I have previously written about some of my experiences in my early 20s when I worked part time as an escort. Some of you who have been kind enough to leave positive feedback and have encouraged me to write more about what I got up to.
In this 2-part story, I recollect a couple of my kinkier and more unusual experiences.
Chapter 1. "Are you sub?"
I am often whether clients requested Dom/Sub type services.
Now I'm going to be honest. Quite a lot of the guys I saw expressed a desire to explore domination, BDSM or similar. However, most of the time I found their requests a bit a lame and not particularly erotic. I blame Fifty Shades of Grey! After those books and movies came out it seemed like everyone wanted to try BDSM. That could be handcuffing or blindfolding a girl, a bit of spanking, wearing latex, "rough" sex, using abusive language and much more.
However, generally what most guys didn't understand was that the eroticism of a dom/sub relationship is not really about those specific activities. Rather, in my view, 99% of it is mental. The feeling of dominance and control or the feeling of vulnerability and relinquishing control. Just because a girl is wearing a blindfold, and you are occasionally slapping her arse does not turn it into a dom/sub relationship.
In fact, the most erotic dom/sub encounters I've ever experienced didn't involve any equipment or costumes.
For example, I recall one afternoon with a client called Dave.
I should say at this point that everything in this story happened between two consenting adults. While outwardly the scenarios we played out might suggested coercion, ground rules and safe words had been discussed and agreed in advance.
I'd met Dave a couple of times before. He was single, in his late 20s and had previously booked me to accompany him to his work events. Pretending to be his girlfriend and chatting to his colleagues was so much fun, but that's not today's story!
On this occasion, Dave booked me for the weekend to be his plus one at a colleague's wedding.
Dave picked me up in his Audi and, as agreed in advance, we got straight into character,
As it was going to be a traditional church service, I had chosen a fairly conservative navy dress, which had a fitted top half and an A-line skirt that fell just above the knee. Finished with sheer tights and moderate heels.
I greeted him with a kiss on the cheek. He mumbled something back but seemed lost in his own thoughts as we drove off. In my experience, when guys are in that type of mood it's best to let them be. I put the radio on, and we travelled on in silence.
After nearly an hour, Dave's silence was now being interspersed with occasional sighs so I thought I should say something - we couldn't spend all day like this. I put a hand on his thigh and gently asked, "Darling, is something wrong?"
Dave breathed in deeply, stared straight ahead and then said, "I can't believe you're wearing that to the wedding!"
I was completely taken aback. I'd spent ages thinking about what to wear and had ordered an expensive designer dress that I thought he'd love.
Regaining my composure I asked, "What's wrong with this? You told me that I should wear something conservative and classy!"
Dave immediately snapped back, "Exactly! And instead, you've deliberately put on something that makes you look like a tease. Could your top be any tighter? And look how fucking short the skirt is!"
I was genuinely puzzled by his outburst. The top of the dress was fitted, which inevitably meant that it hugged the contours of small boobs, but there was no flesh on display. As for the skirt, it had obviously ridden-up to my mid-thigh when I'd sat down in the car but that was normal for a mid-length dress.
Dave fell back into silence. I was now pissed off with him and was happy not to speak.
As we rounded a narrow country lane, the SatNav showed that we were approaching the small village where the wedding was taking place. However, without warning, Dave abruptly took a right turn onto an even narrower track and pulled up on the grass verge.
I said nothing, I wasn't going to get into an argument with him. He opened his door, got out and walked off into the field while lighting a cigarette. I assumed he was calming down and just needed a short walk and a smoke to regain his composure.
A few minutes later I saw him heading back to the car and he seemed more relaxed.
He made his way to my side of the car and opened the passenger door. I offered him a conciliatory smile, pulling down on the hem of my dress to emphasise that it really wasn't that short at all.
However, in that moment the look of annoyance returned to his face.
Dave tugged my arm and in silence led me to the front of the car. Without warning, I felt him shove my shoulders, pushing me face down over the bonnet. He held me firmly in that bent over position.
My front was squeezed against the bonnet, and I could feel the warmth of the engine through my dress.
Dave lifted the back of my dress and in the same movement I felt his fingers dig into my tights. I heard the sound of the nylon ripping. I tensed as I felt a cool breeze on my skin where the hole in my tights was exposing my bum.