Thirteenth Installment in the "Latina" Series of Erotic Tales
In some of my early stories, I got confused between the width (thickness, diameter) and the circumference of a cock. A male reader pointed-out my error, and I have since corrected these stories. But his comments got me wondering what other women thought about the length, width, and circumference of cocks, and how my man's 8-inch length and two-inch diameter "measures up" against others out there. In addition to wondering about their men's size, and the frequency of sex, I also wondered whether other women out there had men who were as kind, romantic, loving, and generous to them, as my husband is to me. So I conducted an anonymous survey of women readers of my stories, and the following were the results. This is not actually an erotic story, but I included it in my story collection, because I think that these responses are entertaining and educational.
-- Latina
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OK, guys, here are the survey answers I've gotten, from 14 women so far. I've assigned a letter to each woman (A, B, etc.) who answered the survey. Sorry, real identities of these women must remain confidential.
Admittedly, this survey is skewed a bit, as these are all women with enough interest in sex, to subscribe to a mailing list of erotic stories. But then, isn't that the kind of women you men out there want? Maybe these answers will help you men figure out how to get you want from women like us, and maybe even help a few women figure out how to get what they want from men. I know these answers were very enlightening to ME!
You men whose cocks are less than 10 inches long and 3 inches wide can relax. 6 inches or more long, and 1-1/2" or more wide, seems to be more than plenty for the women surveyed. Those who care at all about cock size, prefer that it is wide rather than long. And besides, these women care more about how you treat them, than about how big your love muscle is.
You might recall that this whole survey began because, in the erotic fiction that I write based on my real-life husband and me, I have sometimes confused "width" or "thickness" (diameter) with how big it is around (circumference). There also seems to be some confusion as to whether to include the head in measuring cock length, or just the shaft. I determined that my husband's shaft is 7" long, 8" counting the head, and 2" across or about 6-1/4" circumference. I was curious about two things: whether any of this matters to OTHER women, and how my man measures up to other guys out there. The survey results have so far convinced me that other women feel the same about size as I do (it's nice, but LOTS of other things are more important), and that my man's cock is (as I suspected) a little bit bigger than average, but not the biggest out there. I was more than a little startled to learn that there has actually been at least one human cock measured at 13-1/2" long (OUCH!).
I was a little surprised that about half the women responding felt compelled to add, that this survey was FUN. They seemed to NEED to point out, that they ENJOY thinking about and discussing sex. In one way, it's sad that there's still an presumption that women don't enjoy sex, but in another way, it's reassuring that these women (and probably MANY more out there) are as PROUD as I am to have a voracious appetite for sex!
-- "Latina" (48-year-old electronics technician, 38C-28-36, VERY happily married, not looking for any relationship. Sorry, guys.)
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QUESTION 1: DOES size matter to you, as so many men seem to think? If so, what is the "ideal" length and width to you (how big is big enough to completely fill you up, yet not so big that he hurts you when he thrusts, or gags you when you suck him)?
Answers A: Not really. I am 4'11-1/4" tall and prefer not to die on the first entry to my love channel, or to suffocate with someone danglin' out of my mouth.
B: It matters a LITTLE. I like the feeling of being completely filled up with his DEEP THRUSTS. With practice, I learned not to gag when sucking his 8 inches. I prefer him only a little bit in my mouth, so there's room to roll my tongue around him while he's in my mouth--so in that sense, length doesn't matter, since most of it is outside my mouth. Length IS important for those DEEP THRUSTS, although thickness feels better in terms of me feeling liked I'm filled up. And once in a while, taking him all the way down my throat is a nice treat for both of us. Oh, and did I mention how much I enjoy how a 7 or 8 inch length feels during those DEEP THRUSTS?
C: ["ideal" length is] 6 TO 7 INCHES LONG, NOT INCLUDING THE HEAD,AND NO MORE THAN ABOUT 2 INCHES WIDE IS THE PERFECT SIZE FOR ME.
D. To me, size does not matter. The ideal length for me is the same as it is for Latina (2" wide), but he is 8 inches long.
E. I would call it more proportion than size, but yes, it does matter. Ability can make me forget that. (Smile) 8" is plenty...but smaller IF thick is great too. 2" wide is PLENTY for me.
F. Size does not matter. I can feel everything that enters my vagina, and as long as I have been aroused enough, nothing hurts....
G. No, size isn't the most important factor. Skill, trust in your partner, and what you feel for a person are equally, if not more, important.
H. It doesn't really matter when it comes right down to it, but based on a preference alone without the emotional attraction??? Thickness is very nice!!
I. YES size matters ... but only if you're small! I prefer girth to length... although I adore the deep hard thrusts!!! I was with a man once that was 9" (so he claimed) and he came the closest to being too big in length, but he wasn't FAT enough *grin*... I DO love the thickones!! Admittedly, my husband is PERFECT. Long AND thick. He has never let me measure but looking at a ruler, I suspect he's every bit of 7 inches in length (measuring the top as you do) and at least that around -- I can't wrap my fingers around him. I think he's PERFECT for fucking, but I prefer a shorter cock to suck... one that fills my mouth up without gagging me.
J. Well... I've been with my husband for almost 17 years, and his cock works just fine for me (grin) I think he is about 5 to 6 inches. He doesn't hurt when thrusting, but if I push him too far into my mouth, I may gag. But heck, that's fun too.
K: Length is nice, but width really closes the deal. I don't think that in normal life there are men that can truly reach the depths of a woman's vagina, but the width can certainly be the recipient of delectable friction, making width the truly important factor.
L. Size isn't as important to me as respect. I get more turned on when a man LISTENS to me, I mean REALLY listens. Sometimes, a guy's facial expression tells me he is just waiting for me to finish what I am saying, so he can bring up some new topic that's on his mind. Or he'll try to be a hero by offering me some simplistic solution to one of my most complex life problems. Total turn-off. Sometimes, though, a guy doesn't even have to say anything back, just his look or his touch tells me that he cares enough about ME as a person, not just as someone whose pants he wants to get into. He cares enough to have been listening to what I have to say. Of course, once he's done that and gotten me turned-on to him, feeling the friction of his really THICK cock siding against my soaking-wet interior feels REALLY wonderful!!
M. Like most women (I'll bet) I usually say that size doesn't matter... within reason. My ex-husband was barely 4 inches long and I'll confess I could hardly tell when he was inside of me. My current guy is perfect... according to the attached chart (I actually found it somewhere on the net), comfortably above average. He's around seven inches, and I do have a friend at exactly six--both are quite nice.
[The chart shows "low average" at 4-3/4" long x 3-1/2" to 4" circumference. Average at 6" long x 4-1/2" to 5" circumference. High average at 7" long by 5" to 6" circumference, which even when SOFT is 5-1/4" long x 4" to 4-1/4" circumference--gee, all that sucking adds only 1-3/4" to the average guy's length? Not sure that's very flattering to know! 9-1/2" long x 6-1/2" to 7" is extremely large, and painful for "some, but not all" women, and even that falls 4 inches short of the longest cock on record! According to the chart, up to about 8 inches long, the bigger it is, the more "physical and psychological stimulation" a woman feels. Beyond that, the pain evidently reduces any added pleasure from increased size. The chart INCLUDES the head in measuring cock length.]
N. Well, I'm usually too busy while in the throes of passion to whip out a ruler, and I hate for a guy to think I'm comparing him to my other lovers, so I don't have accurate measurements (or drawings!) of their size, my dear. Average is good. Tiny is not, but I've never seen one so little as to be useless, whereas I've seen one that was so big it banged into my cervix in an extremely painful way. I appear to possess no gag reflex, actually. No clue why, I just don't. Maybe I should consider it a challenge and search for one big enough to gag me.
QUESTION 2: How big was the biggest cock you ever PERSONALLY experienced?
Answers A: 9 inches long, 2 to 2-1/2" diameter.
B: 8 inches long, 2" diameter.
C: HE HAD TO BE AT LEAST 10 INCHES LONG, NOT INCLUDING THE HEAD, AND 2 TO 2-1/2 INCHES "WIDE".
