My beloved and I have had a fairly open attitude towards sex in our relationship together. We have understood that we have sexual desires that fall outside of our relationship. So we have made allowances for extracurricular sexual activities.
When seeking sexual encounters with men it is fairly easy. There are many places one can set up profiles and arrange for sexual trysts and men are certainly more open to having sex and nothing but sex (even that can prove difficult).
Finding women who are interested in that type of thing is much more difficult. That, in my honest opinion, is why you will find so many straight men who occasionally engage in sexual activity with other men.
Women want to meet and talk first. It becomes an investment of time that usually does not yield any results as far as sex goes. This is obviously frustrating. Being open to man-to-man sex is sometimes a good solution. But if I am not in the mood for cock...Well.....that's where escorts come in.
Everything changes when there is money involved. This is something I think applies to everything in life. Sex is no different. It does not mean you cannot find a good sexual experience it just means you have to act accordingly.
When perusing escort ads you have to use common sense. For me vulgar ads are an automatic turn-off. It is important to speak to the lady on the phone and use your common sense. Within thirty seconds of speaking to someone I will usually have enough information to know with whom I am dealing. A lot of these women are very nice but, like with anything, one must look carefully.
If you want to have a good experience you should follow the same rules that you would follow in a non-paying experience. Be kind, polite, well-groomed and clean. Let me put it another way: Treat this like a real date. The only difference is you are guaranteed to get laid. Everything else will be the same. If you're an asshole she'll treat you like an asshole. If you are a gentleman she will probably give you a much better service. Why should it be any different? The lady you're paying is still a human being, not a machine. I have had many experiences with escorts and this approach has served me very well as a lot of these experiences have been very good ones. There is more to sex than just cocks, pussies, asses and tits. That's what makes sex so hot in the first place.
I called an ad that simply said "Afterwork Secretary". The woman who answered was very pleasant and seemed quite sane. She said her name was Cassandra. I asked for her physical description. She mentioned she had 40DD breasts. When I heard that I suddenly became very interested in something that I had fantasized about but had not really done at that point in my life. I said (as politely as I could), "If you will pardon my language, but is tit-fucking permitted?"
I thought she might hang up on me right then and there, thinking I was a jerk. She responded quite humorously, "I love tit-fucking!" I made an appointment and knocked on her door twenty-five minutes later.
Let me say that my beloved is an extremely attractive lady but she has rather small breasts. I've always liked smaller-chested women as their breasts tend to be nice and firm. Just the same sometimes I want to bury my cock between a nice big pair of hooters. I had had a couple of girlfriends in the past with large chests but none of them would have been open to this activity. I could not imagine either of them lying on her back while I slid my cock between her tits and squirted my come on her. One of them would not even suck my cock no matter how much I ate her pussy..... I had started to get very turned on by some titfucking I had seen in porn. One particular image had stuck in my mind and I had been eager for a good titfuck for some time.
"Cassandra" was not how I pictured her. Still, she was quite attractive sexually. She had an hourglass figure and a nice face and a very nice demeanour (and in reality that is one of the most attractive qualities a woman can have). In fact it is one of the most attractive qualities anybody can have.
Being new to this I allowed her to direct the action. I put the agreed-upon sum on a table and asked if I could take a quick shower. She give me a towel and I got nice and clean. When I came out of the shower she was in her bra and panties. she told me to sit down on a chair. She started to give me a little massage on my neck and arms and legs which is very pleasant and then she said to me, "Now for the breast massage". She removed her bra and lowered her tits onto my hardening cock. I was in heaven. My cock throbbed between her warm breasts. I asked her if she could lie down on the bed.