(Thanks to all who read, voted for, and sent me enjoyable feedback messages re: my first two stories recently— you are what keeps Lit authors tapping those keyboards!).
You know, NOT ALL first in-person meetings of web IM chat partners, within minutes of saying "Hi, nice to finally meet you" the first time face-to-face, end up becoming wild under-skirt gropes in public within two drinks' time followed by 24 hours of nearby hotel room marathon fucking and sucking. I guess it's happened that way to some, but I wonder, really, how often. And what such people are really like the rest of the time too!
After all, with due deference to those who write those kind of stories, they do have a fantasy/porno movie feeling about them and there's nothing at all wrong with that, if one wants erotic entertainment. But, in the real world, often the first meetings of internet chatters are very exploratory, tentative dates--- that weird mix of much intimate foreknowledge of someone with, at the same time somehow, the ambiance of a blind date, which has been the experience of "web daters" since the whole electronic hoedown began back in the 90's.
All who have had a "Jekyll and Hyde experience" upon really meeting someone they had chatted online with for weeks or even months, and thought they had a "handle" on, are nodding their heads in recognition now, knowing the truth I speak.
That's happened to all of us, sports fans. And on this chilly late Fall evening, dark already before 5pm, Dave wondered if it was about to happen again as he headed toward the agreed-upon initial meeting place….a suburban strip-mall restaurant and lounge. Inexpensive but not tacky, the convenient location was the crux of that decision.
Dave was about ready to just give up on any aspect of web-based dating. A string of, for lack of better word, disappointments, had been his experience the last several months upon first meetings with women. For the most part, the women had all wanted more. For the most part, Dave had been deciding that one date would be more than enough with them.
So his "one more try" date loomed in moments now. Dave, a still reasonably good looking man in his early 50's, knew that his date this time was named Linda, that she was about to turn 50, that she had a lovely smile on webcam with pouty little lips, and a body that was, although about a foot shorter than his own 6'2" frame, rounded without being nearly, as they say, a BBW.
He could tell from the cam that she, under her typical sweaters, owned a pair of breasts that were either formidable or magnificent depending on the viewing angle.
He arrived at the agreed-upon restaurant and parked, a few minutes late because of traffic. Shit, nice first impression, late again he thought. She'll probably already be here. He entered the restaurant, waved off the dining room hostess' approach, and headed for the dark lounge area. Wondering what awaited him now seconds away.
As he entered the dark bar, a basketball game on the widescreen TV, he saw Linda sitting there at a table-for-two, her first glass of wine already on the table, smoking a cigarette with the unmistakable pouty smile he'd seen so many times on webcam. With apologies for traffic lateness, Dave took off his coat and sat down with her.
Linda said not to worry about lateness, she was just happy to meet me at last, all was now good, no worries. Dave ordered his own first glass of wine from the hot little waitress who appeared, lit his own cigarette, and began to settle in and relax with this woman for what proved to be easy, comfortable initial conversation. She was dressed casual, just jeans and sweater.
Linda had been through her own string of unsatisfactory web-based dates-- the fat guys and tit-grabbers and just plain creepy ones. She had been hopeful that Dave would prove to be different in person than all the rest, that there might be "chemistry", but she also was about as close to just giving up on the whole web dating thing and just being alone as Dave had been.