is a stay at home wife and homemaker and we have no children although, she still has kept that idea in her mind since we have been married. Certainly, over time her urge to have babies will overwhelm the both of us and that will ultimately happen. She is active in our community and is involved in community organizations. Martha is a very beautiful young woman with a gorgeous face, a great hour glass shape and beautiful shoulder length light brown hair that sweetly curls around and frames her face. Martha's figure is second to none with her slim, not skinny, 5 Ft.-6 in. tall 130 pound body and her trim 36C-24-36 hour glass frame. She also has a vivacious warm and engaging personality. Martha is a really charming young woman who is the light of my life and she has been a huge addition to this lifestyle for us and we love each other very much.
She and I had been married for about five years and in that early stage of our marriage we had become involved with the spouse swapping life style. Our original concerns were that the spouse swapping activities would ruin and / or detract from our marriage. However, we have found out that it did not detrimentally affect our marriage and in fact we feel that it has been strengthened it by our new found life style. We have found that after one of the spouse swapping parties we have participated in, our desire for one another has been heightened and strengthened. We just can't wait to get home to satisfy each other again in our own marriage bed. And, holy shit, do we love to really enjoy each other when we get back to our home after one of the spouse swapping parties.
At our first spouse swapping party, Martha was very nervous and apprehensive about what we were about to get ourselves involved in. Our host and hostess had taken the time to talk with us and helped us resolve and allay our fears of what was happening and about to happen. In fact, I was later paired with our hostess and Martha was paired with our host. That resulted in a very pleasant evening for the both of us including our hosts. Martha and I both agreed that we had a really good time and we both wanted to continue participating in these spouse swapping activities in the future. In short, we both had become addicted to the spouse swapping life style
After we had attended several spouse swapping dinner parties we decided to host a spouse swapping dinner party at our very spacious and luxurious suburban home. Martha and I planned to have the dinner party catered which included the appetizer, the main meal, the desert and the before and after dinner drinks of several different wines along with some hard spirits for those who chose to have cocktails.
We invited five couples, four of whom we had met previously and knew from previous spouse swapping parties and with whom we were well acquainted. Those couples were well acquainted with the casual protocol of these parties. The fifth couple was Jack and Jackie who was a couple we had met at our local health club where Martha and I both work out. We had previously invited Jack and Jackie to our home for dinner as they seemed to be a very nice couple and they had a lot in common with us. In our conversations during our dinner engagement we raised the idea of spouse swapping and we offered to invite them to our next party.
Jack seemed to be in favor of attending the party but, Jackie seemed to be somewhat hesitant as many women naturally are inclined to be in that kind of a setting. She told Jack, "I'm nervous, Jack, at the thought of each of us having sexual relations with someone other than each other." Martha and I planned to talk to Jack and Jackie in a similar manner to that which our first host and hostess had talked with us. They had calmed our fears and made us feel very much at ease with regard to the swapping activities. I suppose that is it not uncommon for first time swapping couples to have reservations about what they are about to engage in.
We hoped to calm them and help allay any fears that they may have about the spouse swapping activity if they accepted our invitation. Besides, Martha thought that Jack was hot and she really liked him and wanted to be with him. Martha had said, "I would not have a problem with inviting him inside me, Fred." Similarly, I really thought that Jackie was a very beautiful and alluring young woman and I said "I would love to have her in my bed for at least for one night or more, Martha." We both smiled knowingly at each other and I said to her, "Well, we'll just have to see what happens, Honey."
In the invitation that we sent to each of the couples we as the host and hostess we listed the several simple ground rules. The host and hostess would provide several condoms on the dresser in each bedroom for their individual use as required by the swapping couple. A tube of K-Y jelly would be provided on each dresser for their use, as well, if needed. All swapping couples would be in complete agreement with each other and their respective spouses to form a swapping couple.
All expressions of intimacy such as kissing and sexual touching would be reserved to the bedrooms. All clothing removal would take place in the swapping couple's chosen bedroom. All sexual touching and fondling shall be done after the couple has retired to their chosen bedroom. Each participant in a swapping couple shall have the liberty to back out at any time up to the point of the initiation of intimacy. One suggestion for the women was if they chose not to undress in front to the man they chose to pair with that they should bring along a baby doll or other loose fitting pajama top and change into that before their correspondent enters their chosen bedroom.
Jack and Jackie arrive at the party.
Before leaving their home Jack and Jackie had agreed with each other that they totally loved one another and this swap would not affect their marriage. They agreed that they would only pair off with another couple if he received the final Ok from Jackie. If she chose not to participate in the spouse swapping that was Ok and they would take their leave of their host's home at that time and they would return to their own home.
When Jack and Jackie arrived at our home Jackie was as nervous as a cat. They were the fourth couple to arrive and we greeted them warmly and introduced them to the other couples at the party who were already seated in our spacious living room. Martha and I told them, "Fred and I are very happy to have you all in our home tonight to attend our party. We each have done everything that we could to make our guests feel at home and at feel ease this evening. We hope that everyone thoroughly enjoys themselves and has a very pleasant evening. We continued, "If there is anything that any of you want or need please don't hesitate to ask one or the other of us and we will try to accommodate your request if at all possible."
We told our guests, "We are waiting one the last couple to arrive and they are expected to arrive presently. It will be 30 to 45 minutes before dinner will be served and this time has been reserved as an introductory time for each of us to get to know one another." I had put some relaxing music on the sound system to help our guests get into a relaxed mood. We found that the soft music helped facilitate interaction and conversation between our guests. Martha and I had provided several different varieties of wine and spirits for all those who would like to have a glass of wine or a cocktail if they preferred.
Everyone in the party was offered a glass of wine or the spirits of their choice from the several varieties we had on hand. They all enjoyed their before dinner glass of wine or spirits while they got comfortable, relaxed, talked and got to know one another. The last couple arrived and after the introductions, Martha and I informed them that dinner was to be served presently. After that, we all went into the dining room where we all very much enjoyed our fine meal and our cordial and friendly dinner conversation.
Jack and Jackie make the swap.
After our dinner, we all retired to the living room for the after dinner drinks of our choice and for more conversation and relaxation. About an hour after dinner Jack and Jackie noticed that all the other couples had started to pair off between themselves and leave for their chosen bedroom but, they chose to remain seated. Martha and I moved over and sat across from Jack and Jackie and entered a discussion with them about whether they still wanted to participate in the night's swapping activities. Jack and Jackie both tentatively said, "We both still want to participate in the swap but we are still somewhat apprehensive about it."